There are many factories and companies in the middle, and the salary has increased a little, but there is still no car or room. Is this a failure?
What should we look like after ten years' work?
User 1:
I graduated from college in 2005 and went to work in Yiwu, Zhejiang from my hometown in Shaanxi.
First month's salary 1200 yuan. I changed my job halfway. From joint-stock enterprises to large private enterprises, and then to small and medium-sized private enterprises. From a small salesman … business manager … sales manager … regional director … business manager … marketing center director … marketing director.
My major in college is computer science. Because this major is too difficult, I gave up this major and chose the business industry.
Talk about salary! From 1200 to today15,000 yuan monthly salary+year-end bonus, this is the current treatment.
Now I'm married, have children, my wife is from Hubei, and I'm going to divorce soon. People think that I don't have the ability to make big money, which is not good for her and her children.
I can save money by working hard outside alone. I spend a month in 500 yuan-800 yuan! The rest is also given to parents, and the monthly living expenses are given to the daughter-in-law. It costs a lot for children to go to school, attend interest classes and participate in film and television programs.
It is not easy to work, because her family is from the city and I am from the countryside, so I don't care if I suffer.
Let her take care of the children in her hometown in Hubei, and the children don't want to raise them in Shaanxi. Poor rural conditions are not conducive to their growth. Want to raise it in the city. So, I have hardly ever worked, so I take care of the children.
With these contradictions, I can't go on now. ...
My busy day at work is like a dog, asking me to go back to Hubei for a divorce. The hukou book is ready at home. As long as I agree, I will send it to Guangdong. I can't be cruel
Along the way, I was sad and didn't praise money. I earn a lot and spend a lot. Of course, I have to continue to work hard to be a director with an annual salary of 400,000-500,000. This is my goal.
A person wandering, wandering, lonely, social development, human feelings have changed, the world has changed, and there is really no direction for the future. Does it feel like a failure?
Netizen 2:
1987, I changed my job and place for various reasons. In the end, I didn't save any money and I didn't have a stable job.
Looking back on the past 10 years, the only job that satisfied me was in BYD. Although the salary was not high at that time, I talked about a very good girlfriend and almost never quarreled. My mom was there.
But just as I was changing departments to start a new development, my mother suddenly found out that she had lung cancer. Later she quit her job and went to Wuhan to take care of her. Six months later, her mother died.
The family spent all their savings for treatment, and broke up with their girlfriends for various reasons, and then the whole life was bleak.
After my mother died, I went back to our small county to take care of my father and wanted to take root at home. I learned the craft and gave it up for various reasons.
Later, I started my own business and opened a barbecue shop, but now business is not good, there are fewer people and more shops, and the current losses are unsustainable.
Married at the end of last year, my wife's family is very realistic. Excluding the house, it costs 200 thousand to get married alone And didn't bring back a penny after marriage. I borrowed more than 10, and my father returned the rest.
Sometimes I think, if my mother is still here, I will be very happy, have a happy family and have a successful career.
But this is just imagination.
Life is so cruel, I want to transfer my shop and job and save money to pay off my debts.
I don't know when the life I want will come true.
Netizen 3:
1987, I have been working on the construction site for six years. I have dropped out of school and went to Jiangsu for two or three years. My ability is limited. No matter what I do, my salary won't go up. Accounting, business, sales, learning technology, everything.
I just want to save some money and find a business to do slowly. Work is only a means of life, not the ultimate goal.
But year after year, there is no improvement at all. In a rage, I went to the construction site and did manual labor, seven or eight thousand a month.
If you have hundreds of thousands in your hand, you will be 28. I just got married and had children. When I was ready to take money out to do business, I found that business was not easy and I had no confidence at all. Because my family is poor, my parents can't help me at all, so my wife and children can only stay at my mother-in-law's house.
Then I took out my money and bought a house. When I bought a house, my savings ran out. I took 700,000 yuan for the house, 250,000 yuan for the loan, 280,000 yuan for the decoration, and the decoration100,000 yuan. Through these two years' efforts, the mortgage has been issued at present, and there are still 65,438+million outside.
Now the monthly salary is 1000 yuan. But my heart is extremely delicate and I am very tired of life on the construction site. Married for six years, no more than six months at home.
I don't know if this life is meaningful, but I want to buy a house and pay back the money I owe. In order to buy this house, I can't reunite with my family for six years.
Working hard at the construction site, I earn 890 million yuan a month, only spend 200 to 300 yuan, and save the rest, with an average monthly salary of about 7,000 yuan, which is already very good in this fourth-tier city with an average salary of only over 2,000 yuan.
To sum up, a child with no family background, no social relations, no high education and no extraordinary ability, if he works hard at the age of 30 in an ordinary rural area.
If you don't go to the construction site, it may not be as good as now.
Life is a long-distance race, which is about endurance, not speed. Paying off the foreign debt this year and being 3 1 year old next year is the real beginning for me.
Netizen 4:
I 1982 was born in the countryside and entered the society in the second and a half years of education.
Eighteen years old, worked in Pujiang, Zhejiang for one year. From the age of 19 to 22, I studied crafts at home, married a wife at the age of 22, and then learned to drive. Twenty-three children went out.
Really painful and happy. It is really painful to see a child feel at ease and have no money to live.
The twenty-five-year-old son was born again, and he was forced to borrow money to buy a car and run long distances under the pressure of life. After several years of hard work, his life has improved a little. 1000 bought a car.
19 1 1 built a 120 square three-story half kitchen, and 19 14 bought a flatbed car and a small excavator to Yiwu.
19 15 added a small excavator, 19 16 built four four-and-a-half-story houses, but fortunately there was no foreign debt.
Thinking about people is really boring. Living is very tiring. You should keep up with the joneses in everything, and you can't play as you want!
But now I understand that although people should have dreams, dreams are not just about how much money they earn.
If you have a happy family and a stable job, you can actually live a good life.
Everyone wants to be a millionaire, but how many people can do it? If people who are not rich feel that their life is a failure, then society will not be chaotic.
Netizen 5:
One year short of 30.
When I just graduated, I joined a state-owned bank. At first, my salary was 4000. Six years later, my salary rose to five figures. Later, I switched to Tencent, and my income increased by100%+; Later, with the operation of new media, the income increased again 100%+
If you had asked me six years ago what a million dollars was, I would have thought it was an astronomical figure. I never thought I could earn so much money before I was 30. Now that I am getting closer and closer to this goal, it seems that nothing is impossible.
If you ask me what it's like to be a 30-year-old employee? I dare not think, it is too far away and there are too many uncertainties. If I were still at the place where I was looking for my first job, maybe I could only get the same salary as in previous years.
What should a 30-year-old look like? I'm not very good, because in the internet circle, friends who are around 30 or even under 30 earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a month and millions of dollars a year are everywhere. I am the poorest in my circle of friends.
There has never been such a thing as "should mix". Other people's lives are poor or rich, and what is said here is only capital and stories; Only your own ability, the money you actually hold in your hand, really belongs to you.
It doesn't matter if you are 30 years old and still working. Ma Yun started his business at the age of 28 and failed for the first time.
There is an old saying in China that "you are not afraid of being a late bloomer". First, you have to believe in yourself, and then change the reality step by step.
The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now.
* * * Whatever you want.
Netizen 6:
I don't think at what age you have to be in a mixed state. Everyone has a different definition of the so-called state. Is it successful to have a house and a car at the age of 30
I am 30 years old and an ordinary clerk. Even with a small house and a scooter, I'm still not satisfied with my present life. I hope I can move to a bigger house in the future, I hope my career will develop further in the future, and I hope I can bring a better and happier life to my family.
But I know better that wishes are beautiful, and efforts in the present and gradual accumulation are the channels for rapid development.
And we care about what we are, because we set ourselves an imaginary enemy, compare our life and work with someone or a certain kind of people we think, envy their achievements, or envy their possessions, and then compare them with our own, and I suddenly feel sad. Why am I inferior to them?
Even if Ma Yun is as powerful as Ma Yun, rich and famous, he said that people with a monthly salary of 30,000-40,000 are the happiest. People with too much money think about how to preserve their value, while those without money think about how to make money. This income is just right.
Therefore, everyone has this kind of comparative trouble, and no one can be immune. What we ordinary people should do is to compare less, care about how others are doing and be ourselves.
Achievement is always relative, nothing must be achieved, and no one says that what should be done at any age is self-imposed, so we should work hard to achieve it.