When couples get along, there are often all kinds of frictions, and most of them are small things that can't be smaller. The embankment of a thousand miles is destroyed by an ant nest, so is love and marriage. When disappointment accumulates enough, he or she will leave. Many times, the reason that leads to your separation may be a trivial matter in your opinion. But you have no idea how determined the other party was at that time.
In fact, love should learn to answer. In love, honesty is the greatest courage. Divorce rate big data shows that nearly 35% of divorces are due to small family matters, ranking first among divorce reasons. Like an online buzzword? Save up enough disappointment and leave? . The movie "77 times of lovelorn love" has a ledger. When she recorded 77 disappointments, she left. This account book not only exists in movies, but also has a similar account book in our hearts. Every time the other half makes a mistake, he gets a thorn in his heart. These thorns are thick or thin, causing different degrees of damage.
However, in fact, the quarrel caused by these small things could have been solved through communication. We just didn't learn how to get married. Quarrel? This art. Whether it is a long-term love or marriage, it is important not only to love each other well, but also to quarrel seriously. Seriously fight? There is no typo or misinterpretation this time.
In fact, when it comes to quarreling, many people should be against it. Because when we get along with other people, we will avoid quarreling. Even if we really quarrel, what do we talk about the most? I don't want to argue with you, okay? This kind of thing happens more often between husband and wife, or one by one in a notebook, but in any case, they don't want to quarrel with each other. Whether it is love or marriage, it has always been calm and basically has problems. This relationship is a continuous running-in process, and there are few cases of complete harmony.