"Love for 3 months, debt 1.5 million, for love, everything is worth it."

How much are you willing to spend for the girl you like? Maybe everyone has different views on the consumption between lovers. Some couples insist on AA system, some couples consume each other, and some couples decide how much to spend according to their income.

But some people are easily carried away by love. Even if you can't keep up with your financial ability, you should bite the bullet and pay for the person you like.

For A Qiang, he is such a person. At the age of 26, he should have been at the age of struggle, but for the girl he likes, he spent 65,438+million yuan saved after three years of work, and even owed 65,438+0.5 million yuan in foreign debt.

But even though A Qiang spent so much money on the girl she liked, she still didn't get a good ending and was broken up by her girlfriend.

On the day of breaking up, my ex-girlfriend only left one sentence: I don't want to see you pretending to have money without money, which will make me feel that you are particularly unreliable.

A Qiang met his ex-girlfriend with a smile 1 month, and fell in love for 3 months. In less than four months, A Qiang spent 250,000 yuan on this girl.

This girl just graduated from graduate school. She is the only child in the family. Her parents run a company and have a good family condition. At least compared with A Qiang, the gap is really big.

When I first met A Qiang, his monthly salary in the company was over 6,000 yuan. He went to a bar with his friends and happened to meet Mix. Do you believe in love at first sight? Maybe you will say you don't believe it.

But one day, somewhere, you meet a woman of the opposite sex. On this side, your heart may have hit a deer for a long time, so you decide to pursue this person.

So, A Qiang and Xiaoxiao left contact information for each other. Every day after work, he will wait downstairs where she lives, take her to eat supper, go to the movies and go shopping.

Xiaoxiao's living environment since childhood is very moist and rich. Her parents have never wronged her, and she is not short of money. Although I don't have a job yet, my parents give me more living expenses every month than A Qiang earns every month.

She has five or six thousand clothes, more than 20 thousand bags, more than 20 thousand watches and thousands of cosmetics.

Such a consumption concept, for A Qiang, he never thought about it; However, in order to make the person you like happy and leave a good impression on the person you like, A Ren is spending money.

Xiaoxiao bought a mobile phone for A Qiang, which was close to 1000 yuan. Because A Qiang's mobile phone was broken and still in use, she changed it for A Qiang. In return for Mix, A Qiang bought her another bag, which cost 65,438+500,000 yuan.

Seeing that the deposit in the card is getting less and less, until the last penny is gone.

When all his savings were gone, A Qiang began to borrow a month's salary from his colleague borrow money to spend, eight colleagues in a department in the office. Seeing that the salary can't keep up with the consumption of two people, A Qiang began to overdraw his credit card and borrow money.

I can't help it My parents just bought him a house, and there is no extra money to give him money to fall in love.

What impressed A Qiang the most was that his ex-girlfriend especially liked watching football games, so he crustily skin of head and bought two tickets to watch the NBA. They stayed there for three days, and spent almost 65,438+10,000 yuan on round-trip air tickets, meals and accommodation.

After spending all the money, A Qiang didn't have the courage to spend any more money for her, because he felt that no matter how hard he tried, it didn't seem to make the girl more moved.

Why won't you be moved? Because money is the life she originally gave Xiaoxiao, she often travels abroad with her parents. And this kind of life, in A Qiang's eyes, is particularly luxurious, just beyond my reach.

The night before the breakup, A Qiang sent a message to a friend to borrow money, but the chat record was seen by Mix; Only then did Xiao Xiao realize that all the money he spent for himself was borrowed.

Usually, A Qiang always boasted to Mix: I paid tens of thousands of dollars this month, and the commission was very high; I have a lot of savings, enough to support you. ...

Until then, Xiao Xiao realized that this person was not honest at all. Even though the money was spent for himself, Mix felt that such a person was really unreliable.

After three months of love, A Qiang spent almost 250,000 yuan; Mix spent nearly 654.38 million yuan on him.

On the day of breaking up, A Qiang said that he didn't seem so hard, and even felt particularly relaxed. He felt a heavy burden suddenly disappear.

-02

Your thick skin can't support cross-class love.

In fact, after listening to A Qiang's story, I think it is a bumpy and difficult thing to fall in love with people of different levels and classes.

What did A Qiang do wrong in this relationship?

First, he doesn't have enough financial ability to bear his girlfriend's living expenses, and his income and savings are simply not enough to support their love consumption.

However, he chose to spend with the cheek, pay the bill with the cheek, even pay the bill by comparing consumption, borrow money from people around him, and even overdraw credit card loans; Such behavior is enough to prove his stupidity and his thick skin.

There is a saying that "punch a swollen face and fill a fat man".

You obviously don't have this economic condition, but you insist on living in the upper class. Is it possible?

Second: He and his ex-girlfriend are not at the same level at all.

One is a well-off girl, and the other is an office worker whose life is difficult to guarantee; For this girl, she thinks it is normal to buy tens of thousands of pieces of a bag, eat thousands of pieces of a meal and live on tens of thousands of pieces a month; For A Qiang, his income is only over 6K a month, and he can earn more than 70,000 yuan a year.

65438+ ten thousand yuan deposit, how long will it take him to save enough? After only three months in love, he spent 250 thousand. What about his future life?

So some boys are always impulsive. You like a girl, but you can't give her the life she wants. She has a high quality of life since she was a child, but is it necessary to lower her living standard when she is with you?

It's too difficult to go from luxury to thrift.

Even if she is willing to spend less money for you, even if she is willing to spend money for you, are you sure you can stand the eyes of the outside world in the future?

If you are not in the circle, don't blend in; If you are not at the same level, don't be keen on spending the rest of your life with others.

You think you are sincere and brave for love, but in fact you are just playing with a cheeky man; Your efforts are worthless in her eyes.