How to solve this problem can only be said to look at your feelings with your husband! If it were me, I really wouldn't love this husband who lent money to his brother from a third party without telling me. 0.2 million/200 thousand is not a small sum for an ordinary family, nor is it for his brother's debt. If his brother doesn't pay back the money, the debt will become a joint debt of husband and wife. This is completely unbearable, and I am determined to divorce. Husband and wife jointly deposit 200,000 yuan, after deducting100,000 debts. Do I still need 50 thousand?
If you can't give up your feelings with your husband, you must share 100 thousand debts with him. Even if the husband and brother can't pay back the money for the time being, they should write IOUs. This matter should also be handled by in-laws, as long as the monthly repayment amount and repayment time are agreed when the younger brother is able to work. Considering that we are all relatives, 300,000 yuan and 200,000 yuan need not be returned. This not only takes care of her husband's feelings, but also takes care of her small family.
In fact, a family is husband and wife. You should put your small family first in everything you do, and try your best to help your relatives and friends without involving your family!