Ask others with the eyes of a "saint", but when it comes to yourself, you may be more determined than you.
As strangers, we don't know how you are getting along in this marriage.
I don't know what kind of person your mother-in-law is, so I personally feel that it is good to do things according to my own heart, and there is no need to care too much about other people's opinions.
As the saying goes, "Zhu Dexiao comes first". As the son of your mother-in-law, when her mother was seriously ill, she wanted to sell the house to treat her.
I am very moved by such filial piety. After all, there are really not many sons who can do this.
At this time, you proposed to divorce your husband, divide the money from selling the house and get your share back.
Anyone will poke you in the spine and be labeled as an unfilial daughter-in-law from now on.
People's hearts are all meat. If you can do this, you must have your own plan in mind.
Maybe it's because my mother-in-law doesn't get along well with you in daily life.
There is nothing to avoid such a thing. After all, the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is normal.
In addition to the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are many things that may make you decide to divorce your husband and ask for the division of the property.
For example, children's education, as well as their future employment and family problems.
These are real problems, and behind each problem, money is needed to support them.
As a daughter-in-law, you can choose between your child and your mother-in-law so firmly.
But as your mother-in-law's son, he has no choice.
I believe that if he has the same idea as you, it's not just a matter of being poked in the spine.
When your married life is unhappy, you may feel that it is unnecessary to pay so much.
After all, from two people getting married to owning their own house, the hardships paid in this process are not understandable by ordinary people.
The ancients said well: "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when they are in trouble." .
In a happy marriage, when encountering difficulties, the old face will still fly away, not to mention an unhappy marriage.
Life is too short for us to care too much about other people's eyes.
For those who understand and support you, no matter what decision you make, the other party will show concern and support for you.
For those who don't understand you, no matter how much you pay, the other person will take it for granted.
I believe you can choose to divorce your husband and divide the money from selling the house. It's your own consideration.
Although this practice will make you fall into the whirlpool of public opinion, believe me, there is no sky that does not clear up.
As long as you don't give up the hope of life and label yourself unfilial, the dark clouds will eventually disperse and the sun will shine into your heart sooner or later.