"Under Mozi's Universal Love" said: "Words must be done, actions must have results, and words and deeds should be integrated. This is still in line with Jeff's, but words are not feasible."

In other words, a man must keep his word, act resolutely, and match his words with his deeds, just like Jeff's raid and redeployment. You don't have a word that you just say and don't do.

Keep your word means keep your word, and keep your word. You don't need to practice deliberately, you just need to observe attentively, because everything you say and do is the most basic accomplishment of being a man.

A person's greatest achievement is to keep his promise.

Keeping promise is the best life gift for parents to give their children.

British politician Fox spent his holiday at home when he was young. His father had a pavilion in the yard pulled down. He wants to see how the pavilion is dismantled and plans to go back to school in a few days.

In order to get him back to school on time, his father promised him to postpone the dismantling of the pavilion until the holiday. But when his son left, his father immediately demolished the old pavilion and built a new one.

When Fox came back, he found that the old pavilion was gone. He said to his father in dismay, "I'm so disappointed that you didn't keep your promise."

My father was a little shocked. He didn't expect such a young child to attach so much importance to his promise, and at the same time he was ashamed of his behavior.

Fox was deeply impressed by this experience as a child. During his 38-year career as a member of the House of Commons, he actively defended freedom and promoted the abolition of the slave trade, which was deeply loved by the people. After his death, he was awarded the honor of being buried in Westminster Abbey in London.

Parents' words and deeds are the window for children to see the world. Trustworthy parents will give their children full trust, and in the later life, children will naturally be full of trust in the world.

Parents with different words and deeds give people the impression that promises can be changed at will, but asking their children to be honest and trustworthy is tantamount to seeking fish from the edge of a tree.

Keeping one's word is the most precious gift given by every parent in the child's growth stage.

Trustworthiness is a preservative for a long-term marriage.

Colleague Xiao Li divorced after two years of marriage. The reason is that she thinks her husband doesn't love her anymore.

When I was in love, my husband promised to do housework and make money after marriage, but this promise only lasted for a few months.

From then on, my husband began to lie on the sofa and play games as soon as he got home. He doesn't sweep the floor or cook. He looks like a playboy.

What makes Xiao Li unbearable is that her husband has always said that he wants to do sideline business to make money, but in the end he has done nothing.

I got the plan to open a tea shop today, but I said no in two days; Tomorrow, he said he would cook fast food. Xiao Li advised him to look around the market first. But her husband didn't go to bed until noon on weekends, and went to get together with friends in the afternoon.

Long-term empty talk and no action made Xiao Li very disappointed with her husband and felt that the so-called deep love was just empty talk. The contradiction between the two escalated with the man's repeated breach of contract. Finally, Xiao Li couldn't bear it and filed for divorce.

There is an old couple, whose husband can't cook, but he makes soup very well. He promised his wife to cook soup for each other all her life, and he really did.

The old couple took care of each other all their lives until grandpa died. Grandma always looks happy every time she talks about her husband's soup.

Then where is a bowl of soup? It is obviously my husband's love for life!

It is because of their commitment to each other that two people who had nothing to do with each other were combined. And fulfilling the promise is to turn all the sweet words into fireworks with action.

As Fu Lei said: "You will find that the so-called quiet years are just that bowl of hot soup and that lamp that is always on for you."

The sweetness of love is not how romantic life is, but the deep love in the warmth of a porridge and a meal.

Trustworthiness is the best boost to career success.

In an enterprise, managers make employees believe that the boss is trustworthy through the "trustworthy" behavior of employees, thus sincerely paying for the enterprise.

1987, Liu Chuanzhi decided to use contract system to reward employees who completed sales tasks. At the end of the year, the sales staff successfully completed the task.

This means that each person in the sales department can get a bonus of more than 6,000 yuan, which is equivalent to more than 60 times Liu Chuanzhi's salary that year.

Just as the salesperson was waiting for the bonus, the problem appeared. The state has issued a policy on bonus tax: when the bonus exceeds 3 months' salary, it must pay 300% tax.

This policy makes Liu Chuanzhi very embarrassed. Give him a bonus. According to the national policy, after the tax increase, the company's funds are simply not enough for such a large sum of money. If you borrow money to pay bonuses, you will be punished by the tax authorities, and the fine is a bigger expense.

But if you don't send it, you will lose faith in your employees. After careful consideration, he decided to keep his promise to employees. Therefore, Liu Chuanzhi borrowed money everywhere and gave bonuses to employees.

Liu Chuanzhi was reported by others for borrowing money to pay bonuses, and the tax bureau punished him. In this regard, someone told him: "It is not worth it to be fined for borrowing money to pay bonuses."

It is precisely because of Liu Chuanzhi's words that the employees who received bonuses in those years are still in the company.

It is precisely because of this that Liu Chuanzhi can turn a small factory with an investment of 200,000 and employees 1 1 into a Lenovo group in the world's top 500.

As the saying goes, "if you get the word, you will get more help, but if you lose it, you will get less help." Trustworthiness is the way of enterprise management.

An enterprise manager who "keeps his word" and an enterprise with a corporate culture that is consistent with his words and deeds will certainly gain the trust and recognition of partners and consumers, thus helping the enterprise to achieve greater achievements.

As the online saying goes: "Your greatest success is not how much capital you can attract, or how much income you have, but your character of matching words with deeds."

Laozi said: "If you promise lightly, you will break your promise. If it is easier, it will be even harder. " .

Easily promised, not paying attention to cash, forever, will inevitably lose faith in people; If you don't seriously consider the complexity of things, you think it is easy to do, but in practice, there will naturally be many difficulties.

Say and do, and you can work out your skill.

Therefore, to recognize that a person is unreliable, just take a look and see if he is trustworthy.

May the good cultivation of trustworthiness accompany you to go further in the impetuous society.

Authors: Snow falls without dust, writer, emotional counselor. If you encounter any emotional troubles, you can trust me privately and I will help you analyze and solve them.