From a legal point of view, there is no good way to solve this problem in your heart. The property before marriage belongs to the other party, which is written in black and white in law. Even from the perspective of negotiation, you can't solve this problem. Let's assume that you take a more common approach: don't get married without writing your name. What do men think in their hearts? Even if he compromised to get married, it seems that you can get married, but this knot has not disappeared, just changed from one knot to two knots. The man will think in his heart: the house bought by my family must be added with your name. If there are any problems in the future, you will be compensated, but I will give half of the house I bought to a woman who divorced me. Can he balance his mind at this time? And the problem in your heart has not been solved. The problem that appears now will remain in your heart forever: before you get married, you began to guard against me and divide the property in the future. You are too calculating. These thoughts are human nature and cannot be avoided. So now the impact of this incident will run through all the time in your marriage life, and once two people have an argument in the future, this pimple will have a negative impact on their psychology at the same time. So, this is actually a fast knot. Since he asked not to write your name, you have a knot, and since you asked to write your name, he has the same knot. I think we should go back to marriage itself. You love this man, trust him, and you want to live with him, so get married. He bought a house to live with you. As for the future, it depends on the feelings between your husband and wife. This is something that both you and he can work hard for. This is not a high-profile talk. Many married people who don't have a house can walk together. But since you have raised this question here, I think you still have many questions about this relationship, and I think you may not be able to do this. The only way to compromise is to insist that both parties pay half down payment and pay the house price together after marriage. So that no one will think that someone is taking advantage. This is a method that can be discussed, but it can't solve the distrust between you. At most, the knot between the two sides will be smaller, but this compromise is acceptable to both sides. This is also the best solution I can think of.