"Deep water flows slowly, shallow water falls quickly." Laozi said, people should be in the bottom, keep soft not to fight, always say nothing, do not make, when young, always think that hard work can be successful, forward is the only way. In fact, the road of life can also turn a corner, a different vision or angle to see the world, life will be different.

Therefore, the use of violence does not make people yield, but rather counterproductive, Lao Zi in the empirical world of the matter to find arguments to illustrate that what is strong belongs to the category of death, and what is soft belongs to the category of survival, Lao Zi to the human being as an example, he said, when people are alive, the body is soft, and when they die, they become stiff; grass and trees thriving, the form of the quality of the soft and brittle, and the time the flowers and leaves fall, they are soft and brittle, and the time they fall, the form and texture is soft and brittle. When the flowers and leaves fall, they become dry and withered. Therefore, "the strong, the dead; the soft, the living."

The soft things are full of vitality, strong things on the contrary, lose vitality, the so-called: "wind blowing constantly willow silk, teeth fall and tongue long survive." In fact, Lao Zi's weak claim is against the strong as put forward, strong people are bound to be headstrong, self-righteousness, the world's strife is mostly by the psychological state and behavioral patterns produced.

So, the most enduring thing is not the strongest, but the weakest. In fact, another layer of meaning of weakness, is the meaning of humility, the so-called: "modest benefit, full of loss" is the same reason, we all want to stand in the high place, we have to grab in the bright place, in the reality of the community, there is no corner is not for the personal selfish interests, and the clamor.

Softness is sometimes a law of survival.