2 1 year-old single mother's voice, let's take a look with me.
On September 2 1 day, Meng Xin 20 19, a 2 1 year-old single mother sent a message to thank everyone for their concern and said, "I love my child very much and will try my best to make her live well."
She also said that "2 1 year-old is the time to suffer hardships" and "as long as the daughter is healthy, safe and happy, it is worthwhile to do anything without being bullied."
The full text is as follows:
Hello, everyone, I am a single mother who delivers takeout at the age of 2/kloc-0.
Thanks for your encouragement and support.
I am also very grateful to the leaders of Anqing Women's Federation for their concern.
Including my unit SF, thank you very much for your concern and help.
I didn't expect so many netizens to pay attention to an accidental street visit.
2 1 year-old is the time to suffer. I can't write anything except junior high school culture. All I know is that I don't run away or give up. I love my children very much, and I won't give up my children.
As long as you do your best, the rest is up to God. As long as my daughter is healthy, safe, happy and not bullied, everything I do is worthwhile.
Although I have not given my daughter good conditions, I will try my best to make her live well and protect her.
Three meals a day is my happiest life.
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Recently, an interview video of a 2 1 year-old single mother in Anqing, Anhui Province has aroused widespread concern.
In the video, she introduced her surname Chen, 2 1 year old. In 20 19, the husband died in a car accident when the child was 5 or 6 months old. In less than a month, her mother-in-law got the compensation and drove her and her daughter out of the house. Because of the high salary and "bringing children", I came out to take delivery.
I heard that she and her daughter were kicked out of the house by her mother-in-law, and the interviewer couldn't help asking, "Does her own granddaughter want it?"
She shook her head helplessly with tears in her eyes and said, "The continuation over there can only be a son, not a daughter."
She said that her parents didn't want to take their children, thinking that she was only 2 1 year old, and there might be a better future without children, but she said, "I don't think so. Since I gave birth to her, I must be responsible. Why should I give birth to her without responsibility? "
So she chose to leave her hometown to work alone. For her parents, she said, "My mother is doing me good. She loves her daughter, but I also love my daughter. "
Recalling the beginning of delivery, she said that at that time, the child was only about six months old, so she could only hold the child in front of her and bite her teeth when she needed to climb the stairs.
The interviewer can't help but sigh, "It's not easy." She immediately said, "What's so hard about this? It's not bitter now, but when? Only 2 1 year old, it's time to suffer. "
When the interviewer wanted to give her a red envelope, she refused. "This is a personal bottom line. You can't touch my bottom line I really don't want it. I have to rely on myself. "
According to the Observer. Com, some netizens questioned that her mother-in-law had taken all the compensation, and thought that if her husband died unexpectedly after marriage, the share of compensation should be equal for the heirs in the same order, and legal aid should be sought.
In response, the female rider responded in the follow-up video that her mother-in-law was old and had a teenage child. "She also lost a son." She said that her mother-in-law will now "give some money every few months and so on" and "I am still young and feel that I can support my daughter".
The local women's Federation responded that it had understood the matter and went to see her. The head of the public relations department of SF Express said that she was given some material support, but she did not accept it.
Source: Jiupai news comprehensive drawer video, social account of the parties, Xianning Radio and Television Station, video blogger "Xiao Yuan is coming", Observer Network, etc.
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2 1 year-old single mothers who give birth;
The whole network loves her dearly! 2 1 year-old single mother gave birth: I just want my daughter to live better.
These days, a girl named Meng Xiao boarded a hot search.
She was born in 200 1 and is 2 1 year old this year, but she looks very small, with big shiny eyes and two dimples. At first glance, she looks like seventeen or eighteen.
A big V was moved by her. He said, "I dare not look into her sparkling eyes."
She just accepted a very ordinary street interview, and her story was known.
What moved her most was that she had already suffered, but she said it with a smile.
Facing her own experience, she is strong and optimistic.
You can't see anything crushed by suffering in her face, only feel the happiness that she has a daughter.
Faced with other people's help, she also refused.
Shun Feng Tongcheng said: She gave some material support, but she didn't accept it.
The local women's Federation also responded: I know about this and went to see her.
0 1 Girls who get married prematurely
Meng Xiao is from Jiangxi. She goes to school early. As soon as she doesn't study, the matchmaker comes to you.
Meng Xiao said, "This is the case in rural areas. As long as you don't study, you have to go on a blind date. "
Meng Xiao got married at the age of 17, and soon became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter.
When my daughter was five or six months old, her husband unfortunately had a car accident.
After more than a month, my mother-in-law got the compensation, and then she and her children were driven out.
Meng Xiao said: "Our hometown is like this. The son is a continuation, and the daughter is not counted."
In rural areas, if someone encounters a situation like Meng Xiao, almost everyone will leave without their children.
Not many people take care of children like Meng Xiao.
She has a child beside her, which makes it difficult for her to find an unmarried man to marry in the future.
Her parents were very angry at her choice.
They all hoped that Meng Xiao would send the children back, but Meng Xiao wouldn't. In this way, she couldn't stay at her parents' house any longer, so she had to take her children out to work.
She said, "I feel sorry for my daughter. I can raise her myself. "
Soon, she found a job delivering food.
This job is especially suitable for her. If she does other jobs, she can only earn three or four thousand yuan a month, but she can earn seven or eight thousand yuan in this job, and she can also take her children to take delivery.
At that time, she put the child on her chest with a cloth bag.
Many customers are also distressed to see her take delivery with her children.
Later, when the child grew up, she couldn't take it with her as she did when she was a child, so she had to send it to a McDonald's store, where the clerk was very enthusiastic and promised to help her look after the child.
Life has given her so much suffering, but she never complains.
She never complains about life. Everyone she talks about, she is looking for an excuse for them. She always thinks from their standpoint.
These days, many netizens said, "This is the tragedy caused by getting married too early. If only she hadn't got married so early. "
But Meng Xiao didn't seem to blame everything on her premature marriage, and she accepted this fact safely.
She said that in her hometown, as long as girls don't study, they will get married early.
However, Meng Xiao also said that she wanted to train her daughter well and didn't want her to make the same mistakes in the future. She hopes her daughter can study at the right age.
When it comes to parents, she doesn't blame them.
She understands them very well.
Even when talking about her mother-in-law, she never complained.
She said: "She has a teenage son to take care of, and it is also very difficult."
Her mother-in-law is not a total villain, and she will be given some money in the next few months.
However, when talking about all this, her eyes are still shining with tears.
Her eyes lit up when she talked about her daughter.
She is a young girl who loves beauty. She also took many photos with her daughter.
She looks so small!
Nothing like 2 1 year-old.
Now that the child is in kindergarten, she sends the child to the kindergarten every morning to take delivery and picks up the child at 5 pm.
Then send the children to McDonald's and pick them up at night. It takes more than ten hours to work a day.
I hope she can pay more attention to rest, take her daughter to relax for a day on weekends and take her to an amusement park.
Every once in a while, some people and things will come out, which will move us.
But then everyone had new concerns, and these people were slowly forgotten.
However, I still hope that this girl can use the power of the internet to change her destiny.
It's too hard to deliver takeout, and it's too cruel to a young girl.
Look at her, the wind and frost have climbed on her face, a little haggard and her skin has turned yellow.
She is a kind girl who is beautiful and deserves a better life.
Meng Xiao's wish is to buy a small house and live with her daughter.
Her happiness is simple, that is, she can see her daughter after work every day.
If Meng Xiao spends seven or eight thousand yuan a month in two years, she can get a loan to buy a house.
I wonder how the housing price in Anqing is? If she wants to buy a cheap house, she can only buy it near the suburbs, but that is not convenient for her to deliver meals.
Because only downtown will have more takeout lists.
According to the calculation of per square meter 1 ten thousand yuan, it takes 60 square meters to buy a house that can be registered, so it will cost 600 thousand.
The down payment is 6.5438+0.8 million. It is still a little difficult for Meng Xiao to save up to 6.5438+0.8 million before the children go to primary school.
Meng Xiao can also write blogs, send videos, share his life and earn some part-time fees in his spare time.
Meng Xiao recently responded to the concerns of netizens on social platforms and thanked them.
As can be seen from her content, her unit SF is very concerned about her.
Her sentence "three meals a day, now is my happiest life." Very touching.
In Meng Xiao's story, we also learned some cruel facts:
First of all, early marriage is common in rural areas.
Many rural parents let their children get married before marriage age, which is wrong and unfair to girls. The whole society still needs publicity.
Second, Meng Xiao may be too young to get a marriage certificate, so her mother-in-law will not give her compensation, which is illegal.
Third, many rural areas still prefer boys to girls. Meng Xiao's child is a girl, so her husband's family offered to let her take the child. If Meng Xiao has a son, she can't leave. In this way, it is still difficult to protect the legitimate rights and interests of Meng Xiao.
May all good people be treated gently.
I hope Meng Xiao and her daughter get better and better.