I don't know what the purpose of your boyfriend's online loan is, and I don't know if you know it beforehand, but as a bystander, I advise you to think calmly. If the purpose of this loan is to have fun, buy luxury goods or spend some unnecessary expenses, then I suggest you stop here, because some people are addicted to gambling and are not easy to repent. In order not to hurt the fish in the pool, it is best to break up. Because it is too difficult for you to change a person with bad habits, otherwise you will be black and blue all over. So it's really like the ancient poem said, "From the other side of the mountain, there are different heights. I really want to persuade you to separate, because such a dark day will be very painful." On the way, you dare not tell your parents for his self-esteem; You will be reluctant to eat, wear, spend more money, try to do a part-time job, and help him pay off his debts with all his salary just for less interest.
If the online loan is due to some inevitable reasons, reflecting that he may be out of kindness and filial piety, then you can consider whether you have the ability and patience to accompany him to repay the loan, and you will bear it with him. Do you have this ability first? Another person needs to know how much he is in debt, and it is understandable that he failed to start a business. If it is because of online gambling or other meaningless reasons, it is more appropriate to split up early, and there is no future with such people. If it is because of the "five poisons", you should leave decisively and don't hesitate, because it is impossible and fruitless to live with such people all your life.