Qin Xiao said that the parents had met and the marriage was settled. Banquets and weddings have been arranged, and even their own families have sent invitations. But I don't know, before the wedding, my husband's family suddenly changed their minds, so the two families had a great contradiction and even almost tore their faces directly.
That day, her mother-in-law called her home and kindly said to her, "Daughter, you are going to marry into my family. We can't let you suffer, so after buying a wedding house, we will help you pay off your mortgage for several years because you young people are not easy." When she first heard this, Qin Xiao was very moved and kept saying thank you to her mother-in-law, but what her mother-in-law said next made Qin Xiao stay where she was.
Mother-in-law said to Qin Xiao, "Daughter-in-law, you can buy a wedding room, but you can't write your name, because you can't repay now, so we will help you resist these pressures. You can repay the mortgage in two years. Anyway, as long as you stay in our house, the house will be yours in the future. "
Although Qin Xiao was uncomfortable when she heard her mother-in-law's words, she was not angry. Instead, she calmly said to her mother-in-law: "mother-in-law, I can repay the mortgage, but the house must have my name." Otherwise, I won't pay the mortgage, you can think about the decoration money yourself, and neither can your son, because the money he earns is also the property of our husband and wife, and the house is your private property. "
Qin Xiao said these words, and her mother-in-law couldn't sit still. She shouted angrily, "Don't think too much. Since you don't pay the mortgage, why should I give you the house for free? If you don't pay the mortgage, you have to pay the rent. You're not married, so many calculations. You stare at the house! " What really stung Qin Xiao was her mother-in-law's words, so Qin Xiao was angry and went straight back to her mother-in-law: "Then I really won't marry. Your son can marry whoever he wants, and I'm gone!"
Because of this, Qin Xiao's parents were very angry and went directly to Qin Xiao's future husband's house. Originally, it was agreed that the man went out of the wedding room and the woman went out of the wedding room to decorate and prepare for marriage, but suddenly she changed her mind. Qin Xiao said that she also asked her future husband about it, but I didn't know that the man kept saying to Qin Xiao as if nothing had happened: "Don't worry, even if my mother's name is written, the future is ours. It doesn't matter. Let Qin Xiao stop. "
It was also because of her future husband's words that Qin Xiao had doubts about this marriage, so she came to ask me whether she should get married or not!
Bian Xiao has something to say:
In my opinion, Qin Xiao should not marry such a family, because after marrying such a family, it means that she not only has a mother-in-law who calculates her everywhere, but also a husband who doesn't love her so much, so the future marriage is doomed to be unfortunate, so she should not marry.
I think Qin Xiao is right. If the mother-in-law buys a wedding room and doesn't write her name, then her husband and wife really have no obligation to repay the loan, because the house is the private property of her parents-in-law and has nothing to do with her husband and wife, so she has no obligation to decorate the house.
I told Qin Xiao that if your mother-in-law keeps saying that she is doing it for your own good and that you are planning a house, you can tell your mother-in-law that your parents bought the wedding room, and they also helped to repay the mortgage for two years, and the name can only be written in their names. Do you ask your mother-in-law if she agrees? If she is like this, then she is really good to you and you can get married. If she refuses, it means that she is selfish in calculating you, and this marriage cannot be married.
Maybe after seeing this, some women will say that Qin Xiao is calculating the house. If a woman really gets married with peace of mind, then she won't calculate the gains and losses after divorce before getting married.
But in my opinion, the people who can say these words are all women who stand and talk easily, or women who have sons, otherwise, you would never say such things. If a person drinks water, he knows that he is warm and cold. Please don't judge other people's difficulties without your own experience, because this is nonsense.
Because these people have never thought, if Qin Xiao's husband betrays or doesn't love in the future, if she has to divorce, what will be left of Qin Xiao? She really had nothing, not only gave her everything, but also ended up like this, because all the risks of divorce were here in Qin Xiao.
Does anyone in the world do stupid things? Will you do business at a loss? Everyone is self-interested, except our closest relatives, we have no obligation to fulfill others and take risks for others.
In my opinion, Qin Xiao's future mother-in-law is calculating her, leaving her son a good way out and handing all the risks and pressures to Qin Xiao. In addition, Qin Xiao, the future husband, doesn't love her so much, because a man who really loves you will bear all the stress risks for you, instead of putting everything on a woman and then being alone. That's why Qin Xiao can't get married.