In fact, it is really embarrassing to encounter such a problem. You can't help supporting your boyfriend to honor his parents. But if he borrows money to buy a house, then your house will not be settled. Moreover, the money for buying a house is not a small sum. What if he can't afford a house? That will directly affect your future economic pressure. If you say no, you will definitely be unwilling.

To be honest, I think everyone is particularly worried if they encounter problems that touch their own interests. But if you don't want your boyfriend to get a loan to buy a house, it seems that you are too stingy. If it gets out, how can you let others see you? Now I'm not going to honor my parents-in-law, so that I can live a good life after I marry you. Besides, you and your boyfriend have the same status. How can you be so sure that you will marry him in the future

So it is natural for people to buy houses for their parents. You can convince yourself to accept this reality. You should learn to put yourself in others' shoes. If it were you, you would also lend money to your parents to buy a house.