This is a typical life-saving crime. More importantly, it doesn't take long at all. When people come to your door, bomb your friend's address book and invade your credit information, you will have endless crimes and endless people.
Aren't you afraid of these? You are scared, but why can't you tell your family? In your subconscious, you are more afraid of being criticized, scolded or even beaten by your family than being humiliated by outsiders bombing your address book. What you are most afraid of is getting close to K.
Why is this happening? Because you don't trust yourself and the people you love.
You don't trust yourself, because you go online to borrow money, and you fall into a huge trap, which will definitely bring huge economic losses to yourself and your loved ones. Watch it happen, but there is nothing you can do. What you want to do most is actually blindfold yourself and plug your ears, and all this is a nightmare. It's just that nightmares will eventually wake up, but online lending is much more terrible than nightmares, and it won't let you go. It's not that you don't want to tell your family, you just want to tell them. Best of both worlds? The solution can not only pay back the money, but also maintain your self-esteem. However, the endings of countless online loan stories have punctured this illusion, leaving only a chicken feather and even paying the price of life.
You don't trust your relatives. You think they will be completely disappointed in you because of the losses you have brought them. They will no longer love you, let alone care about you.
You can't trust anyone. You leave yourself alone.
Your distrust comes down to the fact that you can't face yourself, the person you love, and you don't have the courage to repent and turn over a new leaf.
You don't want to face your mistakes, and you don't want to be accused by your relatives. The meaning behind it is actually very clear. You haven't had enough courage to repent and turn over a new leaf, and you haven't fully realized the nature of your mistakes.
If you really think about the whole incident, you should be able to understand what caught you in the online loan trap. Maybe it's a moment of vanity, maybe it's a lust for enjoyment. In short, you magnified and indulged the weakness of your own mind and were used by others. If you don't really reflect on this, if you don't really learn from it and repent, this is the most terrible thing. Because the next bigger and deeper trap is still waiting for you, even if your family may be able to save you this time, next time, no one may be able to save you.
What should we do now?
Calm down, clarify the cause and effect, explain everything to your family, especially analyze your mistakes seriously and sincerely, and express your determination and courage to repent and turn over a new leaf. It's better to make it clear that you will return the money you filled in this pit to your relatives in the future.
In fact, relatives are not afraid of your mistakes or filling holes for you. What they are afraid of is that you made a mistake and didn't know it. They are afraid of you, into the pit. What they are afraid of is that you will make a mistake next time and into the pit next time.
As long as you wake up, as long as they confirm that you really understand, they will never go to into the pit again. They may scold you or even hit you twice, but their hearts have settled down, and this matter will really end the moment you wake up.
Therefore, the captain strongly urges you to follow my advice, not only to make things clear so that your family can help you solve all kinds of troubles, but also to show your determination and will and reassure them. So, there is nothing to worry about. Again, when you wake up, the hardest time is over.