If I ask you this, you will hate me, because no one thinks he is living in a muddle.
Isn't it?
You, a student of the Student Party, studied a popular major, knew how to start a business, and dug a bucket of gold;
Single dog, you are studying writing articles on love skills, and find him (her) waiting for you as soon as possible;
Entrepreneurs are obsessed with all kinds of economic news or big data at all levels, and can't wait to master the tricks of financial management in minutes;
More and more old birds in the workplace look forward to mastering more dry goods and becoming senior professionals.
Everyone knows the fragility and impermanence of life, so they have taken great actions to make their original parts more resistant to the "erosion" of years.
Coupled with the so-called "frozen age" and "reverse growth" that are now hotly debated, in this era of sinking fish and falling geese, everyone is eager to have an enviable image from a small fresh meat to a goddess of reverse growth, so one time: fitness, health, makeup and maintenance will fill every time that is unwilling to be ruthlessly thrown away by years.
However, I think many people are confused, including me!
Because, when we were very young, we didn't know what we would do in the future. Many of our parents don't know. Even now, many parents say that as long as you study hard, you will have a good future.
Just like sunflowers, it's a pity that they grow next to corn fields. The big sunflowers around them say, look at people, how big the corn is! Son, if you work hard and grow fast, you will bear big corn one day.
Therefore, small sunflowers can thrive. In his dream, he dreamed that he had grown a big corn and a long beard. Although, he sometimes thinks, how can a round green plate grow on his head, and tender and lovely melon seeds grow sporadically on the plate.
He can't stand being so obedient. He stretches his neck desperately for the sunshine, and his roots are trying to reach the deepest place. Why is his armpit always empty? What about the big corn cob?
This is the life of most of us, so we suddenly began to find our own way. So there are all kinds of busy up there.
I'm too busy to get needles during the day. At night, I threw myself on the bed, counted my busyness, comforted myself that it was a hard day, and ended the day with a gentle snore. Listen, in the dead of night, you will hear a broken sound, slowly, piece by piece, so clear in the dead of night, I wonder if you heard it?
Someone will give a contemptuous cry at this time: cut! I didn't! I will enjoy my life outside of work. I'm idolizing and buying a play with buy buy. I drink and eat with my friends. I play cards, gamble and watch videos. There are many things to amuse yourself. I had to smile awkwardly: you are happy.
So, what makes you say that I live in a muddle? !
Say it! or ......
Because there is too much noise now.
Every day, every one of us, as long as there is a network, will be drowned in the "sound."
From "should Apple be peeled" to choosing a job or even making a life-and-death choice, there are countless such voices. Really, there are official voices and personal voices, which all sound right. Other people's voices become your own when you listen to them too much.
In this torrent, we are like a girl in her twenties, with double eyelids on her left eye, magic eye shadow and cosmetic contact lenses, which are extremely enchanting. The right eye is completely plain, prosperous and complete, and there is light in the eyes. You can imagine what a monster it is to mix all kinds of voices and finally dress up from head to toe!
Because we want to be good people in all kinds of voices, we must go against our hearts, ourselves and the truth.
Where is the road? The road is right under your feet.
When you are used to doing everything at the speed of sprint, that is the turning point from confusion to non-confusion.
Stop, lie in bed for a while, like me, and ask yourself slowly, day after day, what do you want is efficiency? What things haven't you done yet?
For example, I came across Accidental. It turns out that what I wanted to do when I was a child was to write articles. I can start by writing Xiao Bai here, or I can start by sticking to the day shift.
Although my age has already passed Xiao Bai, my laziness is also a great challenge. Maybe my article is nothing, but I found my inner voice: here are a group of people who love reading and thinking, and here are a group of friends I have been looking for for for a long time! This is the platform I have been looking for for a long time to practice writing. Whether I can become a writer or not, at least, at this moment of my decision, my previous search and future efforts have a direction.
Attention, everyone: you should not mention that book for a certain purpose, if you are smart enough, understand? When you ask yourself what you want to do most, bravely give yourself a chance to learn and grow, and be willing to invest in your growth, it must be money and time, otherwise it is not true love. Although the future you choose is uncertain, your heart is stable.
Whether you are a big coffee maker in the high-tech industry or a rookie in a certain field, what you want to do most after leaving the cold tools for making a living is to sing, dance, or entertain yourself with a baking effort to make life sweet. Here, please open your heart and believe that you can hear your inner needs.
Don't let all kinds of voices affect your thoughts. In order to make a living, you must listen to your inner voice and find your little ones. Smart you, congratulations!