If a person has cancer, then his body and mind will suffer great pain! As relatives, it is also a spiritual comfort for people to donate money to help each other according to their actual situation! Anyone who can look down on life and death will live more freely and easily. People will eventually leave this world, and it is very difficult to come to this world once! Believe that everything that has happened and the past is the result of God's predestination. The only thing you really want to change and grasp is the future!
My husband lost 200,000 yuan in usury gambling on his watch, and the creditor came to collect debts every day and smashed the window, making his mother borrow 20,000 yuan from us first, which means borrowing it later. A few years ago, she had a car accident and hit someone. She didn't even say she borrowed 5,000 yuan. Now she is borrowing it again. I am determined not to take this gamble, I will teach him a lesson! Even if the loan shark was caught, it has been 10 years now, and 5000 yuan has been confiscated. The decoration at home is a treat, but it doesn't pay back the money. Such relatives are immoral!
Because there are many insincere people in today's society who borrow money and don't pay it back, and some people have the ability to pay it back. If you lend him money, you will be promoted to rice, and then you will become a rice bucket.
You can borrow a few hundred dollars. Unless you are rich, your relatives will borrow 100.2 million from you as soon as they come. If every relative comes to see you, and there are three kinds of relatives, that won't do. Ordinary relatives can't lend you so much without kindness, can they? So it's to save your life and you have money, so 1 10,000 to 20,000! If you have plenty of money, then thousands! If you have enough to eat and drink, a few hundred! Whatever you want, you can't help it. Don't be kidnapped by morality. Since there are difficulties, just give yourself a little heart. I said, within my tolerance, should I lend him a loan or lend him money for a new heart?
I think that anyone who has saved all his life has hundreds of thousands of life-saving money. What disease can he see and can he be cured? The world is cold, so I can't lend you120,000, nor can I lend you 200,000 or 300,000. In case someone else gets sick, who can I borrow it from? Now, anyone can afford tens of thousands of dollars, but not hundreds of thousands, even hundreds of thousands. The disease may not be cured, but it is better to be frugal at ordinary times. You can take it out in case of emergency, borrow money to see a doctor, and who can you borrow it from? Can rich relatives and friends respect you? Even if you don't recognize yourself, you can save yourself from a minor illness. If you really get a serious illness, you can't cure it with money. Let it be.
As the saying goes, emergency does not save the poor. Borrowing money to cure diseases is life-saving money. Lending money to others to save lives is equivalent to saving a life and building a seven-level pagoda. Great goodness and virtue! It should be noted that the current national policy is good, basically universal health insurance, urban residents have social security, rural residents have cooperative medical care, see a doctor, and individuals can't pay a few dollars. Most of them can be reimbursed!
People eat whole grains. Some people borrow money and become enemies. Although some people can't pay back the money, they keep it in mind. Relatives must be close relatives with ordinary contacts. If they are distant relatives, they will not borrow money. So in my opinion, this is life-saving money. You can lend him less and give him a hand. People's life is bigger than the sky, and there will be younger generations watching, but it also depends on your ability. It's unique not to borrow a penny. There is a saying called resurgence. Maybe one day his descendants will turn over and remember you!
It makes no sense not to borrow it. If you borrow too much, it will be a burden to both sides. You can only borrow some from the psychology of sending. What's the reward in the future? It's just a pie in the sky. The other party has real difficulties, but in any case he has made psychological preparations in advance. I really can't get over this situation. I hope it won't happen.