What age is it now? You still prefer boys to girls. You gave all your savings to your son to buy a house in full. Not to mention that houses in Beijing are so expensive, at least seven or eight million have risen. You are all old enough to take out coffins, and you are still in debt. What about future pension? What should I do if I get sick and take medicine at this age?

Not only did you not listen to your daughter's persuasion, you paid a down payment for your son's house, but you also asked your daughter to pay all the debts owed by her son's house purchase, and you also put the heavy responsibility of providing for the elderly on her shoulders. Why? Your statement is that your daughter lives at home and usually eats and buys cosmetics, so how much can these things be worth? Can there be millions? It is right for my daughter to move out, and it is also a kind of resistance to the violation of her rights and interests.

Now my daughter doesn't care about you. Although you bought your son a house in full, your daughter-in-law won't agree if you ask him to find a way to support you. I wonder what you old couple think?

First, why not give my son a down payment and let him buy a house with a loan?

There are almost no young people who buy a house without a loan now. The national loan interest rate for buying the first home is very low, and they can also use the provident fund loan with lower interest rate. Sons can take out loans for 30 years, and bear part of the loans themselves, so that they also have the motivation to struggle, knowing that it is not easy for parents to make a down payment.

I believe that if you old couple give your son a down payment, your son and daughter-in-law will have nothing to say about the rest of the mortgage.

However, you old couple got into a fight, not only took out the coffin book, but also owed their daughter a lot of debts to bear together. By doing so, you will eventually alienate others. Your son and daughter-in-law may not even say hello, and your daughter will feel very sad: did I pick it up?

Second, daughters and sons should be treated fairly by their parents, and unfairness will bring contradictions.

There are many phenomena in rural areas that exploit daughters' money to supplement their sons. Just like Fan in Ode to Joy, almost all the food and drink in a family should be borne by the daughter, while the sons and parents in the family seem to take it for granted.

Now some people call this phenomenon "helping younger brothers", which is too common in rural areas, and it is also the evil result of "son preference" left over from feudal society.

And your husband and wife can spend huge sums of money to buy a house for their son, which shows that they are also well-paid and educated. I don't know how they can be as patriarchal as their rural parents. It seems natural and natural to give all their property to their sons, and they don't feel anything wrong at all.

Not only that, but also let your daughter bear the heavy responsibility of repayment with you and let her bear the responsibility of supporting the elderly in the future. As a daughter, I will also think rationally. In the future, I will not only bear the debt of my brother buying a house, but also provide for the elderly. With the growth of age, the savings of the two old people have been hollowed out, and both pension and medical care need to pay for themselves.

The old man's property has nothing to do with himself, and everyone will resent this unfairness. Therefore, my daughter chose to move out. Since I didn't get my parents' property, my parents' future pension has nothing to do with me.

Conclusion:

Now you think that after your daughter moves out, the pension is at risk of being neglected, and you are beginning to worry. what are you going to do？ Go and ask your son to support your old age.

I have met stupid parents, but I have never seen such stupid parents. You don't live in the countryside, but your feudal thoughts are so serious. You must think that your daughter will be married in the future, so you can't give her property, only your son can inherit it. Daughters have no right to enjoy their parents' property, but only have the right to contribute to this family. This stupid and decadent idea not only completely ruined the relationship between you and your daughter, but also pushed your future pension to the point where there is no way out.

Do you live in ancient feudal society? You live in a modern society, and you are really speechless and unsympathetic. At this age, if you make this choice, it can be said that your future children will not support you.

The evil you created can only be solved by yourself. Really sad for your misfortune, angry for your misfortune. The parents are really a good couple. They have no sympathy at all.