From it, we can read about those people and things that spread among the people in ancient China.
Crazy plastic surgery, a handful of tears of missing women is a classic folk story.
Three unhappy marriages
The daughter lives with her.
Wang Qin is a Tujia.
When I was 6 years old, I came to Tieshan District of Huangshi City with my parents.
Her father is an employee of Chengchao Iron Mine in WISCO. Wang Qin likes literature and art since he was a child.
At the age of 4, he performed on stage. 1end of 968
Wang Qin, who studied in Enshi Health School, was sent to an isolated village in Chengchao Commune, Ezhou City.
Wang Qin is young and beautiful.
Become the target of local youth chasing.
Several young people also fought for her. Production team leader to stabilize the overall situation
Wang Qin was given an ultimatum: she must get married quickly. later
The captain chose a family for her.
Take her rations and luggage together.
"Have a good life with others." Wang Qin is helpless.
Have to listen to fate.
The husband doesn't love Wang Qin.
Plus Wang Qin can't do farm work.
In-laws don't like her either. 197 1 year
Wang Qin gave birth to her daughter Wang Xiaoyan. The husband's family who prefers boys to girls does not give her a good look.
And threatened to give the child away. Wang Qin was just after her daughter's full moon.
Took her daughter back to her parents' house.
Ended this humiliating marriage.
Because the registered permanent residence is still in the countryside
She has neither food nor a job in Huangshi.
Had to go back to the countryside.
In the countryside
The life of mother and daughter living alone is very difficult.
Wang Qin's greatest wish is to be able to recruit workers back to the city. When my daughter was seven months old,
She met teilen (a pseudonym). Teilen calls himself a national cadre.
And brought a recruitment form
Said, "All you have to do is marry me.
I can take you back to Yellowstone. "In order to live, Wang Qin reluctantly agreed.
Only after marriage did Wang Qin know
Teilen is just an auto mechanic.
There is no ability to transfer her back to the city. But what's done is done
Besides, teilen can support her and her daughter.
Wang Qin had to submit to humiliation.
The third year after marriage
Wang Qin gave birth to his son Zhao Jin (a pseudonym). Although life is stable
But the longer it takes,
The more Wang Qin thinks teilen is unreasonable. At that time, Wang Qin was the director of public security mediation in the neighborhood Committee.
Often go door to door to deal with disputes. But she walked into someone else's house with her front foot
Follow her husband all the way and his hind feet will rush up.
kick the door open
Make Wang Qin lose face. Wang Qin reasoned with him.
He actually said, "I can't throw the fish in the river." What makes Wang Qin intolerable is that.
Teilen also often tells others about marital intercourse. 1979
Wang Qin divorced again.
Considering that my daughter needs a stable home when she grows up.
1983
Wang Qin got married for the third time. The third husband, Li Danian (a pseudonym), likes gambling.
But can do housework.
All the work at home is covered.
A model husband in the eyes of outsiders. Thinking of her husband is very family-oriented.
Wang Qin will bear it down.
Then she gave birth to her son Li Kang.
however
Li Danian actually had a mistress. After a period of entanglement
1987
Wang Qin and her daughter went out clean again.
Daughter's death
A letter becomes spiritual comfort.
later
Wang Qin has never been married again.
Pulling my daughter to live alone.
In order to survive
Wang Qin worked as a porter in Chengchao Iron Mine for two years.
Worked as a barber again
Open a restaurant
Worked as a nurse. She works hard at everything.
She also often participates in various cultural performances.
Even Shang Yan. Through hard work
She and her daughter have a house of their own.
Life finally smiled at their mother and daughter.
200 1 year
Wang Qin retired as a nurse. My daughter has grown up, too. Wang Xiaoyan inherited all the advantages of her mother.
Outstanding appearance
Can sing and dance
From studying at school to working, he has always been the backbone of literature and art. A community performance
Mother and daughter went on stage together.
Sing Yue Opera after Peking Opera.
Won a full house.
leisure
Recall one's unhappy marriage
Wang Qin felt that she owed her daughter too much over the years. In those difficult years
It is her daughter who has been with her.
Gave her a lot of comfort. And the daughter is dependent on others.
I have suffered too much with her.
I also suffered too much supercilious look from two stepfathers. Think of these
Wang Qin felt particularly close to her daughter.
In 2002
Daughter is married
Pregnant in the second year
Wang Qin was happy from ear to ear.
I cook a lot of dishes at home at intervals.
Take it to your daughter in a thermos.
June 20, 2004
Wang Xiaoyan was pushed into the delivery room. Wang Qin brought the already sewn baby bedding and clothes.
Waiting outside the door with the whole family in anticipation.
Excited and nervous.
But Wang Xiaoyan has been in the delivery room for a long time.
Never came out
Wang Qin's heart was pounding.
Tears flowed down unconsciously. She secretly wiped away her tears.
But not for a while
Tears can't help flowing down again. ......
finally
The door of the delivery room opened.
The surly doctor came out. The doctor brought a shocking news: Wang Xiaoyan was bleeding heavily because of dystocia.
Died. See the daughter whose body is covered with white sheets.
Wang Qin suddenly fainted.
After my daughter left,
Wang Qin enlarged her daughter's photo to life size.
hang (sth) on the wall
Don't eat or drink
Looking at photos all day and crying. Relatives and friends have advised her to get out of the haze.
But it didn't work.
To take care of my mother
Li Kang, the youngest son, moved in with his mother. There is still little smile on Wang Qin's face.
One day after her daughter died six months ago.
Wang Qin found a diary while sorting out her daughter's belongings.
There are several pages in it.
Turns out to be a letter my daughter wrote to her when she was alive:
"Mom.
I'm deeply in love with you.
I'm afraid you feel sorry for me.
Pretend to be so happy.
Our mother and daughter live on each other like this. at dead of night
I prayed helplessly.
Pray that my mother will always be with me ... Mom.
I have long wanted to tell you these words.
The words came to my mouth but I swallowed them. I really want to cry to you.
I'm afraid you'll be sad for me. Mom, you have to be strong
No matter what happens in the future
I hope my mother will always be beautiful.
Find the past youth on the stage ... "
I haven't finished reading the letter.
Wang Qin was in tears. My daughter has suffered a lot since she was a child.
But my daughter didn't hate her.
I also hope that she will be "beautiful forever"
Find the youth of the past on the stage. " It suddenly occurred to her
The daughter is looking at her in the sky.
And indulge in sadness all day long.
My daughter will be heartbroken. Think of this.
Wang Qin was suddenly enlightened: Xiaoyan
Mom, from today on, not only should she live well.
And live beautifully.
No one thought of it.
Next, Wang Qin will go from one extreme to the other.
Comfort my daughter
Crazy plastic surgery goes to extremes
My daughter was a community literary activist before her death.
Wang Qin found the community director.
He said, "Please let me know if there are any activities in the community in the future.
Daughter's absence
I'll make it up for her "On the stage where my daughter used to perform,
Play the role that my daughter once played
She seems to be in her youth again.
Wang Qin is becoming more and more "restless". In 2009
Her autobiographical novel "Diary of Survival" was published on the Internet.
The click-through rate has soared. Spring of 20 10
I read in the newspaper that a medical cosmetic institution in Wuhan hosted a beauty contest.
The winner will become the image spokesperson of the organization.
Enjoy 300,000 yuan of free cosmetic treatment. Wang Qin also actively signed up for the competition.
All the contestants are beautiful young girls.
Wang Qin is the only person who is nearly half a century old.
But Wang Qin is full of confidence. After round after round of fierce competition
Wang Qin stood out from more than 1000 contestants.
Enter the top 30. She posted the photos and experiences of the competition on the Internet.
Immediately attracted a applause.
Netizens called her "inspirational mother-in-law"
Some fans also made a special trip to Huangshi to see her. finally
Wang Qin signed an agreement with this cosmetic agency.
Become an image spokesperson.
20 10 may
Wang Qin received her first cosmetic surgery in Wuhan.
The operation is bilateral high cheekbone correction.
Is to smooth the protruding cheekbones.
Transform the whole facial structure. Before operation
Wang Qin asked the doctor to "turn her into Angie Chiu".
After Wang Qin woke up from anesthesia,
Despite the dull pain in the face
Still can't help being happy.
I called Li Kang. Li Kang was taken aback.
Get to the hospital immediately. Seeing my mother with a bandage on her face
His heart ached. Wang Qin forced a smile: "Your sister wants me to be young and happy.
I will keep the beauty for her. "
beyond expectation
In the following year,
Wang Qin has successively done more than a dozen cosmetic and plastic operations, such as rhinoplasty, bimaxillary angle correction, double eyelid cutting and eyebrow cutting. once
Wang Qin is going to undergo plastic surgery under general anesthesia again.
Li Kang stepped forward to stop: "Mom
It is too great of a risk
You can't do it anymore. "Wang Qin is angry.
"Let me be young is your sister's wish.
No cosmetic surgery
There's no point in me living. "She even forced to die.
Li Kang had to let go of his mother in tears.
The operation is finished.
Li Kang has no sense of relaxation.
Because the next operation is still waiting for my mother. 20 1 1 year July
Li Kang had no choice but to turn to the media.
I want to help my mother get out of the quagmire of plastic surgery.
This media invited Wang Erdong, a psychologist from Suzhou University. Under the mobilization of Wang Erdong
Wang Qin finally revealed her heart: in fact, she has never come out of the grief of her daughter's death
In addition to missing her daughter,
And remorse and guilt.
In those hard years
No matter how fierce the man Wang Qin married.
Daughters have to humbly call dad to that man. What makes Wang Qin feel guilty is that
Whenever a husband is angry.
She beat her daughter first.
Until I beat my daughter in the corner. Because she's worried that her stepfather's beating the children will be frivolous.
She protects her daughter in this special way.
Have again
Because the last two marriages are equally unfortunate.
Wang Qin once had an aversion to his daughter. She felt
If there is no daughter
She can totally find a good man.
It was her daughter who dragged her down ... but after her daughter died.
Wang Qin suddenly realized that she was unfair to her daughter.
And this kind of apology can never be relayed to her daughter. The letter left by her daughter became her spiritual sustenance.
Extreme thoughts and guilt about my daughter.
Let her seek psychological comfort in plastic surgery again and again. She regards plastic surgery as a way to commemorate her daughter.
After listening to Wang Qin's story.
Wang Erdong said, "You and your daughter live together.
The daughter is particularly sensible.
You are willing to tell her anything.
In fact, you can only feel love from your daughter. Such an important person has left.
So you've always wanted to find that love in your heart. "Wang Qin nodded.
Wang Erdong believes that
Behind Wang Qin's crazy plastic surgery
It's actually a hunger for love. In Wang Qin's eyes
Daughter is the only one who can soothe her heart. When my daughter died suddenly
When some emotional demands can't be met
Wang Qin will become vulnerable.
At a loss. Frustration and regret have been entangled in her heart.
Cann't get over it In Wang Qin's view,
Give my daughter a blessing.
It's another kind of compensation for my daughter. in other words
Becoming Angie Chiu through plastic surgery may not be her real appeal.
daughter
Exactly who she wants to be.
According to Wang Qin's psychological symptoms.
Wang Erdong told her to close her eyes.
Talk to your daughter in your heart. soon afterwards
He found a female assistant to dress up as Wang Xiaoyan.
Let "mother and daughter" talk in the form of sitcom
Let Wang Qin pour out her tangled emotions to her "daughter". After several psychotherapy sessions,
Wang Qin's mood calmed down
It means no more plastic surgery. Seeing mother relaxed and relieved.
Li Kang shed tears of excitement.
20 12 on the eve of may day.
Wang Qin told reporters in an interview.
She has basically returned to her normal life now. now
She spends most of her energy on writing and performing online.
Communicate with people of different ages
Life is full of flavor. Li Kang also made a decision: give up work.
Stay with your mother all the time.
Be a mother's agent
Take care of mother.
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