I am glad to be able to answer this question. It's still a headache to mention this problem.

Not long ago, I borrowed a sum of money from a friend and promised to pay it back at the end of March, but now it's April, and I can't even find anyone and I can't send back the news. I think this situation is nothing more than two situations. First, maybe he did encounter difficulties or troubles; The second is that he really evaded paying back the money. Whatever the reason, I don't think we can play missing. People should be honest and trustworthy. If he can't contact me, I'll go to him. It's not just for the money to find him. I want to teach him how to be a man.

In view of the inability of the borrower to repay, I suggest the following measures:

1, if the quantity is not large, it should be done once in a while. Finally, if you really don't pay it back, we will spend money to buy a lesson and recognize a person;

2. If the amount is relatively large, it is best to take legal measures and directly sue;

In the future, no matter who borrows money, he must first polish his eyes and recognize the Chu people. Better settle accounts with the brothers. No matter who borrows money and fulfills the loan procedures, it is best to have a mortgage to avoid their own losses. The above only represents personal views. I hope everyone will pay more attention to lending.

First, I won't repay the loan. My approach may be different from that of many people.

1. If the other person has a bad personality and doesn't pay the loan, I won't take it, even if I spend so much money to see a person clearly. I used to have a fellow villager who used to get together and play cards. He borrowed money from me at the poker table and never paid it back. I said, no, and then I deleted this person. It's not worth spending time with such people. If you work hard, why don't you make money? If you are angry about this, it is even more worth being angry about.

If I have a lot of money, I will ask each other out. Basically, I never owe anyone money. I keep my word, whether it's payment or loan. Therefore, no matter the big companies or small companies I meet, they basically don't owe me money.

Second, if you borrow money, you will not pay it back. Actually, it's mainly because we have problems with people. I only borrow money in three situations:

1, children go to school, their personality is ok, how much they borrow when they encounter difficulties, but it doesn't affect their lives, no matter how good friends they are.

2, doing business, it is a good thing for a friend with character to do business. Lend it to him as long as he has it. If his business is good, he will naturally strengthen his contacts.

3, sick, everyone has parents, for their parents to operate to see a doctor, filial piety to borrow money, must borrow, he will certainly pay back.

Third, don't borrow it in several cases.

1, consumption, no loan, you buy a house and a car, the burden is so heavy, you repay the loan every month, and the principal is returned to me. I can't believe it, and I don't want to borrow it.

2. invest, don't borrow, I'd better invest in myself.

3. repay the loan, don't borrow it, and you can't pay back the money you owe others. What shall I do with the money you owe me in the future? Don't borrow it

Fourth, how to ask for money?

1, keep the vouchers about borrowing money such as WeChat, Alipay and qq, and tear them up and use them;

2, to write a loan, don't be embarrassed to say that there is no evidence;

3, agreed repayment time, the right to travel in time;

4, don't get excited, the evidence is conclusive, you can directly sue, 100% wins;

5. Find people you know together and ask for help. Everyone is proud. Borrowing money to install x makes him unable to install it.

Finally, it is best not to borrow money. A friend of a gentleman, not talking about money, hurts feelings with everyone, hahaha.

It is said that the collapse of adults begins with borrowing money. Indeed, borrowing money is a very special thing in the eyes of adults. Find someone to borrow money, and I'll lend it to you without saying anything. If the relationship is not in place, there will be various reasons not to lend it to you.

It's easy to repay after borrowing, but it's not difficult to borrow again, but it's easy not to repay after borrowing. Some people just borrow less and simply don't pay it back. Some people don't know why they forgot to pay back the money, reminding them that there is still hope. Others try to make money and want to pay back the money as soon as possible, but they really have no money.

Borrowing money and paying back money is about credibility, relying on ability. Who can borrow, how much can borrow, weigh it yourself and reduce losses. You don't have to rush if you have a good relationship, and you don't have the heart to rush. It's no use if you don't have enough connections. On the contrary, how do you feel about yourself? This is human nature. If you have less money, you can spend money on classes. In particular, you can go through legal procedures.

Don't borrow money if you have nothing to do. Obviously, he didn't pay back the money, but in the end he became stingy.

These two days, Lang Jun Jr. chatted with a friend who used to have a good time online. The friend talked about his bad feelings. My friend said, "When I just graduated, I worked hard to save 30,000 yuan a year, and it was not mature at that time. When chatting with my friends, I said that I saved 30 thousand a year. A few days later, someone came to borrow money from me. It was 30 thousand when I borrowed it. It happened that I saved it.

It has been several years now, and every time I urge him to pay back the money, I always say, "I will definitely pay it back at the end of the month!" " Must be returned years ago! Pay back the salary as soon as it arrives next month! "I use a certain amount every time. I'm sure it is. I didn't reply directly later. I asked again the other day and found that it had been deleted. I was so angry that I called him directly and found that the phone also blacked me out. Looks like I'm going to default.

At that time, Lang Jun asked him if he had an iou or something.

The friend replied, "Nothing, just cash." Small sigh, it's really difficult.

Everyone may have encountered this kind of thing in their lives. If someone asks you for money, it must be a good relationship with you. At this time, we are in a dilemma. If we borrow the money, we may not be able to get it back. If we don't borrow it, it will be difficult for our friends to do it.

Just in a forum, I underestimated a trapped victim. In my opinion, the borrower basically lost his face.

Look, everyone, it's the first time I've seen such a disgusting person. When I borrowed money, I said that I was particularly pitiful, particularly embarrassed and particularly pitiful. My girlfriend is pregnant, and my life is almost over. This friend saw that you had difficulty in lending you money, and when he got the money, he turned around and deleted others.

Some people are more shameless. They borrow money from others themselves, and then others ask for it. Even if you don't pay it back, you even say that others are stingy behind your back, as if it is natural for you not to pay back the money, and it is wrong for others to urge you to pay back the money.

Only when we have experienced many things can we feel that kind of anger and helplessness. If someone asks you for money in real life, try not to borrow it, and don't show off how high your salary is and how many assets you have. It is better to cry poor than to show off your wealth.

Hello, I'm Yu Xiaoyu, and it's my pleasure to answer your questions. I think many people have encountered this problem. They had good intentions, but they turned against each other. Borrow money and not pay it back.

1, since you can borrow money, then you must have a good relationship at that time and you can borrow it on behalf of trust. Since I believe that if you give me so much time, maybe there is something to hide.

2, many popular sayings, if you can lend it out, you must prepare for the worst. If you feel that your feelings are in place, or you don't care about money, don't want it. If you have a conscience, you will pay it back. If you have no conscience, pay for a lesson yourself.

3. When there is an iou, you can take it to ask for money, and you can sue. There are many management methods for Lao Lai now. So I'm not worried about not getting my money back.

Whether you borrow money or are borrowed, the best way is to borrow it and pay it back. No matter how long it takes, you should have a grateful heart to treat those who helped you at the beginning. There is an old saying in China: A drop of water has a fountain, so we should have a clear conscience. Set a good example for the next generation. Anyway, you have to pay back the money you borrowed.

I hope you are satisfied with my answer and wish you a wide range of financial resources.

Different people have different answers to this question.

People on earth are good at living. There are no born villains. Generally speaking, people don't borrow money unless they have to, and it all happens between two parties with good relations.

I have a buddy, the kind who is very close. For decades, we watched each other grow. Eat, drink and never be absent. One dark night more than ten years ago, he called me, and I felt very uncomfortable. I have a bad feeling that he borrowed100000 yuan from me! Although there is some money, there is not much left after borrowing it, but he is a borrower! But without any hesitation, I promised him at once.

That night, my heart was like a thread, with mixed feelings. I know that if he doesn't return it on time, my friend for decades will probably say goodbye; I also know that he probably had a big problem and couldn't get over it, otherwise he would never take the initiative to find me. As the ancients said, eating people has a soft mouth, but taking people has a short mouth. But on second thought, the big deal is to start all over again. I slept soundly that night.

Five years later, he paid it all back. Although it was borrowed for one year, it was later extended for four years, but it was never urged. I know his difficulty, and I know that once I rush him, ours will really be finished.

I insisted on not paying any interest when he paid back the money. I know his difficulties. Therefore, people who borrow money and don't pay it back should be treated differently and can't generalize.

Usually such people are the most hateful. There are two ways to borrow money. The first way is to pay back the money, and then the person will act according to the law. The second key is to borrow money, but it is really impossible to repay the economy without money. When you lend it to him, you will usually find out about him and just want to help. So, the money can be paid back a little, but how long will it take? A month, a year, two years can't be delayed. You must keep your promise. I usually pay back the money twice, and then I don't want to go. It's time to go. People who want to pay back the money must be trustworthy and make mistakes at most once. Just like never being stupid enough to miss credit three times. These little things can show his attitude towards you. The repayment period is coming, and he will take the initiative to explain the situation and allow a few days' grace. There will never be a good man who borrowed money, but a grandson will be a grandfather if he pays back the money.

Everyone has borrowed money and never paid it back. There is a true story. A young man borrowed money from a rich man next door. At first, he borrowed some money and put it at home. He paid it back immediately on the agreed repayment date. After building his reputation, the loans gradually increased. This cycle was repeated many times, and the young man became a very honest man in the eyes of the rich. One day, the young man said that there was a very good project, but he had no money to invest, so the rich gave generously. Finally, with the help of the rich, the young man became a world-famous entrepreneur.

Honesty is the life of a person and even a country, even something more important than life. But in the eyes of short-sighted people, it is worthless.

A colleague of mine came to tell me that something happened at home and I needed 50 yuan urgently (1987). After borrowing it, he always tries to get it back as if nothing had happened. Later, I simply didn't want it. Instead, I think it's cheap to look at a person's face for 50 yuan.

On the issue of lending money to others, I always don't borrow money because I love face. Later, I made a rule for myself, that is, I don't borrow those who have little contact at ordinary times and don't borrow those who have a bad reputation. If I exceed $10,000, I will write an IOU.

Everyone has difficulties. I think it's better to help someone. Everyone has several. He is my brother and poor relative. If they are in trouble and don't lend a helping hand, are they still brothers and relatives? How to understand the word friend?

Those who deliberately refuse to repay the loan will be prosecuted by law. For those who can't return, I think we should wait until they can return.

Borrow it or not, there is no one now, and if it is returned, it will not be returned. Now the goods are not money. Lending can test people best.

Four ways to easily collect debts without spending money: fight poison with poison. For some forgetful debtors, you can't deal with these old "Yang Bailao" by asking Huang Shiren for money. In this way, when you are sad, you will inevitably worry. Actually, it's not necessary As the saying goes, "Deal with a man as he deals with you". Make up a good reason, sweet talk, and let the debtor go shopping for nothing. When you see something you like, ask him/her for money directly. You can borrow as much as he/she owes you, preferably with interest. Method 2: "barter" replacement method As for those who "pretend to be confused and understand", they will often lend him/her money like a meat bun hitting a dog in the future-there is no return. And I'm afraid they've taken precautions against you asking for money. But it doesn't matter, learning the "barter substitution method" will definitely make him/her hard to prevent. First of all, pay attention to the goods belonging to the debtor, and its value is better to be slightly greater than or equal to the money owed. After that, find the best time and pretend that there is no motivation to "borrow" it. You refuse to pay your debts until the debtor pays them off. So it's not too late even if it's too late. Method 3: The method of "killing the chicken" with a knife cannot directly deal with the "iron cock" in debt, but can only kill the "chicken" with a knife. Find someone who knows the debtor well. Of course, this person must be someone you are familiar with. Then, complain about your current financial difficulties and list the debtors who take up your money, so that the other party can stand up and tell the debtors what you can't say for you. This method can also be used interchangeably, and it can also play the same role by directly expressing it to the debtor. However, this trick requires some acting skills, and it must not be discovered that you are referring to mulberry abuse, otherwise it will be self-defeating. Method 4: Use weapons against those "stumbling" debtors. Maybe even if you try your best, it won't work. Then you can only use the last resort-resort to law. Because the law pays attention to evidence, after all, it is empty talk. When there is an IOU in black and white, if the borrower fails to pay the arrears according to the IOU agreement, the law is the most powerful weapon against the above-mentioned debtors. Advise those students who don't pay back the money to read the following sentence several times: At the beginning, others lent you money not because they had more money, but because they wanted to lend you a helping hand when you were in trouble. It is an obligation for others to help you, and it is an obligation not to help you. There is nothing to take for granted. How many people ignore these simple truths!