For a long time in the past, the issue of domestic violence was not taken seriously in Japan, and with the gradual increase in the frequency of domestic violence behavior, a clear process for dealing with domestic violence has begun to emerge in Japan. After a domestic abused person calls the police, the police will first hand the abused person a note, which mainly serves to calm the abused person down and tells the abused person that the most important thing to think about right now is himself/herself and his/her children's family, and that he/she doesn't need to feel afraid.

After the person has been stabilized, the police will hand them a declaration form, informing them that they can apply for a verbal warning, or the police can arrest them directly. The police will also check whether the victim has applied for other assistance and whether there is a place to escape to.

1. Domestic violence is not a one-time event, but is likely to occur more often:

Japan's manuals for dealing with domestic violence clearly remind victims that there is often more than a one-time event, and that even if the police give a verbal warning to the victim, there is a high likelihood that other problems may arise later. A verbal warning from the police often only leads to a short period of peace and quiet.

Although the instructions are very clear, many victims still do not want to list their significant others as criminals, and only a few choose to arrest the domestic abuser on their return, while the vast majority will only opt for a verbal warning, thus gaining a short period of stability for themselves.

Even when someone sends a domestic abuser to jail, they often apply for his or her release within a short period of time, and the domestic abused person often chooses to put up with it if they don't choose to separate outright.

2, the biggest obstacle to leaving a domestic abuser is often the children:

Domestic abusers are generally women, and for women, children are often the most important.

According to the police's big data survey, the main reason why women do not choose to leave the family after encountering domestic violence is because they are worried about the future of their children's belonging, and this has led to a lot of women to choose to hold back after encountering domestic violence, rather than leave the family.

Besides the issue of children, in Japan, many women do not earn a very high income, and if they leave their husbands, they are often unable to ensure the most basic living, which also makes many women have to return to their husbands, even though it is clear that they may suffer from the problem of domestic violence.

There are currently many private organizations in Japan that can take in women who have been victims of domestic violence. These organizations can provide temporary shelters to help women leave their homes for a while and reach a safer place, and the police will contact the person from time to time to make sure they are safe.

Domestic violence is a very serious problem, and it is often not a one-time or two-time event, but a very frequent act of violence.

While countries around the world have processes in place to deal with domestic violence, it is difficult to put in place subsequent safeguards for women. After all, some women are unable to be financially independent and have children to worry about, and in the end they have no choice but to return to their husbands, which in turn contributes to the psychological superiority of the perpetrators of domestic violence.