According to the report of China Judicial Big Data Research Institute, 2-7 years after marriage is the high incidence of marriage breakdown, and the divorce rate reaches its peak in the third and fourth years of marriage. There are also many couples who come to ask for help, and their marriage age is 3-4 years. Most of them are free in love and have a good emotional foundation. However, after marriage, I failed to get through the running-in period smoothly, fell into quarrels and the cold war, consumed my previous feelings a little, and even moved on. Looking at most marriages, both of them don't know much about emotional management skills, just follow their intuition, so they misunderstand each other and finally push their feelings to the Jedi.

Just after the Spring Festival in 2023, some netizens posted information on the short video platform. On the seventh day of the first month, they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle affairs, only to find that it was already a sea of people. On the day after the festival 1, divorced people have long been outside the gate! It is not uncommon to queue up at the divorce window after the Spring Festival, just like the divorce tide after the college entrance examination, which makes the divorce window of the Civil Affairs Bureau overcrowded.

Chinese New Year will expose many problems of family background. Many couples are introduced by people. They have no emotional foundation and have not been together for a long time. They rush into the marriage hall, and then the three views disagree, which leads to the end of marriage. Some of them are free to fall in love. Before marriage, whether men and women try their best to show their advantages or not, they show their nature after marriage and do not hide their shortcomings. The accumulation of trivial matters in time and quantity and the exposure of various problems lead to irreparable contradictions in the relationship between husband and wife. And the Spring Festival, it is precisely the high incidence of contradictions, a bundle of straw fell from the sky, crushing the sick camel, so the Spring Festival has also become a high incidence of divorce.

Speaking of it, Nian is really a thing that people love and hate. During the Spring Festival, it is the most important time for couples. It may seem trivial at ordinary times, but at this time it is easy to enlarge and easily produce impatience. Bian Xiao always believed that it was unrealistic to say that there was no contradiction between husband and wife. If there are contradictions, we must communicate with each other sincerely to get along.

Everyone is very busy during the Spring Festival. As long as we can communicate and discuss in time, many contradictions and sequelae will be avoided. But communication is not to poke each other's hearts and quarrel at the top of their voices. Sincere attitude and kind tone are very important. Marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it.