There is a retired old man in our community who is almost 70 years old. He boasts that he is a retired lieutenant general of the People's Liberation Army, saying that his monthly pension is more than 30,000 yuan. He also said that his annual party dues are tens of thousands, and he comes with There are guards, secretaries, drivers, and cooks, but they are not taken with them because they are worried about the negative impact. Maybe they are nothing in fact, they are just happy and happy. Sometimes the vanity of the elderly is also very strong, and they will be looked down upon throughout their lives. When you are old, there are no more fantasies, only imagination. Showing off your pension is nothing more than trying to make people look up to you. You listen to him when he says it, but don't expose him. That's how old people are.
It is normal for pensions to vary from high to low. If someone goes around showing off that his pension is high, it means that his pension is too easy to come by. He has not paid that much at all, and he should not be given so much. It should be reduced. Just let him eat well. He has such a high pension, he shows off everywhere, humiliates people, and he also spends endless amounts of money to do mischief.
There are always people around us who like to ask how much other people’s retirement salaries are. I just retired this month. When I went to my unit to get my retirement certificate, four or five people asked me how much my retirement salary was. I had to excuse myself by saying that I didn't ask the HR manager. Some netizens also asked directly how much is the pension? I could only let the other party guess, and the other party said 5,00, so I could only be vague and say it was about the same.
In fact, successful people, those who are satisfied with their lives, will not show off everywhere. Two of my friends are billionaires. They always keep a low profile and often take the subway to attend class reunions. I didn’t buy any luxury cars to show off my wealth.
People who like to show off mostly have an inferiority complex and are afraid that others will look down on them. People who take the initiative to show off and want to prove that they are better than others are also susceptible to "pink eye".
Hello poster, some people always like to show off their high pension after retirement. What do you think about this problem? There are indeed such people. Moreover, the pension benefits of these people are relatively high. For example, they are retired from government agencies or institutions, or retired as civil servants, or retired from the army. Then you can often get a relatively high pension, and it is normal for the income to reach more than 7,000 to 8,000 yuan, or even close to 10,000 yuan.
But we all know that as retirees, those with pensions exceeding 3,000 yuan are a minority group, let alone close to 10,000 yuan. So if you can get 10,000 yuan, A pension of RMB 10,000 means that you are better than most people, so you must reflect your superior mentality. So I like talking to people and showing off to people. Such people do exist, but they definitely belong to a minority group. I have never met them personally, but I have heard of such a topic, that is, a certain person in a certain family has a pension of close to 10,000 yuan, which is very There are indeed such people who love to show off themselves, but they are definitely a very small minority among the minority groups.
So this is human mentality. We just listen and laugh and let it pass. There is no need to take this issue seriously. Maybe your pension is relatively low, for example, only 3,000 yuan, but compared with other people’s pension of 10,000 yuan, it is indeed a bit low, but everyone’s life is their own, no matter how high his pension is They won’t be used by us either, so there’s no need to envy them or say how about going with them. Only when we live our own lives well can we be the most real and reliable.
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Having a high pension is a good thing, but you must first be low-key as a person. If your relatives and friends are in trouble, can you help them? Be generous? Otherwise, you will become an enemy!
With a high pension, you can visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, learn about the famous historical sites, and see the rapid development of China in its prosperous times. If you have more money, you can travel abroad. This way you won’t feel that your pension is too high.
Final advice to rich people:
Money can’t buy you happiness every day, take care of yourself and live well.
Don’t worry about right and wrong. Only when you have love in your heart can you be happy.
May every day be happy and peaceful, and the sunset will never set.
For most retired entrepreneurs, not only do they not dare to show off, but when someone asks how much their monthly pension is, they are too embarrassed to answer directly. Even I, with 43 years of service, When asked about my friends who have fought in the war and have been rated as advanced workers countless times, they can only answer vaguely that they have enough to eat and how can they show off.
There are many kinds of people around me, from local, central, military, banks, electric power, vertical, civil servants, business editors, enterprises... there are so many, from two to three thousand Retirement salary ranges from 15,000 to 15,000 to 6,000 per month.
In fact, everyone knows who has more and who has less. It depends on who it is and what the occasion is. My experience is this: I joined the army from my hometown in Hebei and then switched jobs and stayed in Beijing to work. I have comrades in arms, I have a fellow villager. I worked in a factory for family members of the army for a long time, so I know a lot of people working in the place, such as people from industry and commerce, taxation, banks, and insurance companies. In addition to my comrades, after changing jobs, I was assigned to There are also many people in local and central government units, including civil servants, business editors, and people working in companies. We are usually very busy. Occasionally, we will not mention your pension and mine in small gatherings, but there are people from my hometown. People who come (including relatives at home or comrades in arms) often ask about the current salary or retirement benefits.
This is how I look at it. Salary, including retirement salary, is fine as long as you can live your own daily life. Nowadays, our country is full of singing and dancing, a scene of prosperity, and people are full of happiness. As for everyone's salary and pension, we can't say that we don't care. Those who are not retired are under the control of their work units. Those who have retired are in charge. It is determined by the government based on many of your personal circumstances, including work experience, time, level, nature of the unit, age, etc. (China's labor, personnel, and wages are a university subject, and the current name is human resources. resources), so my current pension is 4,000 yuan per month, and some people’s monthly pension is 4,000 yuan higher than mine, which I think is normal. However, according to the current situation, you are 4,000 yuan more than me, 8,000 yuan per month. You will not spend 4,000 yuan more than me every month. Similarly, I will not spend 4,000 yuan less than you, and every month Spending 4,000 yuan less is just a number. It will not affect the quality of life of each person, nor will it change the rules of life of each person.
This means that our pension or, in other words, no matter what, we should not compare with others, and there is no need to be arrogant. Just live your life well.
If there is too much, no one will give it to anyone; if there is too little, no one will make up for it. What's the use of saying it?
"I retire with more than 6,000 a month, so I want to live and enjoy life." This is what my wife's second brother often says.
My wife’s second brother is the second eldest child in her aunt’s family. Before retiring, he worked in a state-owned enterprise as a middle-level cadre all his life. After retirement, his total pension will be more than 6,000 yuan, because he has One daughter married away from home, so the second brother and his wife had no financial burden, so their life was particularly nourishing.
A pension of more than 6,000 yuan in our second-tier city can be said to be less than the upper and more than the lower, because the average pension of most retirees is less than 4,000 yuan, and some pay it themselves. Social security and early retirement pensions will be lower.
Once my second brother was bragging about his pension while chatting with me at a relative gathering. He thought that many office workers did not earn as much as him, so he asked me about my father’s pension during the chat. I told him: "More than 15,000 points." At that time, the second brother was stunned and realized that "there are people outside the world, and there is a world outside the world." From then on, whenever I was present when visiting relatives, he would never mention the pension.
Because my father graduated from college in 1958 and served in the army for 38 years before retiring, it was normal for his pension to be high, and it only gradually increased after 2000. Just now It wasn’t that much when I retired, but I never heard my father show off his pension to anyone, and the community where my father lived was full of old comrades with similar incomes to him.
1. People who can have high pensions
The income of pensions is different in various industries. Some industries have high social security contributions, so pensions are High, and these industries are basically concentrated in industries that control resources. Therefore, people who can get high pensions basically work in what people regard as a "good job."
Second, people who like to show off their high pensions are mainly motivated by this mentality
①. Show off the superiority of their previous jobs: After retirement, no matter what your previous No matter what job you are engaged in, you will become a "retired old man" after retirement. This is no different from ordinary retirees. At this time, people who like to show off their high pensions just want to show the superiority of their previous work. Showing one's superiority among peers is actually a feeling of loss after retirement and a fear of not being recognized by society.
②. People who like to show off their high pensions usually do not get along well in their original workplaces: People who like to show off their high pensions have pensions that are ordinary workers in their original workplace or ordinary employees. Managers, this kind of people have limited contact levels, so they will use their high pension to show off to others who have lower pensions than themselves.
③. People who like to show off their high pensions will basically come into contact with people who are lower than themselves after retirement: People who like to show off their high pensions will basically come into contact with people who are lower than themselves after retirement. People with low incomes like to show off their high pensions in order to show their difference in front of these people, so as to arouse everyone's respect for them.
④. People who like to show off their high pensions are actually people who are not very confident in life: People who show off their high pensions may encounter a lot of troubles in their lives. For example, family conflicts, etc., life is not very satisfactory and happy, so they are afraid that others will make trouble about their family affairs, so they talk about their high pension.
The level of pension is not a measure of a person's previous contribution to society. People who like to show off their high pensions mainly have never seen the "day", and these people actually have nothing. Self-restrained people, people with real pensions rarely show off, because the people they come into contact with are at different levels, so the cognitive differences are very different.
It is undeniable that after a person has worked all his life, when he reaches retirement age, some people, such as senior officials and civil servants, receive very generous pensions, because they belong to the system. In the past years, pension insurance had not yet been implemented, or pensions that were a combination of pension insurance, transitional pensions, and some retirement subsidies were relatively high, so they thought they had been recognized for their lifelong work. , I feel that I am great, and if I am not a person of high quality, I will naturally show off myself.
As for ordinary people, such as people with flexible employment and laid-off workers who have paid a lot for the country, most of these people do not have fixed jobs, live by doing odd jobs, and squeeze out money to pay for the lowest-end pension. Insurance, after retirement, the pension benefits are naturally not so ideal, or even very low, just enough to maintain one's basic life. In this way, there will naturally be a sense of inferiority. And those with high pensions are undoubtedly seeking hatred. I think it is very undesirable.
I think people with high pensions should not use their pensions to show off, but should live their lives well and spend these high pensions on their own. Do some charity, or donate something. Why use the money that society gives you in return to satisfy your own vanity? If you do well and have a reputation, you can not only help others, but also win everyone's praise. This is the attitude you should have. Instead of showing off your high pension, showing off is just to prove your vanity, which is not good for others or yourself.