In today's society, it is the uncle who owes money. For these "friends" who do not pay back the money, we have to deal with it with high emotional intelligence. 1. Show weakness and complain, stimulating feelings of guilt and sympathy.

Nowadays, the most fearful thing is to break up with each other and the other party will not admit it, so we must not confront each other. You can find some reasons to pretend that you are in a hurry for money, for example? Someone in the family is sick? Your child has to pay tuition for school? etc. Just arrange it according to your actual situation. In fact, it doesn't matter whether it's true or false. Even if what you say is false, the other party won't expose it. After all, you are the creditor and he is guilty. If you don't want to pay back once, then you have to do it a second time or a third time with a tighter rhythm and let the other party know that you are determined to get the debt. 2. Use everything around you to give him obvious hints.

A colleague owed me 100 yuan for two months and still refused to pay back the money, so he had to force me to give up. ?Look at today’s sunset, it’s so beautiful. Does it look like the one hundred yuan you owe me? ?Today’s chicken legs are so delicious. It reminds me of the 100 yuan you owe me. ? He mentioned it repeatedly, kept mentioning it, and finally he got impatient, "Okay, okay, okay, I'll pay you back!" ?It was done perfectly. Although I left a stingy impression in his mind, I also don’t want to associate with such a person in the future. 3. Sweet words and flattery.

Everyone likes to hear good things. When chatting, give more compliments. Is your dress the latest model? It’s really beautiful. ?The hair you just did is so elegant. ?In short, praise him to the point of dizziness. When the other person is in a good mood, change the subject and start complaining about how tight his life is recently and how badly he needs money. This can act as a hint. After all, it's a bit ridiculous that a creditor has a more miserable life than a debtor.

Remember this lesson, in the future, if you borrow money to be a good person, you must also treat people and things, so that you can save face if you don't repay the money you owe. If he keeps cheating and refuses to pay back, don't be afraid of hurting your feelings, just break up with him and ask the other party to pay back the money directly. After all, no one's money comes from the strong wind, so why should you give others an advantage?