But in the era of big data, everyone seems to be streaking. Your secret is known to everyone except those closest to you who don't look at your mobile phone, unless you deliberately hide it.
Do you mind if the other half looks at your mobile phone?
I don't mind much. The other party can watch, but there must be a boundary. I will mind if I look at my mobile phone on purpose.
My mobile phone password is very simple, and the four numbers are easy to remember. Some good friends know my password, and when they are together, they will use my mobile phone to find information, but they will not deliberately look at other things.
If you accidentally click on important apps and materials, you will take the initiative to tell me, ask if there is anything you shouldn't see, and apologize.
But people are curious, always interested in things they don't know, and want to eat a melon at any time.
Once I went out to travel alone. For safety, I went to the hotel with another lonely traveler.
On the bus to the scenic spot, I took out my mobile phone to reply to my colleague's message. Because the other person is standing taller than me, I can feel the other person staring at my mobile phone screen in the afterglow.
After replying to the message, I turned off my cell phone and glanced at each other. Ta quickly concealed: I didn't mean to watch it.
"It doesn't matter, it's not private information." In fact, my heart is "I have been watching it on purpose."
Since then, my mobile phone membrane has been changed to anti-peeping, until now.
One is to prevent people next to you from peeking at important information; Second, in order to avoid others' embarrassment, I deliberately didn't see it on the subway or bus.
The behavior of looking at each other's mobile phones between partners should be based on trust.
Before, Lao Shi was always interested in my mobile phone and wanted to see what was in it.
But I just don't want him to see it. I think the more you want to see my mobile phone, the less you trust me. Even if there are no secrets in my mobile phone, he knows who I contact regularly every day.
There was even a quarrel over watching mobile phones for a while. He said that since you have nothing, why don't you read it? I retorted that since you want to see it, you don't believe me. If you don't trust me, watching your mobile phone won't eliminate my distrust. Besides, I don't need a mobile phone to prove myself.
It was a stalemate for a few days, and then a friend came to guide and shook hands. I also know that he only wants to look at my mobile phone to see my shopping records to guess what I like, so as to appeal to his liking.
Well, maybe that's what straight men think.
Now my mobile phone passwords and those of Lao Shi are all open to each other. He knows my password, and my mobile phone has my fingerprints. You can turn on the other party's mobile phone at any time under any circumstances.
Even when I go out together, he holds my mobile phone. It's not that we don't have secrets, but that we date him. I'm the one without a backpack. I have nowhere to put my mobile phone, so I can only hold it for him.
And when he looks at my mobile phone, he will tell me what to look at. He won't look at my privacy without my permission, and neither will I.
We have achieved a boundary in our hearts, respecting each other, allowing each other to have private space and stay out of it.
In fact, everyone has some privacy that they don't want others to see. Even close people should respect each other at this time, and they will naturally say it when they are willing to say it. If you insist on getting to the bottom of it, it will definitely hurt the relationship between two people.
Respecting others means respecting yourself and your relationship, but it needs to be based on trust.