So, Wenjing asked her husband if there are other women, but he refused to admit that he had enough of these days, and then refused to say more.

Seeing her husband's determination to divorce, Wenjing felt that there was no point in forcing her to go on, so she agreed.

However, it didn't take long for Wen Jing's husband's motives for divorce to become clear. He divorced Wen Jing less than three months, and then rumors of marriage. Until this time, everyone realized that he was outside a woman on the good, the woman because he was divorced, Wen Jing husband felt that he could not live up to the sacrifices made by the woman for him, so he insisted on divorcing Wen Jing.

Just before that, Wen Jing's husband will hide everything very well, simply watertight, so that everyone on their divorce is incredible, that he really is tired of married life. In the end, it was actually his premeditation.

It seems that Wenjing's friend who is a judge, with his many years of experience, summarized the phenomenon is very reasonable, the man took the initiative to divorce for no more than two reasons.

The first: men outside the remarried object already

Love is a Grimm fairy tale of princes and princesses, and marriage is the reality of the firewood, rice, oil and salt, no matter how much love men and women, in the enclosure stayed a long time, will be bored. Mr. Qian Zhongshu has a famous saying "people in the city want to go out, people outside the city want to come in" explains the mentality of people in marriage. Can not get is always the most mysterious, the most exciting, for men, outside the woman is more seductive, unlike his wife, life is long, only the left hand holding the right hand feeling, there is no sense of freshness and passion.

An old colleague of mine, and his wife is free love, two people all the way, is also quite love, but in the child on the second grade that year, suddenly filed for divorce, and began to rent a room outside to live. His wife came to the company to make trouble, crying about his infidelity to her, in order to outside the woman abandoned his wife and children. This coworker, seeing things fall apart, simply did not do anything and sued for divorce on the grounds of marital discord. He privately told his buddies that his wife is really far worse than the one outside, and every time he sees her, he can't leave her immediately and start a new life.

Although some men can not resist the temptation of extramarital affairs, will be with the woman outside the marriage ambiguous, but most of them will remain rational, do not want to because of extramarital feelings affect their families. But there are still some men, the adrenaline hormone is a spurt of growth, think they have found true love, so, like a moth to the flame to divorce and remarry. Of course, the prerequisite is that he and the woman outside the marriage has had some time to interact, and the woman also said to wait for his divorce, and then married him as a wife.

Usually, men in this situation, the attitude of divorce will be very determined, the more the wife does not agree to divorce, the more they will feel that his wife is not good, to stimulate the power of divorce.

Unbeknownst to them, all marriages will one day become bland, no matter how hot the emotions, will eventually be cooled in the day-to-day minutiae of the wood, rice, oil and salt. The most important thing to remember is that there is a crisis of mistrust in the marriage, and that the people who are in love with each other are not as happy as they would be if they were in love with each other.

The second kind: the man is really fed up with the woman's "torture"

The Supreme People's Court last year issued a national divorce litigation data show that: 73.4% of the divorce request is made by the woman. This shows that men take the initiative to divorce is not much, the reason why some men will take the initiative to divorce, but is fed up with the immediate marriage, or fed up with the woman's "torture".

A lot of women in love and marriage have love "for" the problem, friends strong son divorced, he took the initiative to mention. He said that since his wife and her marriage, there has not been a day of peace. Johnson and his wife was introduced to meet, love, I think she harmed the more serious, but I did not expect to get married, the more serious intensified, in her eyes, there is no one thing is right, she is either accusing or nagging every day. The strong son said he was driven crazy by her, no way, only to divorce, even if a person life do not want to go on so.

There are also some restless women, completely disregard for the dignity of the husband, outside and other men ambiguous, and even betrayed the marriage, so that men can not stand, and finally, the last resort, the man proposed a divorce one hundred percent.

Netizen Feiyang message that he and his wife married six years, the child is three years old, because of work, he often have to work night shifts. Before getting married, his wife loves to socialize, more friends, that time, although he had a slight, but in her repeated assurances, he believed her. The first year of marriage, his wife did also reduce the socialization. Just later, he worked more and more busy, she may be because of boredom, and made some friends of the opposite sex, often flirting with them at night, sometimes even the children can not care. Flyer said he always felt that his wife had cheated on him and didn't want to live with her.

Conclusion:

Remind women: a man who insists on divorcing you, either he has another woman outside the marriage, or no longer have the means to endure you. And usually these two situations, once a man is determined to divorce, often ten cows can not pull back, almost not to achieve the purpose do not stop.

As a woman, when the man took the initiative to divorce, you should be quick to say yes, or try to stay, this is of course to be treated in different situations. But in any case, we should know how to stop loss in time, do not spend time and energy in a marriage "heartless" man, because, it is not worth it.

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