You'd better think back to whether you care about you more than her at ordinary times.
I'm not saying that she doesn't love you, but I think I can see that this girl is selfish. She is a person who always leaves a good future for herself, and of course she is not a person who is willing to pay 100% for her husband. In other words, if one day you are poor and can't give her a good life, she may leave you without hesitation. More?
This has this. As a girl, I can understand. She told me before that if I married you, it would be more difficult than my previous life. Why should I marry you? I know all about it, but I think I'm trying to be good to her. Why does she care so much? Her parents are more than 200,000 a year, and she also said that her parents will support the elderly in the future. I said yes, let your parents have a good life, I don't need your money. She doesn't care about me. She cares about me.
That depends on what you think. Say one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer. If you are the one who is willing to get, the one who has always been willing to give selflessly, then we will say nothing.
However, your risk is what I said before. If you have anything (to put it bluntly, you are sick or have no money), she will definitely consider herself. I am a woman, too. I understand this psychology. After all, I just don't love you very much, or think that you are just a good alternative husband who can provide food and clothing. Love is not like this.
Well, thank you.
After reading your reply to the following netizens, I am verbose. I think you'd better be cautious. Since you are so disdainful, do you want to get married with such an attitude?
If you and your boyfriend agree to buy a house and get married, are you willing to apply for a loan?
Yes, it is safer to get a license before buying a house.
When the husband and wife get married, the wife does not agree to the loan. Can I borrow money in my own name?
When the husband and wife get married, the wife does not agree to the loan. They can borrow money in their own name, but they must meet certain conditions.
China citizens with fixed residence, permanent residence or valid residence certificate at the place where the loan bank is located, under the age of 65 (inclusive) and with full capacity for civil conduct;
Have a proper occupation and stable income, and have the ability to repay the loan principal and interest on schedule;
Have a good credit record and willingness to repay, and no bad credit record;
Being able to provide legal, effective and reliable guarantees recognized by the bank;
There is a clear purpose of the loan, and the purpose of the loan conforms to the relevant provisions;
Open a personal settlement account in China Industrial and Commercial Bank;
Other conditions stipulated by the bank.
My girlfriend doesn't want to get married and pay the mortgage with me.
I can only say that a realistic girl. My boyfriend's family just bought him a house. Because I really like my other half, I said, you work hard to make money to pay off the mortgage every month, and then the money I earn will be used as our living expenses after marriage. Actually, I think life is like this. If two people can work together for the same goal and ideal, isn't that happiness? In fact, when you really love someone, who wants to suffer a little and be a little tired, but when there are difficulties, don't you all stick to it together?
Excuse me, I am married to my girlfriend now. Can I get a loan from the credit union now?
If you get a loan, you can get a loan from a financial institution as long as you meet the requirements, regardless of whether you are married or not.
If the marriage has been registered, the loan will be borne by both parties, not by one party alone.