In today's society, many people are hard-pressed to say something clearly on some things, so they will use indirect hints to achieve their own goals. Next, let's give some examples of one or two common things. See Let’s see if we usually realize its true meaning. For example, when a friend, relative or someone you are familiar with recommends products, projects, insurance, etc. to you;

If at this time, the person we are familiar with becomes slightly silent and then thinks deeply after listening to your explanation. After a while, he replied: "I will think about this matter first and then answer you."

In fact, when we hear this kind of words, it is basically equivalent to rejection. This is also one of our most common excuses. At this time, we should be more conscious and not sell it over and over again. , to force the other person to identify with us, which will actually cause resentment and show that one has low emotional intelligence. The best way is to wait for the result or change other topics.

2. Older children of marriageable age will be bombarded by seven aunts and eight aunts at home urging them to get married every New Year;

At this time, many young people who do not want to get married will Answer: ?I haven’t had enough fun yet, and I don’t want to fall in love yet. ?Or say: ?I still want to do a better job in my career and wait for it to be more stable.?

In fact, the subtext is very obvious. It is my own business and I will take care of it. You don’t need to worry about it. People who are more sensible should stop mentioning these things at this time.

3. Another most common thing in life is borrowing money.

If the other party replies: "I'll discuss it with my family," or "I'm very tight recently, let me take a look," or something like that;

This is actually the same. In rejection. Let’s not mention this situation again. It is really urgent, so we should think of countermeasures as soon as possible. Now if it is just for turnover, small loans are still very convenient. Don’t pin your hopes on others. If the other party lends you, they will naturally When I call you again, there is no need to rush the other party.