Chatted about life planning.
He said that when his salary rises to seven or eight thousand, he can start dating and find someone, and then pay a down payment to buy a house and get married.
He said, I ask you, if you are, would you like to pay the mortgage with your boyfriend?
I said I would. Are most girls willing? I have asked many people around me, and most girls are willing. If I pay the mortgage, my name will be written on the house book, so I have no reason not to pay it together. If you don't write my name, forget it. I am not stupid.
Do you think my life plan is ok?
This kind of planning is really good.
There is nothing grandiose or pretentious. When people become adults, they are down-to-earth in society. This is what it feels like to talk about marriage and love. After all, real life is getting closer and closer to us, and it should be one of the most unpretentious forms of love in real life for two people to repay the mortgage together.
Of course, who doesn't want to worry about any mortgage? Do I have to cry and say that I don't want you to have a house and a car?
It's like a boy who wants his future wife to have a supermodel figure.
If looking for a boyfriend and girlfriend must have such conditions, then wait. If there is no such requirement, then honestly admit that you are not Cinderella or overbearing president, you will not expect any Marisol plot, and everyone you meet is water, which is also good. Just like many of my college classmates didn't leave after graduation, they started to work hard in that city and wanted to take root and sprout. Many people have been in love, thinking that they can go on forever, so they buy a house together and settle in that city. I often see them taking photos in the circle of friends. Today I cooked noodles, and tomorrow I'm going to be a jiaozi, both in the house where they repaid the loan together. Very unhappy.
I read a sentence in grandma's book. She said: "It's enough to get a person's heart, and the imperial city divides the mortgage."
Actually, I didn't think much about this kind of thing when I first graduated. Although I understand that love should be pragmatic, I still feel panic about the real life that really comes to me.
Panic about what?
Pay enough for dinner, pay enough for flattery, and pay enough for love.
But these are not enough. Do you want to buy a house in the future?
God, I'm only in my twenties. Do I really have to go on the day when I carry my house and repay the loan every month?
But once I panic, I forget, because I always feel that I am still a baby, and what to buy for marriage is not on the agenda at all.
In addition, I analyzed it again, probably because I was impressed by the customs at home and didn't pay attention to the matter of buying a house and repaying a mortgage in the future.
Because the custom at home is that if a boy wants to get married, he must have a car and a house, and the bride price should be in place. A girl's dowry is not as demanding as a house, so girls don't need to worry too much. Moreover, if a man doesn't have a house that satisfies his wife, he wants to marry her, which is a bit crazy.
Perhaps this custom makes my subconscious feel relaxed.
I met a boyfriend and a girlfriend who had a quarrel over the house. The boy's family is not rich. A family of three lives in a small house. Girls say they have to buy a house if they want to get married, or they don't get married. Think about how you will live when you have children and your family of six is crowded into a small house. The girl thought about it, too. Let the boy buy a house, or break up. But boys really can't afford it. In our family, the house price is not low either.
The two families discussed that the woman's family must have a house and a high bride price. Still unresolved, marriage has not been formed.
Of course, we will not judge other people's choices, because I am not her, and everyone is only responsible for their own choices.
In fact, I have heard many people say that it is stressful to have a boy, and I have heard many small complaints from male friends, but I don't understand how stressful it is to be a boy and a boy's parents.
But today, our Communist Youth League secretary told me that in his family, marrying a local girl not only has a car and a house, but also the bride price is 12 to150,000.
I wanted so much ... and I remembered my friend's breakup. For the first time, I feel that many boys have a lot of pressure in their mouths, and they are really moaning without illness.
Because he was born with a house.
But then again, not all girls ask men to have a house and a car.
Although many people say that the reality of this world is terrible, ghosts without houses and cars want to marry you.
But many times you just don't want it, she just loves it.
After all, if you love her and she loves you, you can give her hope and she will feel very happy with you. You have no car or house, she has a car or house, and you have no car or house. She said that we have a car and a house together, and it is not a problem to repay the mortgage together.
Women are the most emotional and cruel creatures.
The biggest fear is that you don't love her and think that she is just a person living with others. Don't care at all. Then she will think, anyway, it's just a partner, and love doesn't involve it. Why don't I find someone who can support myself and even live a luxurious life?
I don't want love. I want bread. There's nothing wrong with that.
I wrote an article called "You are so poor, I dare not love" before, and I received many messages from girls. Several people say that what I fear most is not that this person is poor, but that this person is poor and lazy. If I give them another chance, only fools will fall in love with these men.
Really, many girls say that marriage is to find a house, not for her material things, but because she may have loved a poor and sour person who always wants to cheat. I am so disappointed.
There are also many men who go to extremes.
I know a boy who is nearly thirty. What is the song he listens to every day? "If I have no money, will you still love me?" Would you still love me if I didn't have a car? Would you still love me if I were just a silly child in the village? You women are both materialistic and vain ... "
Nonsense, you call yourself a silly boy. I love you. Affectionate
There are also men who talk about how realistic the world is all day, but do nothing. Of course, they deserve to be trampled on by reality. The more so, the more vain the person you love is in your eyes.
Fortunately, there are still some boys who are motivated, hardworking, single-minded and practical. Never exaggerate any problems, and never underestimate yourself or others easily.
But don't put too much pressure on you. Now more and more girls make money like you, and their ability is not lower than yours. It is not a big problem to repay the mortgage together.
More and more girls also learn to give themselves a sense of security with material sacrifices in a relationship.
We won't flaunt independence too much, because in this world, men and women are interdependent. You give me warmth, I give you care, you give me intimacy, and I give you understanding.
Then the love that should come comes, we don't hide, the bill that should come comes, we don't run away.
Anyway, it depends on love or not in the end. If I don't love you, I don't want to pay a penny. You too. If you don't love me, even 35 cents will be cleared.
Men and women are the same, no one is more realistic than anyone else, and there are comparisons.
But now, since we have met, and we think this is the best time for us to meet, let's have a secular love and live a real life.
Again, I hope to win your heart and pay the mortgage with you.
Every girl is a leprechaun She should cultivate Wang Dachun with half love and half sex appeal.