An epidemic has shaken the whole country.
Everyone also responded to the call of the country, consciously isolated and stayed indoors. Trying not to increase the burden on the country, but really not going out to work, only to find that not everyone can safely cook salted fish. After all, only they know the sadness of having no money, such as paying off the mortgage and car loan.
With the epidemic, a large number of small and medium-sized enterprises closed down. After all, there is no output, but both site rent and equipment maintenance cost money, which is difficult to maintain.
So many people lost their jobs overnight. No job means no income, no income, and how to continue living has become the biggest problem.
Many young people living in first-and second-tier cities don't have their own houses, so they have to pay rent on time and on a monthly basis. Some of them earn a good income. Even if you buy a house and a car with a down payment, you have to pay back a lot of loans every month to barely maintain your salary. Once this balance is broken, suddenly there is no income, which is tantamount to a bolt from the blue.
Do you know where the collapse of adults begins? That is to borrow money. I usually treat everyone as a friend and feel that people around me are very close. I never imagined how many people would stay with me if I ran out of money one day. If I need to borrow money from them one day, how many people will stay away.
But when this day really comes, there is really no way. I finally put down my dignity and face and borrowed money from my relatives and friends, only to find that what is really sad is not the loan itself, but many feelings that you once believed in will be broken in the process. It is the most difficult thing to accept these changes and see how people are cold and warm and how the world is cold.
From these changes, although I may feel that my three views have been refreshed, what I really should recognize is not to pin my life on others. After all, it is best to rely on everyone to run and rely on yourself.
The sense of security is not given to you by others, but by yourself, but how to give yourself a sense of security? Believe me, money is the best sense of security for adults.
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My friend once said this to me. She said I was different from other girls. Other girls like beautiful clothes and shiny jewels.
But I only like the money in my pocket, the money in my card and the money in my mobile phone.
Only having money can make me feel more at ease, I won't panic when something happens, and I won't lower my worth because of a little kindness.
Yes, only when you have money in your hand will you have less worries. In the face of some unexpected situations, you can calmly deal with them. If you don't encounter some problems, you will be at a loss, rush to the hospital and borrow money everywhere. Finally, you will run away from your relatives and friends and lose face and dignity. How sad.
In fact, this society is really realistic. Although everyone is equal, speaking with money is more emboldened. No money is not inferior, but in the face of the same problem, people with economic strength and those without economic strength stand together to compete. I don't blame others for only looking at interests and not caring about others. I only blame myself for not neglecting life and being incapable.
Many times, family, friendship and love actually need money to maintain, and eating without relatives is the greatest ambition.
If one day you are successful, rich and powerful, you will find that people around you will have different attitudes towards you. The reality is cruel. No one can live in a dream all the time. After all, anyone can be without money, but not without money.
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Money can go to Wan Li Road, but it is difficult to move without money.
Only when you have money can you have confidence, and only when you have money can you give yourself the best sense of security. Believe me, when you hold the money firmly in your own hands, no one can give you that kind of sureness.
Under such a special situation, the rich regard it as a holiday and rest in peace, while those who have no money can only sit on pins and needles every day, suffering cold eyes and losing face.
See, this is the difference between having money and having no money. People who eat whole grains will inevitably get sick. Rich people can go to the best hospital and get the best care when they are sick, but they have no money. Don't be silly, they dare not get sick without money. Even if you are sick, you can only choose to get through it. Going to the hospital is too extravagant for them.
At this point, I just want to tell you that if you want to live with dignity, self-confidence and face, you can't pin your hopes on anyone, but try to make money and enrich yourself from now on. When you have a certain economic strength, you will find that you can hold your head high in front of others and never feel inferior again.
Security sounds like a very illusory thing, and there seems to be no way to visualize it for you.
To put it bluntly, I'll describe it as practical. If you have money, you won't worry that people around you will leave you because of money. You can talk with confidence if you have money. What can be solved with money is not a problem. This is a sense of security. This is sureness.