Text | Meiya’s Mother

Poor parents in the world, which parent doesn’t want their children to be well? But we live in this world, and we are always affected by various situations, making it difficult to realize our inner thoughts. Sometimes they will let their children be wronged. Seeing their children wronged actually makes parents feel even more uncomfortable.

Due to heavy loan pressure, the father replaced his child with cheap milk powder, which made him cry with distress during breastfeeding

But when he took apart the can of milk powder and fed his child, Wiping tears sadly. It can be seen that he feels a little guilty in his heart, hating that he cannot make enough money to buy better milk powder for his children. But faced with the pressure of life, he had to do something.

Many netizens lamented that he was a good father because he wanted to give his daughter a better life, but he was unable to do so due to his mediocre income. Once this father becomes successful in the future, he will definitely give all the best things to his daughter.

A netizen named Egg Juan was deeply moved. When he was young, he was admitted to the key class of the provincial key high school. Unfortunately, his family had no money, so he had to choose to let her go to a technical secondary school to earn money early. money. On the last night when high school registration was due, Omelet clearly heard her father crying secretly in his room, saying that he had no ability and could not even afford to support his daughter in studying.

Later, Omelet actually went to a technical secondary school, and the tuition was paid for by relatives and friends. In order to pay for their children's monthly living expenses, their parents cook noodles and eat bean paste at home every day. Egg Wan said: "There are always many regrets in life, but your eyes are in front and you must move forward."

If parents cannot satisfy their children materially, how can parents make up for it?

① Being poor and being rich is not as good as educating

Whether you have money or your family is poor, it doesn’t matter when it comes to educating your children. The most important thing is that parents give their children good education. Let him become a polite person and know how to say hello to others when walking on the road, so that the child can be respected by everyone. If you encounter difficulties, everyone is willing to help your children.

②Give your children more care

Children are very insecure. If we cannot give our children enough material life, we might as well say I love you more in our daily life. . Let the child feel the love of his parents for him and understand that he is not alone in this world. No matter what the situation, his parents will stand behind him and support him. With this love, children will be more confident walking in the world and will not be defeated by bad words and attacks.

How should parents educate their children when they have low self-esteem?

①Take your children to the train station to have a look

When material conditions are not very rich, many children will feel inferior because their lives are not as good as those of other classmates. If your child has this situation, we can take the child to go to the train station and let them see the various aspects of society. There are all kinds of people in the train station. They may be migrant workers or social elites. We need to let our children understand that only through hard work can we become part of the elite, and belittling ourselves will only keep us standing still.

② Learn to encourage children

In daily life, we should not blindly attack our children and say that they cannot do anything well. Parents should have an eye for discovery, look for their children’s shining points, and encourage and praise their children in a timely manner so that they can gradually increase their confidence. Only such children can get rid of their inferiority complex and become a strong person.

Parenting Message: The reality is difficult to change. We may not be able to give our children a good life, but we must give them a good ideological education. What do you think about helping your child become a strong and confident person?

Today’s topic: Has your father ever done anything that moved you?