I agree with some people downstairs that many times girls don't really understand their identity and responsibilities! As said downstairs, marriage is a matter for two people, and both parents are just helping, so they should be grateful! But as the other half, since you hope you two can go on in the future, since the man is under pressure, should you understand or share some as the woman? Some people will say that every place has different customs and women feel insecure. Indeed, we are different ~ ~ ~ Just kidding! Customs are not made by people? Who do you want to marry when you get married, or do you want to discuss custom marriage, bride price money and so on? Why not? Why not buy a house together after marriage? Also, we don't know who you are, but trust and security are given to each other by both sides! Who are you and how do you treat her? I think the woman should know! But this is not enough to show that the woman doesn't love you! So, as a man, you should think it over! ! ! The text may be a little one-sided or not in place, mainly because I am tired of typing and don't want to say more. If you have any questions, please write privately!