Of course. Loan by credit card first, then pay it back after marriage. Generally, the bride will return the bride price money to her mother-in-law's house, so it is normal to repay the loan. It's also a good idea. But it depends on whether the woman's family is playing common sense. If the woman's family has a brother-in-law who hasn't married a daughter-in-law, it is estimated that you are already in into the pit. Bless you!