Life has its ups and downs, and there are hardships and hardships in the years, but there are also roads that lead to the sky. When a person is in the most difficult time in life, he must stick to his faith, be himself, and believe that man can conquer nature. He must have the spirit of the Foolish Old Man to move mountains and face things correctly. Regarding the predicament you are in, there is no flaming mountain that you cannot walk through, and there is no scripture that you cannot obtain. Believe in yourself and have the courage to take on it. Take all these hardships and hardships as God's test for you. When God is about to give you a big responsibility, you must first work hard on your mind and muscles. How can plum blossoms smell so fragrant without a cold that cuts to your bones? Only when a person has experienced and endured it can he be considered successful and mature. No matter how big the difficulties are, no matter how big the difficulties and obstacles are, he can be easily overcome, and his future life can be smooth sailing. Those who achieved great things in ancient times not only had extraordinary talents, but also had perseverance. come on!
Everyone wants everything to be successful and smooth sailing in life.
In fact, sudden accidents and unexpected changes make you: caught off guard, depressed, heartbroken, and struggling...
Fortunes and misfortunes always follow. No one knows what will happen in the next second. There are too many unknowns and too many possibilities. No matter what the outcome is, there is no escaping it and must be faced.
If you persist in the face of hardships and do not fall, you will grow up. Cultivate your resilience in adversity, be strong in the wind and rain, look at the wind and clouds with a smile, and look at life with a smile.
As long as a person lives, it is short-lived, and family love is slowly lost in time. The process sometimes seems to pass in an instant. When we recall the past and look forward to the future, we feel that life is like acting, but there is no chance to retake it. We can only work hard and run according to our imagined life goals. Occasionally stopping, it feels like a kind of happiness and peace. But this real social living environment does not allow us to stop, because we are still at an age of struggle and must move forward. Because once you stop and don’t continue to strive for your future life goals and dreams, everything will be meaningless. A life without goals and dreams will have no direction in life. How can we talk about life rituals? People must have ambitions, goals and desires to live. Frustration in the process is the cornerstone of life, and success is a beautiful memory in a joyful life. Only by constantly studying hard and having a never-say-die heart can you achieve greater success.
Please don’t be afraid when you encounter difficulties in life. Tell yourself that you are lucky to be alive and that you still have opportunities. The more you get frustrated, the more courage you will have to face the difficulties you encounter in life. Fight for your goals and strive for your goals. Working hard for family happiness in the future will be meaningful as long as you don't give up. Happiness will definitely knock on the door!
The biggest difficulty in life is not the thing itself, but oneself. The results of all things are the situations set by oneself. People in the situation are sometimes at a loss, lose direction, and have no fighting spirit. Feeling helpless and confused, I felt like I was under pressure like never before. You are sad, but you don't need sympathy and mercy from others. What you need most at this time is calmness. At the same time, congratulations to you. You are very close to success. You are just one step away from success.
My story
I entered the society when I was 14 years old. I was full of passion and had no social experience. I went to Zhengzhou, a strange city, to look for a job. However, I couldn’t find a job and ran out of money. At that time, I had no friends, no phone calls, and no one to help me. I was hungry for two days. Days later, I met a kind man. I still remember clearly that he was a chef. He saw me wandering in front of their restaurant. I was so hungry that I just wanted to go in and find something to eat. But I was wandering and I was afraid that others wouldn’t. I was given food, but I didn't dare to go in. When I was hesitating, the kind man came over and asked me what I did. I blushed and said, "I'm hungry, uncle"... He called me in without hesitation. I sit down. After a while, he brought out a plate of vegetables and a bowl of rice. For a moment, I shed tears. The tears fell from the corners of my mouth and fell into my rice... While eating, he asked me many things. After knowing my situation, he discussed it with the boss for a while, and then came back and told me, you can do some odd jobs here! I was so excited that I agreed without thinking about anything. From then on, I never went hungry again. I would also like to thank my fat uncle who helped me during the first and most difficult time in my life. Thank you...
Everyone has their own story, and every family has its own hard-to-remember scriptures. When we encounter difficulties, we just need to never give up or complain, be committed to our goals, and never forget The original intention leads to the original intention.
Hey people, I had a serious illness in March this year that almost killed me, but I finally got over it. Now my condition is slowly stabilizing and I am slowly recovering. When I was hospitalized, I spent all my savings from work. When I asked to borrow money from my close friends, I had various reasons and excuses not to borrow money. At that time, I had seen through human nature and truly understood the dark side of society, but I still I had to face high treatment and rehabilitation fees. Later, with the help of my relatives and comrades at work, I borrowed 200,000 yuan and finally got through the difficulty. In conclusion, only your relatives will help you when you are in difficulty. Help you selflessly. Those friends who are usually just friends are friends when they have money to play with, but they don’t know who you are when you are in trouble. Although I am tortured by the disease, I still feel the warmth of my relatives. I am accompanied by my relatives every day and I am getting better day by day. Although I have not recovered yet and my life will be affected in the future, I can at least go to work to earn some money to support my family and take my children to school. Although Responsible, but as long as I recover and can go to work, I don’t think it is a problem. Finally, I would like to share a few words with you. In any difficult and difficult time, you must have an optimistic attitude. There is always a way to solve everything. Try hard and don’t give up on yourself. Society It is fair to everyone. The fittest survive and the unfit are eliminated. This is the eternal law of survival.
I had just graduated, I couldn’t find a job, I got seriously ill, and my family was noisy. That time I went home half-dead and very disappointed. Later, I dragged my exhausted body back to a small rented room. In the first few days, I struggled to go to work and found it difficult to move. I really couldn't go back, I felt like I couldn't live much longer, and everything I cared about was gone. I took a day off without an invitation, and lay in bed waiting to die without eating anything. Four or five days passed and I was still alive. When I was still hanging on, a relative got married. I had no choice but to pull myself together, pull out two cupping jars, and go to the wedding. People who saw me said that I looked haggard and pale. I originally planned to leave it at that, but later my mother was more concerned about me and took me to the hospital for surgery. I lay in bed for a week after the surgery, unable to eat, drink, or move. I lost ten pounds. I stopped drinking water in order to reduce urinary discharge. After a long time, my body slowly recovered.
Later on, I slowly changed my views on many things. There is no big deal except death, and I know how to be kind to myself and others. Many times I am more willing to help others and feel more empathy for the sufferings of others. In the days that followed, my life was not very good, but that was it!
Let’s talk about the most difficult moment for a friend of mine. Because of an investment failure, he suffered heavy losses and borrowed hundreds of thousands of dollars. He borrowed all the money from relatives and friends, and many people even refused to borrow and avoided him. I think it was because he was afraid that he wouldn't be able to do it. He told me that at that time, he felt that everyone looked down on him and he was very desperate. I found a job and had to pay off my debt as soon as my salary was paid every month. This was not enough, and I had to scrape together things. Apart from enough to eat, I didn’t have any money left in my hand. One time, I only had a few dozen dollars in my hand, but my wallet was stolen. What a feeling at that time! He felt like he was about to collapse. He looked like he had gone through many changes. Then he came to my house for more than half a month. Wasn’t it very difficult?
But later he also quit his job. He said that if he didn't do any business, the hundreds of thousands would be enough for him to pay for four or five years. Anyway, he was already in debt. He would sum up his experience and lessons and choose new projects. I also took out a loan to start a milk tea burger business, and the business is going well. Now I sometimes let the clerk look after the store at night, and I set up a stall in a flowery area to sell shoes. The price can be as low as five to six hundred a night, or as many as a thousand!
In short, no matter how difficult it is, you must grit your teeth and persevere. If you don’t fight with fate, it will think you are easy to bully!
Thank you for the invitation.
Each of us will encounter problems and difficulties of one kind or another in the process of growing up. No matter good or bad, it is actually a kind of tempering. As the saying goes: Only by enduring hardship can one become a better person. It does not allow you to deliberately compare, but allows you to obtain and win your own share of the joy and results of success through your own efforts...
Let’s get down to business, what to do when encountering difficulties Coping and solving.
First, your mentality must be corrected. There is a saying that when things happen, don’t panic and do things without being busy. Accept them with joy and face them calmly. Analyze and master until you solve them. Everything you do must be done in an orderly manner. Then you are good. Kind of. Mentality determines everything. Calm down and deal with it calmly, which can often get you out of trouble.
Second, if you want to improve your overall quality, you must improve and enrich yourself all the time. Knowledge, experience, experience, other people’s strengths, etc., as long as it helps you, go for it. Learn, master, and apply it where you need to apply it, then you will be strong. It takes no effort to use your brain to make use of your brain, and it takes no effort to use your strength to make use of your strength. Learn from the strengths of others and that will be your strengths. Isn't it?
Third, have more contact with people and the environment at all levels of society. Over time, you will know how to analyze and solve problems, making your life and career full of surprises and gains. There is hope in traditional Chinese medicine that if we see more, listen more, study more, do more, be good at discovering, be diligent in thinking, and face everything with positivity and optimism, then even bitter water can turn into nectar.
Fourth, take action. There is a saying: Heartbeat is not as good as action. You can't just talk without practicing. Lip service is not your real ability. Acting on your ideas and actually practicing them is the magic weapon for your success. It is not advisable to work behind closed doors or talk on paper. If you act down-to-earth, everything can be solved easily.
Fifth, sharing is a habit and a virtue. Ask your questions and someone will be willing to help you solve them or provide some experience or methods. So sharing kills two birds with one stone. It helps you solve your problems and doubts, and it also allows others to be inspired by you and indirectly helps others. Why not?
The above is my own personal opinion. If there is anything wrong, I apologize for your understanding. Please criticize and correct me for improvement. Thank you.
I am a rural person. I have no mine at home. I started a company with my friends. I went bankrupt last year and had almost 100 debts. I owed money from banks, private individuals, and family members. I owed money everywhere. My wife was about to get divorced, including my house, car, etc. She took them all away, and went outside alone to start again. I just want to say that it is okay for a man to fail, but don't admit defeat. You have given up on yourself. No one can help you. As long as you don't die, you will eventually succeed.
Already gone! Dive and reflect!
Sell the store and end everything at hand!
Then I buy a lot of food from the supermarket, don’t go out, think, play games, think, read, and cry! Think again!
Eat up all the food and then go out to do some shopping!
Slowly try to go out, work various part-time jobs from time to time, and think from another perspective!
Slowly think things through, find yourself again, and then choose a small business to start over!
Don’t hold grudges when encountering difficulties in this world.
Walk bravely through the snow and frost.
Nothing in this world is difficult.
When the cold winter is over, spring is warm!