I am a farmer, but I work three shifts all the year round, especially at night. My son has been admitted to three schools, and I have always wanted to change his fate. Because I am too tired and bitter, I don't want my son to be like me, so I support him to go to college. I was admitted to three schools, namely Zhangqiu (Xingtan College) in Jinan. I took his son to work in my place when he was on holiday, so that he could catch his breath from the hard work at work and pay the tuition. My son is very sensible. He worked hard and was admitted to the civil service. At the same time, when I graduated, I was admitted to two civil servants and more than 200 people applied. Now he has worked for three years.
Whether you admit it or not, the college entrance examination is the simplest and easiest way for most rural children to change their own and their families' fate.
Now is the time to fill in the volunteers for the college entrance examination. I strongly recommend that rural children go to school as much as possible as long as they can be admitted to undergraduate schools, even if they are not particularly good. Don't worry about this for the following reasons.
First, rural college students will not lose the opportunity to go to school because of poverty, and the state will give them enough help.
Second, there is great room and possibility for college students in the countryside to improve in the future, and they can continue to study for master's and doctor's degrees.
Third, there are too many examples in reality to prove that knowledge is the easiest way for rural students to change their fate after they are admitted to universities.
Perhaps a few decades ago, many poor rural students lost the opportunity to enter the university because of lack of money, and there are several such opportunities around me. But in recent years, similar concerns can be completely dispelled, because China has clearly stated that poor rural students are not allowed to drop out of school because they have no money to pay tuition and live. As far as my personal experience is concerned, many poor students in my class can complete their four-year college studies by applying for state grants and student loans, and they can repay the interest-free loans of the state soon after work. Therefore, from the practical point of view, poor students do not have to worry about the embarrassment and helplessness of having no money to go to school.
I personally know that there have been voices about the futility of rural children's reading in recent years, but it turns out to be incorrect. Personally, I am a rural college entrance examination student from Henan Province. I have experienced the most severe college entrance examination screening and admission pressure in China, so I know very well how difficult it is for an ordinary rural child to get into three books, and I know what this means. There are many examples around. Rural students were admitted to three universities, studied hard, and then after several years of hard work and struggle in universities, they entered higher-level colleges and universities through examinations or other means, and even became university professors, so it was not a problem to study abroad, and finally changed the fate and living conditions of generations at home.
After all, compared with going out to work or other agricultural production activities, it is a very important way and opportunity for children to enter higher education institutions through knowledge, which will change their fate and even the future life of the whole family. It is difficult for poor families to have children, and many aspects of society are full of various inequalities. Comparatively speaking, college entrance examination and basic education are the most direct and effective methods to narrow this gap and change this situation, and they are also the simplest methods. So I once again advise farmers that if their children have ambitions, they must be supported to finish their studies or go further.
Personally, I think it is necessary. I am a person who has not graduated from primary school. My wife died young, so I can't work outside to make a living. My son couldn't control it in high school. He went out to work after the college entrance examination. Later, I found that my test score was less than 300, so I didn't want to go to school. Under the persuasion of my emotion and reason, his son returned to a junior college for more than a month. I also know that it is impossible to be outside without a diploma. He graduated from a junior college, a bachelor's degree and a graduate student from a famous university. Now he has graduated and passed the civil service examination. At that time, if he was not encouraged to continue his studies, it might ruin his happiness all his life.
I don't know, it's compulsory education, but now there are many private schools here that charge fees, ranging from 3,000 to 5,000 for primary schools to 0/0000 for junior high schools. They go home every two weeks, and many parents send their children to such schools. Why are parents more willing to spend money to transfer their children? What's wrong with your head? No, because children's grades have indeed improved significantly in the past. Now my daughter's class is in the primary school in our town. Now in the second grade, 30% get 30% or 40%! There are more than ten points, even a few points! Other classes are not much better. In the past, when I went to school, I was usually 80-90, and few of them failed. Now ... I really can't say that the homework teacher didn't give it to me, but my parents gave it to me. My wife and I both got off work late. It was midnight after dinner and we had to hand in our children's homework. After basically 1 1, I had to sleep, mainly because the children's grades were average. I talked to the teacher about the situation and the teacher looked sad. Like her dead mother, she ignored me. Finally, she said that she only cares about the school, but the family can't manage it. Parents don't have time, and she can't help it. Isn't the summer vacation coming soon? I'm also going to transfer my children.
I am from the countryside, too. My daughter took three books last year, and the tuition and accommodation fees add up to one year 1.85 million. I drive my son to kindergarten at home, and I can't go out to work because there is no one to help me with my children. My husband bought a minivan for transportation, and he earned money to support me and my children. To tell the truth, the cost of going to school for my daughter is almost 20 thousand a year, plus living expenses. It's just that my daughter needs 40 thousand a year, and the family is under great pressure. I seldom buy new clothes or shoes. Although my husband says I can buy whatever I want, I also know that it is difficult for my husband to earn money to support his family, but I will never wronged myself to spend the money I should spend on my children. The reason why I put pressure on my daughter to go to three schools is that I hope her daughter can learn knowledge and find a better job in the future, unlike me.
Living in the countryside, humble and poor, no resources, no shortcuts. I think going to college is still the only chance for rural children to change their destiny, the only way to cross the class and the best platform to impact their destiny.
It is gratifying that the child has been admitted to a good university and his dream has come true. Even if the child is admitted to the third grade, don't worry. He has to go.
My nephew went to Sankun, and spent more than 100,000 yuan in college for four years. He took 20,000 to 30,000 from home and 40,000 to 50,000 from school loans. The rest of the money was earned by working in winter and summer vacations. He studied very hard, and through unremitting efforts, he was admitted to the public-funded graduate school. After graduation, the monthly salary is 1 10,000 at first, and 300,000 two years later. Now that I am married, my wife is also a graduate student and bought a house. He is also very moist in big cities.
The children next door also went to the third watch. His family is very poor because of his father's death. After graduating from college the year before last, he went to work in a small company with a monthly salary of 6000 yuan. He works part-time for more than 2000 yuan a month, and his salary is not high. But if he planted 20 acres of land in the countryside and got a good harvest, excluding investment, it would cost five or six thousand yuan a year. If you count the work done by farmers. If the year is not good, even the money invested in the field should be invested. It is difficult for farmers to live on the weather! Children's wages have also increased this year, with a monthly salary of 1.5 million. Where there is a will, there is a way, and heaven rewards diligence.
Rural children don't go to school and give up their studies. The road ahead is to work and get married. Twelve hours a day, working hard for a month, earning that 3000 yuan, paying rent and eating flowers. Became a family, had children, was young, and was forced to bear the burden for a living all the year round.
Sanmen is also a university. When you go to college, your vision, knowledge and thinking will change, and the people you know will be different. Your life is full of possibilities. As long as you have a dream, a pursuit and a down-to-earth struggle, the three doors can't stop the display of your talents. Speech genius Liu Yuanyuan is not only a rural girl, but also has read three books. But through unremitting efforts, she finally realized her dream of Peking University and was admitted to Peking University as a graduate student.
You can live a calm life if you burn your bridges and put water behind one stop. .
Lao Tie, I'll tell you a true story. I graduated from high school in Hubei Province in 2003. I decided not to go to school because I didn't go to college, or even a good junior college, in order to reduce the financial burden on my family. There were four brothers and sisters at home, all of whom were at school. The two old farmers don't have any special income, so they usually rely on their fathers to make money on the construction site. I talked with my mother all afternoon, so I had to find a junior college to finish my studies. If you don't go to school now, going out to work is a life-long production line plumber. At that time, the village went out to Guangdong, and there were many production lines for plumbers in Zhejiang. I talked with my mother all night and then cried. I promised to continue to go to school. That summer vacation, my father and I went to the construction site to move bricks for almost two months. Later, I went to a junior college in an eight-tier city in Hubei. I graduated in 2006 and went to Guangdong for a year as a CNC machining individual. On May 1 day, 2007, I swore that I couldn't do this anymore, so I resigned and stayed in my hometown for about 10 days. Later, I came to Beijing alone with my suitcase and lived in the basement introduced by my classmates. I lived in that basement for more than three years. I never had breakfast in my first year in Beijing. I was afraid to eat breakfast. In addition to taking breakfast to the hotel on business trip, I also sponsored my father for 50 thousand yuan on 20 10 to help them build the second floor. 20 10, send my girlfriend (now my wife) to graduate school. Now I am in Beijing 1 1 year. I have been married in Beijing, with a house and a car, my wife's and Shijiazhuang's. Lao Tie, if I hadn't gone to junior college, I would still be working in a factory that would never finish my classes. Old Tie, when we come out of the countryside, we should know what is bitter and what is difficult. As long as you are willing to endure hardships and work hard, everything will be fine, and friends who come out of the countryside will always have a bright future.
Knowledge changes fate, but going to school does not mean learning knowledge, and learning knowledge does not necessarily make money with knowledge. On the contrary, if you don't go to school, you don't have a diploma, but not having a diploma doesn't mean you don't have a diploma.
If you can afford it, you'd better go to school. Whether you can learn knowledge or not, you can go out to see the world and exercise your independence and communication skills.
Less than two years after graduating from college, more than half of the students returned to their hometown. Basically, college knowledge is wasted. As time went on, those who were unsuccessful in their work all went home. I graduated in 20 10, and now it's almost 10. At present, less than 10% of my college classmates are wandering outside, and more than 90% have returned to their hometown for various reasons. As for how they are, I don't know.
At present, the average monthly salary is about 10 thousand, but the monthly salary of 10 thousand in Beijing is not as comfortable as that of 5 thousand in my hometown.
How to get along in the future depends on the individual. It is not that the more knowledge, the more money you make, and the university can learn nothing. Mainly by self-study, the teacher leads the door to learn from the individual.
One thing is very important. The more things you see, the more interests you can find. Just like me, I just started a company. Although I don't have any employees, I live a good life. Currently doing software development. My major has nothing to do with software. I hardly go to class. I haven't seen a teacher for a semester. But when I went to college, I found that I was very interested in programming. I have been teaching myself to program. Everyone else went to class, and I went to the library and our dormitory. If I don't go to college, I can also learn programming at home to make money, but if I don't go to college, I may not have the opportunity to contact programming. For myself, I didn't learn anything from my teacher in college. The biggest gain was that I accidentally came into contact with programming, which changed my life.
My wife studied construction budget, and she earned about 10 thousand yuan a month after graduation. Now that she has resigned, she has to study at home. After graduating from college, she still often taught herself to improve her working ability. Learning knowledge after work is very purposeful, and learning knowledge can make money. Unlike in college, you basically have a simple understanding of all aspects of knowledge. If you want to master it, you have to rely on self-study.
Having said that, to sum up, if your child is a top student, you may find a good job with a monthly salary of 1 10,000 to 20,000 after finishing college. If you are a person with strong self-learning ability, like me, although you have been skipping classes, you are bent on learning a technology and can do well after graduation. Other students who are not good at learning, playful and inflexible are likely to return to their hometown after graduation. They are floating outside with a salary of 18 thousand, barely making ends meet. Like my wife, they can't save any money and spend as much as they earn. After all, big cities have high consumption.
To sum up further, you can get a scholarship and go to school if you have excellent academic performance. The brain is very flexible and can toss. Let's go Honesty is not ambiguous, and it is not recommended to be honest and play games all day.