"Young people do not know the meaning of parents, raising children to know the grace of parents", seems to be a simple and straightforward sentence, but contains a profound meaning, said the parents in the process of children's growth in the painstaking efforts, full of children in the adult after the parents of gratitude.

Combined with my personal experience, I would like to talk about my understanding of the three levels of meaning contained in these two sentences.

One, young and uninvolved, in the parents' selfless love and tolerance to thrive

Young, food, clothing, housing, transportation and other things are dependent on parents. It's no exaggeration to say that my parents held up a piece of the sky for me.

No money to find parents to ask for money, want to buy something to ask for parents, want to eat something parents to take to eat, laundry and cooking and other logistical support work by parents to do, just study on it, other things do not have to worry about their own.

Parents will be able to satisfy their own demands, so it can be said that they are growing up under the protection of their parents' strong arms.

It can be said that this is the most carefree time, but it is also the years that parents pay the most.

Parents give us the best things, for us to pay a lot, but at this time we can not think of so much, think this is deserved, because almost all parents around us are treating their children this way.

People are not frivolous in vain, not to mention the youthful rebellious period.

With the gradual growth, the outlook on life, values, world view gradually formed, with their own personalities, have a good friend around, will from time to time, a little temper, parents do not follow their own ideas will not be happy.

By the side, on the network, the child is pampered to the parents of the case of tantrums abound, suspected of parents meddling in the matter, complaining that parents earn less, and even worse, will scold the parents. Of course, there are a number of reasons for this, such as the parents' discipline, the physical characteristics of the growing process of mental development is not mature enough, personal character traits, and so on.

Then, the parents of us, more tolerance and forbearance, this is their way of expressing love, but we often ignore this love can not be touched, is really in the blessing of the blessing.

Secondly, when I was a parent, I had to bear the burden of parenting

Then I got married and had children, and my life entered a new phase, and I had to bear the burden of being an old man and a young man, and I had a new understanding of life, and I had a new understanding of life.

First-time father, inexperienced, from the most basic how to hold the child, how to breastfeed, how much to feed, how to burp and so on to start, everything, all will not be able to, can only be in the old man's guidance, bought a variety of parenting books according to the books to learn, for fear of not doing a good job of commissioning the child, it can be said that the hands and feet in a frenzy, the hard work of a million points.

The child is gradually growing up, to take care of his daily food and drink, to arrange for kindergarten and school pick-up and drop-off, to take time off to accompany the sick, to buy toys to buy books and paintings to do a good job of screening, to take the trouble to choose to compare which interest classes to report, midweek and weekend to accompany to the class, a large part of the life of the time and energy are accompanied by a child, and the work of the child can not be delayed to earn more money for the child to build a solid material foundation for his future, and the child is the most important thing. The company's website has been updated with the latest information about the company's website, including its website, the company's website, and its website.

All in all, everything parents do is for their children to have a happy childhood, to be well educated, and to have a good start and a good foundation for their future life. Parents have truly become child slaves.

This time, to y feel the parents of parents is not easy, parents in order to children's growth has been in the silent pay, the brain for the development of children to do a good job of planning and top design, action but also do a good job of all kinds of work, the perfect interpretation of the unity of knowledge and action, it can be said to be physically and mentally exhausted.

Then again, the parents have to straighten their backs and face the sun every day with a strong smile.

Three, through the world, more understanding of the greatness of parents, to be grateful to return parents

Watching the children grow up day by day, parents day by day, we are gradually from youth to middle age, work, family, life, like three tracks, one can not fall behind, the pressure is great.

Life is nearly half, through the wind and rain, more appreciate the hard work of parents and great.

At this time, we must not neglect our love for our parents while we are fully committed to raising our children.

This love is filial piety, is grateful, is to give back. It is the precipitation of love through the world, more mellow and thicker.

The Japan Filial Piety Executive Committee has compiled a book called "55 Things You Need to Do Before Your Parents Leave," and on the cover of the book there is a formula:

"If your parents are 60 years old, and your parents have 20 years of life left to live, and you don't live with your parents, the number of days you see your parents each year is about six, and the amount of time you spend with them is about 11 hours a day. The time spent together is roughly 11 hours! So: 20 years x 6 days x 11 hours = 1320 hours, which means you only have 55 days left to spend with your parents..."

The results aren't necessarily how accurate, but the results are shocking and more solid.

Therefore, it is important to fulfill your filial piety before it is too late, and not to wait until it is too late to repent when "the trees want to be quiet, but the wind does not stop, and the children want to raise their parents, but they are not waiting for them".

People in their old age miss their children. You can also call your parents and send them a video to talk to them and ease their pain of missing each other.

With parents **** with the preparation of a sumptuous dinner, the family sat around the table at home, and beautifully ate a reunion dinner, painfully with the father a few cups of wine. The restaurant outside is more magnificent, but there is no cozy atmosphere at home.

Be a good listener, don't mind your parents' nagging, don't blame them for talking too much, they are really out of touch with the times, but they just want to talk to their children more and reminisce about their past lives, whether bitter or sweet.

The meal and the smell lingers all over the house, face to face nagging parents, is really - the feeling of home.

Four, conclusion

People to the middle age, on the old and the young, "rain and shine" high quality accompanied by the whole family everyone, is the true meaning of life. I have grown up, you are not yet old, I have the ability to make money, you are healthy, grandchildren and grandchildren are happy, *** enjoy the happiness of the family, this is the most enjoyable time of life.