1, there is no shortcut for offline cities to realize their dreams.
Before entering the society, I watched too many TV dramas of urban elites. Every day, they wear exquisite makeup, wear instruments, walk in a hurry, speak big data in Chinese and English, and then eat in high-end places in minutes, and their performance will go up.
Probably from this time on, I have an indescribable feeling for first-tier cities, and I always feel that only such places can give full play to my best self ~
Then, we flocked to the first-tier cities, where we dedicated our youth and pinned our dreams. The elite in city of hope is ourselves.
So, for a job that looks promising, we have submitted a lot of resumes and traveled all over the city to make up our knowledge. Later, we went to work day after day, with a fixed salary, and the most things we did were to chat with people around us about the latest gossip, brush our circle of friends and Weibo over and over again, and echo the boss's status and kiss up.
Walking on the road by subway, most people around you bow their heads to play with their mobile phones or look in love. I feel that everyone owes money. Oh, only then did we know that in first-tier cities, dreams are not so close at hand!
2. First-tier cities make life more possible
The house price is high, the pressure is high, the pace of life is fast, and the price is so expensive. While we are talking about first-tier cities, we are still keen to live here. We'd rather live in the basement, eat instant noodles and develop here. Sometimes I want to ask myself: what is the picture?
Later, we gradually found that most people who stay in first-tier cities are not for dreams, but for more possibilities. The longer I stay in the first-tier cities, I find that there is still such a living method in life, and I can still see the world like this!
In the second, third and fourth tier cities, many people have set an established route for themselves: going to school-looking for a job-looking for a partner-getting married-having children-cultivating the next generation, so we have been following this established route all our lives; But in first-tier cities, life is different, everyone is different, and the acceptance and understanding of new things, new morals and new ideas are much higher than those in other cities. In this life, you don't have to breed, you can be a dink, you can be unmarried, you can love homosexuals, and you can live any life you want freely.
In the second, third and fourth tier cities, even if these new moral concepts appear, they are likely to be silent and compromise or embark on the established route for fear of being overwhelmed by people with farming ideas around them.
There is a saying: "There is a thin line between a genius and a madman." First-tier cities contain more lunatics and believe that they are geniuses, which many other cities cannot do. This multi-possibility life is probably the greatest magic of first-tier cities.
3. Create more possibilities for yourself.
No matter where you are, please give yourself as many possibilities as possible to make your life more and more diverse. Even if you don't live in the first line, you should keep a first-line level of thinking. Needless to say, buying out Muhammad provides a certain possibility.
For example, if you buy a new mobile phone for your parents, you will have less time to go home and more time to spend with your parents; For example, buy a new camera for your girlfriend, don't stay at home in your spare time, take her out for a walk, see the scenery and leave your different scenery; For example, if you buy yourself a new computer, you will feel much better whether you play games or work.