1. My parents treat me better than others of my age, so they treat me sincerely. Why should I find my biological parents?
In the adopted place, I don't pay attention to study, only pay attention to having a few boys. My classmates have all gone to work after graduation from primary school, so I am eager to work early. First, I want to repay my adoptive parents early. Second, I think I'm really not the material to learn. Just as I was preparing to go out to work, I had in-depth communication with my parents. What they mean is that they know my grades in primary school are not good, but they don't want me to drop out of school. They also told me that the young people in my hometown, their future is doomed.
It is nothing more than going out to work after graduating from primary school, then starting dating in a few years, and then getting married and having children. After giving birth to their children, they still continue to work, and their children also start to work after graduation from primary school. This is one cycle after another. It really makes no sense. Why do you say that? That's how they got here. My parents expect me to be broader in the future, and my children and I will not follow their old path in the future.
They want me to study hard. In order to make up for what I owe in primary school, my parents enrolled me in a summer cram school, and junior high school spent more than 1000 yuan to enroll me in a private school. It is said that management is strict and teachers are serious and responsible. This is incredible for the people in the same village. They would rather use the money to buy a motorcycle or prepare for their children to get married and have children in the future, and they will never use the money to cultivate their children's studies.
But that summer my parents tried their best to send me to school in the city. If I can follow the path planned by my parents, go on well and be admitted to the senior high school entrance examination, then my life path will change from now on.
Unfortunately, parents have worked hard. I don't think I'm the material to study. I'm eager to make money quickly. At school, I played truant because I didn't have a good class, and I got together with gangsters. The school refused to change my mind. Later, I went directly to my parents and asked me to take it back, saying that you saved the money. My mother cried and begged teachers and principals, but they were heartbroken by me, convinced that I would not study hard even if I entered school, and felt that it was no big deal.
So I went home with my parents, and my study career was cut off. Like most young people in the village, I will start working outside the home. But I don't have any resentment. My parents did their best, but I failed to live up to my expectations.
I was not left behind by my peers in the blind date marriage. My adoptive parents think very carefully. What else can I find fault with?
After just working for a year or two, I also do it while mixing, fishing for three days and drying the net for two days, so my income is naturally not enough to live. At this time, my sisters will support me, and my parents will give me red envelopes for nothing. Although the work is very hard, I still have a relatively easy life among my colleagues.
At this time, peers in the village began to be dragged by their parents on blind dates. I told my parents that I didn't want to get married so early, because I wanted to earn more money to repay their efforts and love over the years. At that time, the cost of marriage rose, requiring buildings, cars and bride price in the city. Although we were a small city on the N line at that time, we still needed 500,000 to 600,000 yuan. I don't want to put them under so much pressure.
However, my parents seem to see through my thoughts. One year when I was dragged to a blind date during the Spring Festival, I heard my mother tell the matchmaker that they were going to buy a house. Although there is a loan, I don't need to pay it back with my future daughter-in-law. She and her father will pay it back. If the marriage is settled, the car can be bought, and the daughter supports it, that is, the elder sister helps to pay. In short, if other people get married, I will definitely get married, and I will never be worse than their family. The matchmaker kept nodding and gave his mother a thumbs-up from time to time.
Such considerate parents, my biological parents of the same age, are nothing more than that. What is there to be picky about?
Now that I am married and have children, my adoptive father works to support us, and my adoptive mother also takes care of our children. Why should I find my biological parents?
On the one hand, I cater to my parents' demands for blind date every Spring Festival. On the other hand, I am convinced that I can't find a daughter-in-law as high as the bride price, and I want to find a daughter-in-law from two of a kind. I can't lie on my parents' credit accounts and eat and drink, making it difficult for them to repay their mortgage when they are old.
Later, I met my daughter-in-law who came to work in other places like me at work. She is also a down-to-earth and capable person. After getting along for a year, when it was time to talk about marriage, the daughter-in-law said that she didn't want any bride price money, as long as she simply renovated the house in the countryside, and we could pay for the decoration ourselves.
Soon we got married, and a year later, we had a son. My parents can't wait to hold it in their arms every day. For a whole month, my mother took good care of it. There is an old hen almost every day. In the words of her daughter-in-law, once she burps, she can't wait for the smell of chicken feathers. The legendary contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not exist in our family. Generally speaking, if there is a problem, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will fire at me in unison. And after every time, my mother will quietly tell me to be nice to my daughter-in-law, so that our life will be good.
Now my daughter-in-law and I both go out to work, my mother takes care of the children, my father goes out to work, and almost all the money earned is spent on my son. I will buy a toy car today and a beautiful dress tomorrow.
And if we miss our children, my mother will come to see us by car all the way, and we don't want to give money. My parents really think of us.