The road of life is full of thorns, muster up your courage and stride forward. Please believe that the road is made by people. Don't say "no", be confident and you will succeed. The following is a story about the success of celebrities that I have carefully compiled. I hope it can help you!

Part 1 of Stories about the Success of Celebrities: Wang Jianlin on the Way to Success

I think the so-called faith, In fact, the most important thing is a kind of courage and a kind of bravery. I have seen an advertisement on CCTV called "How big is the heart and how big is the stage?". Many people may think this advertisement is deceptive. In fact, most people who have had careers, especially those who have relatively successful careers, have this experience. Only when you dare to think can you dare to do it, and only when you dare to do it will you have a greater chance of success. How can you succeed if you don’t even try? For example, looking at my own career, one of my main businesses now is commercial real estate, that is, large shopping malls. Urban complexes have never been done in China in the past. of. Well, when I first started doing business, I had a lot of failures. I filed 222 lawsuits in the first three years. Because I didn’t know how to do it, I didn’t do it right. I recruited people wrongly, and the contract I signed was flawed. After I sold the shop to someone else, I sold it to someone else. Others came to sue us when their rates of return were not high, etc., etc., and we were tortured. My colleagues and friends all advised me not to go through with it, saying that your houses are selling well anyway, so why bother yourself. I said no, because I think residential real estate is not a long-term industry. Looking at the world, this residential property industry has not been prosperous for more than half a century. The industry has declined in thirty or forty years since the residential market matured, so I said For this century-old enterprise, for the long-term stability of my brothers, because there was a problem back then, there was no social security, the medical expenses of these people in private enterprises were reimbursed and their wages after retirement, retirement had to be solved by themselves, so I think about these What will my brothers do when they follow me and I will be 60 or 70 years old? I do this with simple faith, and after many years of suffering, I have finally come out of it.

Including the second thing I did, like cinemas. When I was doing cinemas, the national box office was 300 million, and all cinemas were losing money, but I felt that it would be helpful to my shopping mall. And I don’t believe me when I say that Chinese people don’t watch movies. Now Wanda Cinemas ranks first in Asia, accounting for about 16% or 17% of the share in China this year. Maybe this rate will increase at a rapid rate every year, and Lots and lots of that. This is the so-called faith of courage to start a business. I think the most important issue is the courage to think and do. The so-called innovation, what is the biggest characteristic of entrepreneurs? It is creativity. It’s the spirit of innovation. The so-called innovative spirit is a nice word. In fact, to put it bluntly, innovative spirit is the adventurous spirit and the courage to take risks. There is a saying from the ancients: Wealth and honor can be found through risk. No matter whether it is wealth or honor, it cannot be obtained without taking risks. The benefits are proportional to the risks. The greater the benefit, the greater the risk. Seeking stable profits is the least likely to succeed, so I want to tell everyone about my belief in entrepreneurship. First of all, you must be courageous, dare to venture, dare to do things, and not be afraid of failure. Of course, there are many, many qualities here, and if you can do it, you will be successful.

Many people in successful companies are very dull, and many people are successful even if they are introverts. This does not necessarily mean that extroverts are successful. Of course, in modern society, I think the more extroverted you are, the more likely you are to succeed. You find that a common phenomenon in society, whether it is business success, political success, or scientific success, is that people are not the smartest. Most groups are not extremely smart people, nor stupid people, nor stupid people, they are sub-smart people. What is so-called smart? It’s not about how high your IQ is, how many questions you answered, or how many points you scored in the test. This may not necessarily lead to success. More importantly, emotional intelligence refers to your ability to get along with others. How well do you get along with others? If you can be tolerant of others when getting along with others, you will gain followers, or you will have more ways to do business, making it relatively easier to succeed.

In addition to my courage, it may also have something to do with my own uneasy personality. When I first started doing business, in my first year of doing business, I held a meeting with my employees and said that my goal was to reach 100 million in three years. At that time, the company only borrowed 500,000 yuan to register. When I was in a meeting, one of my department managers named Wang felt that I was cheating. At that time, people from the Northeast might not be able to understand what people from the Northeast said, but they did it quickly.

Later, in 1991, I went to Hong Kong with some friends and stayed at the Grand Hyatt Hotel. There are four buildings above it. Let me tell you that I have at least one of these buildings in my life. Do they think you can do it if one building costs a lot of money? I said if you don’t even think about it, you definitely don’t dare to do it. Therefore, I am not satisfied with the status quo. I should say that I am a person who has pursuits and goals in life.

The successful people in all walks of life are by no means the best at reading or the highest IQ, but the highest emotional intelligence. What is emotional intelligence? In simple words, it is the ability to get along with others. Because you don’t live in an individual, you are in a social group, you do business and do things, you go to eat, you have to contact and deal with others, and others’ evaluation of you is the basis of your success, not yourself. Evaluate yourself. If you evaluate yourself and say I look down on anyone, then bye bye. If your self-evaluation is consistent with social evaluation, you will definitely succeed. This is the core view of emotional intelligence.

There is also the ability to get along with others. What is the ability to get along with others? Of course, it is my own opinion, and it may not be an accurate summary. I think the most important thing in the ability to get along with others is tolerance and a broad mind. Now that I have reached such a high level, I have tens of thousands of senior executives and several hundred to close to a thousand. My most important job is to review and select talents. I found that there are many high-ranking executives in my company who end up doing If you don't reach a high place or leave, the important reason is that you have a high IQ and a low emotional intelligence, and you can't integrate with others. Things can't be done by one person. You don't need to take care of it if you are in charge. You can take care of ten people. One person can do ten things. Is this a job? These people work so much, and the leader seems to be his ability. People will not say which deputy is capable, but this leader is nothing. People will not see it that way. The first one is a tolerant mind. Be wide.

The second personal experience I have is that you must not be stingy or petty. You must make money generously. In this industry of entrepreneurship and entrepreneurship, it is absolutely difficult to succeed in petting. Others will not cooperate with you once. This is the second time you have cooperated. People who plot against others will ultimately plot against themselves. This is in line with the old saying: Man is not as good as God. The second one is to be generous.

The third one is having strong communication skills and being able to attract and attract people. If you start your own business, you can get ten or eight people in the company to be obedient and willing to hang out with you, 90 out of 100 people willing to hang out with you, and 800 out of 1,000 people willing to hang out with you. Even if some people are here temporarily, most people are willing to hang out with you and are willing to hang out with you to create a sense of cohesion and have a much greater chance of success. Because emotional intelligence is a big topic, I have read more than a dozen books on emotional intelligence. It would take too long to talk about it. Let me briefly mention three things. Part 2 of stories about celebrity success: Johnson’s success is inseparable from his mother’s support

In 1927, a flood raged and he was almost washed away by the water.

In 1932, the boy finished his primary education, but the local junior high school did not admit black people, and the family had no money for him to study abroad. The mother decided to let the boy repeat his studies for a year, and she began to work day and night to save money.

In the summer of 1933, after finally saving enough money for the boy to study abroad, his mother took him into a strange city. While the boy was studying, his mother worked as a domestic helper. Sure enough, the boy lived up to his mother's high expectations and successfully entered college and graduated.

In 1942, the boy founded a magazine, but he was short of funds and could not mail the magazine to subscribers. A company was willing to lend them a loan, but it required a mortgage, so my mother reluctantly donated her beloved furniture.

In 1943, the boy succeeded and the magazine gained public recognition. He said to his mother: "Mom, you don't have to work anymore." Now, you are a retiree of our company. ?At that moment, the mother was so happy that she lost her voice in pain.

Later, the boy encountered difficulties. He worked hard but had little hope. He told his mother that maybe he really couldn't do it well this time.

My mother asked him if he had tried hard, and he said yes.

The mother asked him again if he had tried his best, and he said yes.

The mother said: "Then don't worry, as long as you try your best, you will succeed!"

As expected, as the mother said, the boy finally succeeded in his career. Reach the highest peak. He is Johnson, the founder of the United States (Black Digest) and the president of Johnson Publishing Company.

Part Three of Celebrity Success Stories: Only by giving up will you have life

Laurino is a famous French expedition team member. In 1978, he successfully climbed Mount Everest with the French expedition team. On the way down the mountain, we encountered heavy wind and snow. Every step was extremely difficult. What frightened them most was that the wind and snow showed no sign of stopping.

At this time, they had very little food. If they stopped to camp and rest, they would probably freeze to death before going down the mountain; if they continued moving forward, most of the road signs would have been covered. Not only do they have to take a lot of detours, but the oxygen-enhancing equipment and luggage carried by each team member will weigh them down. If this continues, they will move slowly. If they do not starve to death, they will also die from fatigue. Fall down. When the entire expedition was confused, Laurino took the lead in discarding all his equipment, leaving only a small amount of food, and traveled lightly.

His move was opposed by almost all the team members. They believed that it would take 10 days at the earliest to go down the mountain. This means that not only can’t you camp and rest during these 10 days, but your body temperature may drop due to lack of oxygen, causing your body to freeze. This will be extremely dangerous to their lives. Faced with the scruples of his teammates, Laurino told them firmly: We must and can only do this. Such windy and snowy weather may not improve for ten days and a half. If it continues to be delayed, all road signs will be buried. , and throwing away the heavy objects will no longer allow us to have any illusions and distracting thoughts. As long as we strengthen our confidence and walk with bare hands, we can increase our walking speed. Maybe this way we still have hope of survival!?

In the end The team members adopted his advice, encouraged each other along the way, endured fatigue and cold, and moved forward day and night. As a result, it only took 8 days to reach the safe zone. And the bad weather, just as he had predicted, never got better.

Later, the staff of the French museum approached Laurono and asked him to donate any items related to the French expedition that climbed Mount Everest. Unexpectedly, what they received was Laurono's frozen 10 broken toes and 5 right fingertips were amputated. A correct decision to give up saved the lives of all the team members; it was also because of this choice that none of their mountaineering equipment was saved, but their frozen fingertips and toes were amputated in the hospital and remained with them. This is the strangest and most precious gift the museum has ever received.

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