Although my husband's family condition is not good, my parents have no prejudice against him. Anyway, after marriage, they are a family. Instead, my parents came to persuade me that although my husband is a son-in-law, I still have to be filial to my in-laws. If my mother-in-law has any requirements for me, I will try my best to meet them. Because of my parents' words, I also try my best to meet my mother-in-law's requirements. For example, if my brother-in-law wants to find a job, I will help him find a job. If my brother-in-law wants to do something, I will always help him without saying much.
Maybe I was too accommodating. As long as my mother-in-law speaks, I will agree, so my mother-in-law will push her luck more and more. I sometimes want to ignore her, but when I think that my husband has come to our house as a son-in-law, the son that my mother-in-law has raised for so many years is ours. If I think from the perspective of empathy, I don't care so much. The year before last, my mother-in-law said that the house in my hometown was to be renovated, and I also paid 30 thousand yuan, but after this happened, I was not so generous to my mother-in-law
I happened to find that the house my brother-in-law bought turned out to be a loan paid by her husband. Although it is only 1500 yuan a month, it will cost hundreds of thousands in ten years. I was very angry when I learned that my husband had returned the loan to my brother-in-law behind my back. I had a quarrel with my mother-in-law. I didn't expect her to say that my son came to your house as a door-to-door son-in-law, even if he was married to your home. Is it wrong for me to ask for hundreds of bride price? I didn't expect my mother-in-law to say that.
Because of this, my husband and I had a long cold war. If it weren't for the children's face, I really want to divorce my husband. I know my husband wants to help their family because our family has better conditions, but it is wrong to help them. A year later, my brother-in-law was getting married. My mother-in-law said that the house should be decorated before marriage, and her mother-in-law's money should be used for bride price, so she put the idea of decorating the house on my head and asked me to pay for it!
At that time, my mother-in-law said, I left the decoration of this house in Pearl Krabs to you. Well, you see that you are so capable and know many people, and it won't cost much for others to help you then. At that time, my husband also said at the side, wife, I remember that one of your cousins was doing decoration. Give him the money and we can save a lot of money. You are all related, he can't make money from your sister! I promise mom for you!
At that time, when I heard my husband say this, I was so angry that I went back and said to my husband, who promised? Why did you promise me? You're already helping your brother pay the loan, and now you want me to pay for the decoration. Don't play this abacus too well. It's good that our family has money, but our family's money is not spent by outsiders. When I say this, my husband will apologize and coax me into saying, wife, you are wrong. Who is an outsider here? Aren't we all family?
At that time, I glanced at my husband and said, who is your family? I was blind when I married you. My husband was a little angry when I said this, and he smashed everything on the coffee table. I was angry when I saw my husband smashing things. I picked up the bench and smashed the house. After I smashed it, I said to my mother-in-law, I'm sorry, mom, but I have no money to decorate your little son now, because I want to decorate my own home. Now my husband and I have been in a cold war over this matter, and I really want to get a divorce, because he and his family are getting too much, and they want me to do everything that contributes!