Okay, okay, I really can't say any more. The rest can be supplemented ~ ~ ~
Finally, the questioner knows at a glance that your friends must have been calling you rhubarb or yellow, and then you are not convinced to come here to find the answer, right?
Introduction: In our daily life, there are often various scenes of addressing others, and many times we don't call others by their first names, but choose some simple nicknames to address others. As a result, various appellations of "Xiao+a certain word" appear in our interpersonal communication and become another generation of appellations of our names.
However, we will also find that different combinations of the word "Xiao" will have different flavors. Some sound more intimate, while others sound more serious. So, when a child asks, "Why do Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong sound like children, while Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhang sound like adults?" What should we answer? What is the reason for this difference?
Among them, the key point lies in the difference between "surname" and "first name": in our daily name cognition, "Ming" and "red" are used to name, while "Wang" and "Zhang" are surnames in our family names. Therefore, the cultural meanings and emotional factors behind these words are different, and the feeling of calling them is naturally different.
From the overall name structure, the surname part usually represents a complete family or family, which is a more serious and formal content; Part of the name has only one reference. More often, we all know a person's specific name, so this is a more personal and intimate part, which is used to distinguish the differences between people.
If the combination of names is "Wang Ming" and "Zhang Hong", then when we call them "Xiao Ming" and "Xiao Hong", it means that we are calling their names. This is a more intimate and familiar name, because people we don't know don't know what our name is. But when we call them Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhang, it means that we are calling their surnames, which feels that they are not very close and familiar with each other.
Moreover, the word "small" belongs to the adjective type. Generally speaking, "small" can refer to the following contents: this person's age is relatively young (such as a child), this person's class level is relatively low (such as junior and junior employees), and this person's characteristics are relatively small (such as body shape). Therefore, from the different names, it is easy for us to associate some related scenes in our minds:
"Xiao Ming" and "Xiao Hong" appear more among close friends with equal relationship, which makes them look more relaxed and comfortable, so the emotional perception behind this title is like a child; However, "Xiao Wang" and "Xiao Zhang" appear more among elders or subordinates, and the atmosphere between them will be more serious and estranged, and the emotional perception behind them will become more adult.
Moreover, the reason why "Xiao Ming" and "Xiao Hong" sound more like children is partly due to the usage scenes of these names. We will find that in daily life, even people who are very close to each other will not call each other "little X", and this naming form of "little X" appears more in the names of fictional characters in various stories, and children read all kinds of children's stories most.
In many stories that children are exposed to, "Xiaoming" and "Xiaohong" are basically the children's names in the stories, and children will habitually use "Xiaoming" and "Xiaohong" to address the protagonists in the articles when writing compositions and making up stories. Over time, these two names have become frequent visitors to children's childhood memories, and they have a closer and naive feeling.
Finally, we can learn that when children are diplomatic friends, everyone is a small partner of similar age. In order to get closer to each other, we can call each other by their first names, or reduplicated words of certain words in their names, such as red and Qing. This is more intimate than the popular Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong.
Important note: Xiao Ming, Xiao Hong, Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhang have different feelings in addressing. The fundamental reason is that these words carry different contents in a person's name. Xiaoming Xiaohong refers to a person's first name, while Xiaozhangwang refers to a person's last name. The former is more suitable for intimate and familiar scenes, while the latter is more suitable for serious occasions.
Today's topic: What nickname do you use to address your friends? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.