Because I often associate with professors from the Conservatory of Music, they are pure and sincere, which gives me the illusion that other people's values should be the same as theirs.

Looking back on these years, all my mistakes have a similar pattern.

Trust others too much.

Without judging why they did it?

What kind of losses and risks will I suffer if I cooperate with them and invest money?

What will my trusted friend lose?

I often overestimate human nature and overestimate myself!

So there will be some losses and risks.

First, investment failure, friends become passers-by

Friends who do foreign trade together are all married in Guangzhou, driving luxury cars and living in villas.

Tell me that there is a good investment, speculating in foreign exchange, and the profit is not high. She goes to investigate all the real situation!

If there is any loss, she will compensate me.

I think, after several months' careful observation, I invested $65,438+0,000, and my monthly income was more than 3,000 RMB. Not much, but also relatively stable. Invest in February and return to China in early September. My friend flew over to see me and told me how to operate it. She was going to Guangzhou to do foreign exchange market education and studied textual research.

I was moved by her long-distance love and invested another $65,438+0,000. She asked me to convince my friend.

She went to my friend's factory and decided that my friend was a big customer. My friend trusted me and invested 1000 USD.

In June+10, 5438, she called me and told me something. They are going to the securities company in Jakarta, hacking or ... but don't worry, she will be responsible for my principal.

Pulling us into a ball, their boss (who drives a Mercedes-Benz) cried and said: It is good for you to make money, and let me be responsible for the loss. .....

I fully understand that this is a scam.

Obviously, they swindle and encourage others to invest for more benefits, and promise to lose the principal.

My friend even changed his name to promise is gold.

Later, I called and said that she mortgaged everything herself and invested more than 654.38+0 million. Let's sue the people above her together.

At first, I didn't understand why she ignored her promise to herself because she was a sincere, generous and trustworthy person!

I understand now, because she dragged me in for the benefit, and she thought she was innocent. If something happened, she would lose more and be responsible for the promise. .....

I overestimated myself and underestimated human nature!

Second, my son's teacher.

Because of the children's reasons, their sense of music and teaching methods are out of step with the teachers whose sons have been following since childhood. It is necessary to change professors.

Unexpectedly, I arranged a teacher who was the least suitable for children. Although he is a university professor, he can leave his son where there is no way out, because if we give him a young teacher, we can change again. University professors cannot be changed.

At first, I didn't understand why I had been in love for so many years.

Even forced us to sign a teacher contract.

I am an unyielding China native, and finally a world-famous professor became a teacher of a child.

The internal leader told me that if a good student can't be taught, he can't be given a better teacher. If the student becomes famous, he will lose face.

I remember the time when the child said goodbye to the teacher very sincerely.

Send him a voice: say that he loves him forever!

My heart is really hard, because the teacher can ignore the future of this child's life because of his own selfish desires!

This is human nature!

But I don't deny that there are still beautiful things.

Everything in the past has seen teachers' sincere and paternalistic love for children, but this kind of education is not suitable for children. Teachers can't see the progress of children, and they are also very painful and tired.

We keep these loves in mind and will be able to repay our teachers when we grow up.

There are many beautiful scenery around,

Some people will stick to their own principles, which is why when children have such a big contradiction, professors and school leaders come forward to solve this problem.

It is natural for people to be fragile and narrow-minded, and we should try our best to avoid them.

Instead of judging others by our values.

Human nature is evil,

But there are many people around me who insist that human nature is good.

So I'm still often infected by them.

You must have the strength and wisdom to guard against all this.

Balance and grasp the principles and degrees of communication with others in society.