If this is a tragic combination, maybe we can forget it.

There used to be a processing factory with a dozen people. A set of 100 square meters apartment with two cars. Three vans.

Although not as rich as the rich, I can live well in this less prosperous city.

I want to talk about my husband.

I was dragged down by my best classmates more than ten years ago. My classmate sent his lover's sister to my husband's bed, and he smiled shamelessly. That woman is only in her teens, but she is very skilled. I got my phone number from his sister's man, and dozens of calls and text messages every day … almost killed me. This man has changed since then.

In the past ten years, he has changed two lovers, regardless of business, spending money like water. But he never divorced. I have to pretend to be a loving couple with him for the sake of the children. In 20 19, we suffered great changes and our business plummeted. A more terrible thing happened in 2020. He owes more than one million yuan. In order to pay off his debts, he borrowed a loan similar to usury. I don't know why, but he failed the credit check, so he used my ID card. I owe a lot of money for no reason.

In March this year, the loan was not paid and the house was mortgaged. Originally, I was going to repay the loan with the mortgaged money, but he took the money and then the loan was not repaid, and the money disappeared inexplicably. I can say for sure that there is no woman outside him at present, so there is only one, gambling.

As a result, when I was almost 50 years old, my business collapsed. There is only one worker left in the factory of more than a dozen people. I often have nothing to do and my salary can't be paid. My house has been mortgaged, and it is still unknown whether I can return the money to the bank when it expires. There are only two cars left, and I don't know how long it will last. There is still a loan outstanding. In the past, in the eyes of friends, because this man lived at the bottom of the city, he often had only a few tens of dollars in his pocket. I can't get a divorce because all the debts are mine. ...

The most terrible thing is this man. He ruined the family and made himself lose his fighting spirit. He brushed Tik Tok all day, slept ... he used to be the most loyal. If his friend needs money, even if we only have a hundred dollars, he would rather let my son and I starve and lend it to his friend for emergency. But now he is down and out, and none of his friends are willing to help him. He often cynically implies that he has no money …

The friendship between men is too hypocritical. Feelings bought with money are even less valuable.

We should be regarded as the worst generation after 70. We are old, but we have nothing. If a woman meets such a man, even if she takes off her skin, she should divorce as soon as possible and stop loss in time. Don't be like me.

My best friend, 7 1 year-old, bought and sold a few years ago and lost everything (including two houses and two cars). I have no choice but to go abroad to work in Australia for almost three years, and I have to pay off my debts when I go out. I borrowed usury when I left. Going there as a nanny can earn 1500 euros a month, and I plan to work until I am 60 years old. She said that it is impossible for people her age to earn a lot of money at home, so they can only work abroad. If she leaves her hometown alone, it's hard to say that no one cares about her death, because she went as a black household. She and Ben have no identity and dare not go out at this age. ...

I am 72 years old, but my ID card is 7 1 year. I retired from the company on the 2nd yesterday. I have paid social security for 9 years, 1 1 month, less than 10 year. The company agreed to pay for me last month. I don't know if I can pay for it. You can pay for it yourself later. I have a small house.

1978, I have a daughter and a son. My daughter is in grade one and my son is in grade three. A three-story self-built house has been built in the countryside, with no commercial house and no car. The savings amount to more than 40 W, and the current monthly income is about1W. However, due to age, I may have to leave my job after working for 1 2 years, and I have bought social security for 16 years, but I can't see it at present.

1. I was born in the 1970s and stayed at home for half a year. At the end of last month, my application was approved and I left my post where I had worked for 25 years. To tell you the truth, I am still a little reluctant to leave. It can be said that I don't want to leave, but I may be marginalized next. Maybe leaving is my best choice, and I will take the next step slowly.

I heard that a former middle-level cadre was eliminated tonight and went to the front desk. This man is about my age. It is hard to imagine that he will study business again at his age. In the face of all kinds of people, how should he deal with it in the future, how to adapt to the high-intensity front desk work, and how to practice business exams frequently? I'm worried about him, but if he doesn't go to this position, he will face a waiting job. Someone asked him if he was lucky. I hope he can adapt to his present post.

The worst part is the post-70 s compatriots who lost their lives due to natural disasters. As long as we are alive, there are infinite possibilities. Down-to-earth, hard work, as long as the heart is not dead, the winter will pass. Give you a word: everything will be fine.

They say there is no harm without comparison. A friend of mine, a troubled post-70 s, was once brilliant, but because he didn't grasp the market well, he lost a lot.

At present, the foreign debt is several million, and the dunning phone keeps calling all day. I always go to court. But even so, friends are still working hard for debt. As he said, it's no big deal. Debt can always be paid off. It's only a matter of time. He is really miserable now, but I believe he will make a comeback one day.

My buddy 199 1 year old. In 2006, I worked as a lighting engineer in Dalian with an annual income of 5 million. By 20 14, he had more than 40 million. There are hundreds of bungalows and three children in Dalian. In 20 15, the investment failed, with a loss of more than 50 million yuan and a debt of 10 million yuan, and the house in Dalian was sold. At present, he works in lighting engineering, hospital laboratories and various projects all over the country. 20 17 up to now, three children have been taking care of the elderly in their hometown county. He can come back ten or eight days a year, and it is difficult to earn money in other places. He can only earn1800 thousand a year, and it is difficult to pay off his debts. It is estimated that next year will be better, and I hope to earn18 million. Bless you.

After 70 years, I will receive my pension next month. I share a suite with a 22-year-old woman and still do odd jobs. I saved more than 300,000 yuan, and I paid 500,000 yuan every month, with high interest. I have been a short-term interest for more than three years. I don't think I can get the principal back [covering my face]. No one is worse than me!

Basically, there are these situations: because you are forty or fifty years old, if you are in the system, your career has come to an end and started to decline. Unless you are a big cadre, it is impossible to go up. Like other predecessors, it is almost "being a monk for a day and bumping into a bell for a day."

Or you may have a lot of debt. For example, you may have worked in a bank for 30 years, and that is your house. Maybe because of your vanity, there is a luxury car waiting for you to raise every month. As for children, you may have been exhausted by studying, getting married and so on, house money and grandchildren's support.

Middle-aged people are a divorce army. At the age of 70, the disintegration of marriage and family can be seen everywhere. After all, many couples have lived for many years, and there are more and more contradictions. As a last resort, their family broke up. Generally speaking, it is difficult for divorced people at this age to form a new family, which will involve children, real estate, debts and so on, so loneliness is always a helpless move.