The child's self-control is poor, you let him set the time to play, it is often a waste of energy, said the same as not said! In addition to the fact that the game is a game for adults, it's also a game for kids!
Playing games is actually the same as wasting time, and it's also the same as chronic suicide. I don't know how other people interpret this, but I do.
Extended thinking on this issue:
1. Playing games tends to make people fantasize about the virtual world.All kinds of imagination, all kinds of imagination with a gun and a knife, sometimes invisible fall into reality, this is the most horrible factor of the game on the children's current infringement.
2. Playing games can easily lead to sudden death.People are addicted to the virtual world for a long time, the body can not move, do not get movement, affecting the blood and epidemic circulation of the smooth, so it is easy to induce cardiovascular, gastrointestinal dyspepsia, mental irritability, anxiety, and other bad moods, and even easy to sudden death.
3, the body is vulnerable to radiation.A person in a long time in the computer next to or long time control of the cell phone, suffer from the impact of radiation is certainly very big, especially sedentary computer before the people.
4, the decline of the body's immunity.People who don't get exercise for a long time are prone to aging, and the body's immune system is easily damaged, leading to a decline in physical strength.
5, vision loss.The problem is easier to understand, long stay in front of the computer people like long play cell phone people, the screen is always great damage to the eyes, and the consequences of this damage is often irreversible.
6, the prospects are slim, academic decadence.Adults playing games addicted to, easy to affect the future. Children playing games addicted to, directly leading to the decline in academic performance, and addicted to the game of children often develop to the final result, but also very do not listen to parents, personality rebellion, temper tantrums.
As a parent of a child, if someone calls for the closure of online games, I will strongly support it!
"Both hands holding the phone, eyes staring at the screen, a high degree of concentration" This posture is not very familiar, yes, this is the state of the children playing games. Now in many occasions can be seen in such a posture, this scene let how many parents and teachers pain in the heart.
Internet games do not know how many underage children, so that their eyesight loss, early on to wear glasses. Make them addicted to the game Deserted school, in order to give the game recharge to parents lying to ask for money, and even do some illegal things.
I have such a case around me, the child began to study quite good, during the epidemic at home on the Internet class, parents have to work to take care of, the child was induced by his classmates to play on the network game, a hair out of control. The parents give the meal money are saved to charge the game coins, the daytime Internet class time to play, night and so parents sleep secretly play.
When parents found, reasoning also told, also hit the scolding, but the child is addicted to the game mindless learning, anorexia psychology, after the start of the school classes also mindless learning, academic performance is a drop. Now back home to play the game, do not give to play on hunger strike,] suicide, the child's parents are now with us to mention the tears.
The impact of online games on children is really great, and children's self-control is too poor to play and get hooked easily. If there is no adult guidance and control, it is difficult to control by the child's self-control alone. That's why it's a good idea to shut down online gaming for underage people, something that most parents support.
Nowadays, a lot of kids love to play online games, and even get addicted to them, which affects their studies. From my personal point of view, I am very much in favor of shutting down online games.
First, Mr. Gushue talked about the advantages of turning off online games:
1.
Some children usually play secretly when their parents are not paying attention, and it is difficult for parents to control them. The first thing you need to do is to turn off the online games, so that your kids don't have the chance to play any more. Adults don't have to worry about their kids playing games online anymore. It's also a great way to get the most out of your computer, and it's a great way to get the most out of your computer.
2. It reduces the cost of playing games online.
Some kids play games online and buy equipment, which costs money. A Mr. Xu 12-year-old son from July last year to August this year, secretly play games on the phone, and recharge the peace elite, the king's glory and other game software and tiger teeth, fast hand and other live platforms, *** total cost of more than 60,000 yuan. Mr. Xu said, his son while adults do not pay attention to the bank card bundled to his own cell phone, there is a password-free payment, so he played the game of the child's spending is not at all aware of.
Already, many kids are secretly spending a lot of money with their parents by playing games online. Turning off gaming solves these problems.
3. It protects your child's eyes and prevents gore and violence.
Playing games for long periods of time can be harmful to a child's eyesight. The game is designed to be dynamic and colorful, and the flames from the guns and cannons in the game are blinding. Many children nowadays have poor eyesight, and this is related to playing games. The game is a great way to protect your child's eyes.
It also avoids the negative impact that images full of gore and violence can have on children. Children exposed to violence in games for a long time can become violent.
But what if some adults want to play online games after they've been turned off? Will they agree? Would the game developers agree?
Nowadays, many adults love to play games, and they think that playing games can reduce their stress. After a long day at work, adults just want to relax, and playing games is a great way to do that. In the game, they will forget about the troubles in their lives, and let themselves get a sense of value and fulfillment in the virtual game.
Game developers make their money on this, otherwise all game developers could close down. These companies have to generate huge profits every year because it's a huge market. They pay a lot of taxes to the state, so do you think the state would let all the game development companies close?
There are some things that we can't change and can't be centered on the will of the individual. Parents can only teach their children not to play online games or to play less. Children who love to play games usually do so because they see that their parents love to play as well, or because they feel the pressure of studying is too great, so they want to relax. There are also parents who are always too busy to spend time with them, and it is difficult to communicate with them, so they become addicted to the Internet.
If you can't solve the underlying problem, and children don't get care, companionship and encouragement, even if they can't play games online anymore, they will still play other things just the same. Therefore, parents need to spend more time with their children, find out what they are interested in, and divert their children's attention. The right guidance is much better than just banning games.
What do you think?
Playing games does have a big impact on children, and can even destroy a child. But for the sake of children's healthy growth, some people call for the closure of online games, and I tend not to support the closure. I tend not to support the closure, because the children play is one aspect, the adult guide is more important aspect. There are three main reasons for this, and they are for discussion.
For the sake of children's healthy growth, if we just close the network game, can play a certain role, but can only treat the symptoms, can not cure.
Children are playful by nature, and if they don't play games, they may play something else. For example, poker, mahjong or wandering the streets, nothing to do, this is not good. For the child, always find something to play, always fill a lot of time. He will inevitably find something to do that he likes and is fun.
In this case, parental guidance plays a very important role. So, to cure the problem, parents must guide their children to develop their right interests.
If the parents love sports and guide their children to play ball or run after school, the children will love it, not only exercise the body, but also enrich the time, is not it good? If the parents are fond of playing games or playing mahjong, how can they guide their children? The child's subtle influence is enough.
There are a lot of interesting things in the world, and guiding children to discover their own hobbies, develop them, and form a habit of naturally not being interested in games. For example, origami, such as the Rubik's Cube, such as playing around with science experiments, such as singing, dancing, painting, etc., can be. If your child is in love with that, then let him or her learn that.
This is the way to get to the root of the problem.
In addition to games, there are many other temptations in our world In addition to games, there are many other temptations in our world, such as money, interests, beauty, positions, etc. These temptations are what children must experience in the future. The only thing you can do is to be passive and not take the initiative. What parents need to do is not to scold their children, but to guide them to develop a sense of time management and self-discipline. It's a little difficult, but if you calmly discuss with your child, discuss with your child, and form an executable program, even if it's for a year, to develop this habit, then it's a lifelong benefit for your child. The child has the concept of time management and self-discipline, in the future, after stepping into society, the face of other temptations, the heart has a scale, know how to do. Not all games are bad, games that many adults also play, and competitive Not all games are bad, there are some educational games that can develop the brain. Even the competitive games, there are certain benefits, can exercise the child's brain reaction ability, adaptability, organizational skills. A lot of games require teamwork, cooperation and coordination, which is difficult to achieve in real life. I don't want to make fun of you for typing, but I've been practicing in the chat room for a long time. I also played a game called StarCraft back in the day, and I think it helped me with my big-picture thinking, hand speed, organization, and distribution skills. Just, delayed learning, that is inevitable, because, I did not control myself. Furthermore, the game there are many professional players, there are many adult players, if you close the network game, this part of the people lose their jobs, lost the basis of foothold, is also not good. In short, children play games, this matter, we have to look at both sides. On the one hand, guide the child to the correct healthy entertainment projects, there are other healthy projects can play, naturally not interested in the game; on the other hand, if the child to play games, to guide the child to develop the concept of time management and self-discipline habits, to be able to control their own, the child will benefit for life. The above is just a personal opinion, for reference only. I support the closure of the network games, I do not know who invented a variety of games, so that children and teenagers are addicted to smart phones, every Sunday, holidays, many children, all day long, hands away from the cell phone, and sometimes look to forget to eat. Mobile phone games, like a magnet, attracting children of all sizes, the more they play the more addictive, some children will be so excited that they screamed, hands dancing, they completely put learning aside, full of mind is the game's brilliant picture. Mobile phone games, on the children's healthy growth, really have a side effect, a lot of children, due to play games, learning performance suddenly dropped, attention is not focused. Some will have extreme emotions and even commit suicide. It is difficult for parents to stop their children from playing games, mainly because they do not have the time to stay with their children, and no matter how much they are criticized and criticized, they can avoid the eyes of adults, and the children are still having fun. The game this play, in fact, it does not have any real meaning, is a kind of illusory super action, children see more, play more, will be whimsical, like adults gambling, always think how to win, so the more deeper they fall, can not extricate themselves. Children's self-control is poor, not like adults have restraint, play play, figure a happy, once away, can not get rid of, will produce adverse effects. If not properly guided, it is possible that the child's life will be ruined. Some people say it's not that serious, please look at the people now, eat to see, walk to see, even to the toilet are looking at the phone, must not be ah! For the sake of the children, we really need to call for the closure of the network games, cut off their thoughts. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a cell phone, and you'll be able to get it to work! What is the difference between those who support it and those who can't take a shit and blame it on the toilet? The progress of the spiritual level and rationality promotes the development of civilization in the whole society. We should not look at any issue with the idea that it's either yes or no, and should tend to be more objective and fair. Is it good for kids to play games? Objectively, from a big data point of view, it is definitely not good. But let's think about it from another angle. If there were no such online games, would children grow up healthy and successful? The answer is definitely no. Think about those of us in the 80s and before, when we were kids, there were no electronics, no online games, so did we actually grow up? It's not just a child's nature to love to play and dislike to be restrained, it's also a human ****. Even if there were no online games, there would be other ways for kids to spend their time, and it would still be impossible for most of them to take their studies seriously. Whether before or now, with or without online games, there are always good and bad students in a class, and this is the difference between individual human beings. Whether a child loves to learn or not, and whether he or she can grow up healthily, is based on a correct value of life, and is closely related to the influence of school education and family environment. As parents and schools, in the process of children's growth, to do is how to correctly guide, rather than to blame the external factors. Turn off online games, this support. I have long been disgusted with online games, and have seen the extreme abhorrence of online games by many friends, especially parents and friends. They're watching their kids all the time, not letting them play games, and at the same time berating the designers of those games for allowing them to be on the web unimpeded. Not to mention the many examples reported, such as a child playing games, refused to read and do their homework, parents angry angrily smashed the phone, the child even jumped from the high floor, the consequences of which we all know. We all know the consequences. There are also such children around us, such as young grandchildren, sister-in-laws and nephews. They negotiate with their parents for the right to play games, literally. Some parents don't buy cell phones for their children (this is supported), and parents give their children cell phones to play for a limited time. (This is supported) One of my grandchildren, in order to control his TV watching, upset cable. No fixing old TVs when they break. Doesn't buy a new TV. Until middle school, there is a new TV set, and strictly control the time. Only allowed to watch on double days, my oldest son booked the time for him. In middle school, still no cell phone. My oldest son gave him his cell phone and agreed on a time to retrieve it. There was no way around it, that's the common approach taken by parents. This time, he did well in the midterm and went to the third form before he got a new cell phone. A sister-in-law's nephew, junior high school, would have been good in all subjects. I know. This year, this epidemic, at home online class, he rightfully will control the phone in the hands of the hands. Left-behind children, his father always working outside, his mother and illiterate, for others to do housework. Sometimes in the morning a family, in the afternoon a family. They are so busy and tired that they can't even care about supervising their children. The first time I saw this, the teacher said that the results fell down, fell very much. The reason for this is to play games on a cell phone secretly, and his mother can not control it at all. Even with a cell phone to charge what value. Aunt came to me, let me check the phone, I found a lot of downloaded games, consent, I uninstalled them all. I said, this is the root of the decline in grades. Although now this aunt and nephew, play games certainly control. But the results down, all of a sudden can rise to the original? For the healthy growth of children, some people call for the closure of online games, you will support? For the healthy growth of children, some people call for the closure of online games, as a parent I am supportive. But this is not the right approach. The rapid development of online gaming has made the gaming industry bigger and bigger. Similarly, the addiction of young people to games is also becoming more and more serious. Addicted to the game in addition to affecting the child's learning, more importantly, affecting the child's health: some children play games day and night, affecting the work and rest time, a long time to the computer, cell phones, affecting the child's eyesight, damage to the eyes; long time to sit, to maintain a kind of posture, damage to the spine, cervical vertebrae. Network games for teenagers, is definitely more harmful than beneficial. "Affected by the epidemic, the global gaming market revenue will decline in 2020. Among them, sponsorship revenue will fall from $637 million in 2019 to $615 million, down 3.5%; peripheral merchandise and ticket revenue will fall from $122 million in 2019 to $107 million, down 12.3%. By contrast, live streaming revenue will rise, from $18.2 million in 2019 to $19.9 million. In 2019, the overall market size of e-sports in China reached 117.53 billion yuan. Among them, the mobile e-sports market reached 55.48 billion yuan, the end-game e-sports market was 33.05 billion yuan, and the e-sports eco-market, which includes tournament tickets, peripheral and other industries, was 29 billion yuan." From the above figures, we can see that the network game industry is huge, and it is impossible for the government to close. Shutting down online gaming, apart from the reduction in government revenue, more importantly, a large number of people will have to lose their jobs, which is not what the government wants. Online gaming is about entertainment and consumption, and it does not actively harm children. You can't deprive adults of their entertainment for the sake of the children. Therefore, there is no need to close all online games across the board. Instead, they should be better regulated. First of all, registered accounts must be registered by adults, and minors cannot be registered; secondly, recharge should also be verified, and only adult payment accounts can be recharged. You can also consider controlling the time, can not operate 24 hours a day. Teenagers addicted to online games, parents also have a great responsibility. The parents are the ones who provide the computers and cell phones, not the game companies. The need to recharge, a lot of parents are also used to pay the account, for underage children, how can parents just tell children to pay the password? The network game should be a multi-party to strengthen the supervision, rather than closed. These are my personal views, just for reference. For the sake of children's healthy growth, I support the closure of online games! As a parent, and as a teacher, I am well aware of the harm caused by students' addiction to online games. So, I think the state authorities can understand the mood of our parents, but the possibility of closure is unlikely. The game is not a beast, it has a negative side and a positive side. As a product of the development of technology to a certain stage, the majority of parents must be rationally treated. When television first emerged, parents were afraid that their children would be addicted to TV dramas that would hurt their eyes and affect their studies; when the Internet first emerged, parents were afraid that computer games would affect their studies and hurt their eyes; and now, online games are back, not only hurting their eyes, but also affecting their studies. The television has not destroyed a generation, the computer has not destroyed a generation, the network game will? Not! Parents should lead by example from the time their children are young and play with their cell phones to give them an example. If you missed out on leading by example as a child, it's not too late to start. It's sensible to make an appointment with your child for a family member to play on the phone for a limited amount of time, and to develop other hobbies. In the case of new things, it's definitely not a good idea to rely on a blockage or a shutdown. The problem of children's education can not be thrown to the state. Parents in the child's growth and education, is the first responsible person, this reasoning in any era is applicable. Let's start with an attitude, I don't support shutting down online games. There is no doubt that online gaming is a huge attraction for children, and the tragedy of minors addicted to online gaming is not an isolated case. If we want to count the negative impacts of online games on children, I think we can't say it all in a few words. It is easy for children to get addicted to them and miss out on their studies, easy for them to be irritable, easy for them to imitate blindly, and easy for them to lose their eyesight, and so on and so forth. So why don't I support turning off online games when so many negative effects can be identified? The reasons are as follows: 1) There are two sides to everything. The design of online games is, to a certain extent, easy for people to spend more time and energy, colorful images, beautiful music, fascinating links, so that many adults are y involved in which can not be extricated, and the attraction of its relatively weak self-control for the minors to speak is more unstoppable. However, moderate games can also open up horizons, find like-minded friends and enhance communication. In reality, Yao Ming and several celebrities have been fans of online games, and I've seen students who are great at playing games, and they're really just "playing games" rather than "being played by games". In fact, if parents can guide their children correctly and let them play games in a controlled way, it will not have any negative impact. If a child has a talent for games, it can be recognized as early as possible. 2. It's better to block than to block, because a blanket ban will make children more obsessed with games. There is a common phenomenon among Chinese students that they study hard before high school and play hard after college. Many students who have never touched a game before have become addicted to it after college, which not only affects their studies, but also affects their ability to find a job in the future. Objectively speaking, the main reason is that these students do not have enough self-control, but their behavior is also a way of making up for their "childhood regrets". It is precisely because they have never come into contact with games before that they are more prone to fall into them when they see them later. That is to say, parents who are obsessed with prohibiting their children from playing games can't really make them avoid the temptation of playing games, but may push them to the opposite side. 3. There are many things that attract children, but helping them develop self-control and good habits is the only way to make them grow up healthy. The game is a child's nature, children like to play games and there is nothing wrong with it, the key lies in how parents can help children develop good habits, how to help children develop self-control, and ultimately let the child take the initiative to be able to objectively "play the game" rather than "addicted to the game". Addicted to the game". The reality is easy to make people addicted to a lot of things, parents can not because the child is addicted to it completely prohibit the appearance of that thing, right? Even if you help your child to block all the temptations now, but the child will eventually grow up, will leave the parents, and then what can parents do? Eliminating the contact or denying it roughly is the only way to cure the problem. Parents need to lead by example, starting from the details of daily life, and cultivate their children's self-control. For example: a, parents need to set rules to develop the child's sense of time, play 20 minutes is play 20 minutes, not a second more. b, parents in their daily lives, first of all, to do the degree of living, recreation and moderation, to give children a good example. c, when the child in accordance with the provisions of strict compliance, parents should give timely encouragement and affirmation, so as to increase the child to continue to adhere to the power. In addition, parents can also help screen games that are suitable for their children's age, and do a good job of monitoring and guiding them. The practice of banning children from playing games seems straightforward and may be effective in the short term, but in the end, it's still a lazy move on the part of the parents, and it can't prevent children from becoming addicted to them in the future. To summarize, I think that we can put in place measures to prevent addiction, such as grading games or limiting the amount of time that minors can play, but we shouldn't simply ban them.
Playing games is not an absolute mistake, the most critical issue is to control the time and manner of children playing games. If a child is able to develop a time management method that controls when and how he or she plays, then the child's self-discipline will be very important in the future.
But the game as a new industry, from research and development, to marketing, to on-line, to the maintenance, condensed with the game practitioners of the blood and wisdom, but also to promote the employment and the development of related industries.