Last few days, I saw a so-called "older young woman" send a circle of friends, she said she wanted to find a person to accompany her to chat, preferably the kind of dead people say live. I thought for a while, I sent her a message, because I am very familiar with her situation, and I am about to be labeled as a "leftover woman", so I opened the door to send her the first paragraph of the sentence, she gave me feedback is "chicken soup drink too much although disgusting, but really will be nourished! ". She is not wrong, the current overall social environment for women still have a great deal of constraints, as long as the age of 25 has not begun to talk about marriage, very few relatives and friends to understand what you think, they will even feel horrible, this friend told me, she will read a paragraph every once in a while on the chicken soup, and then slowly let those sentences penetrate into the limbs and bones, as if Popeye had eaten spinach, can have continued to The strength to keep going. She has been struggling between her own pursuit and her family's discouragement, not knowing whether she should compromise with life, confused and inferior.
This society is very strange, the statistics of the population show that the number of men is three times higher than women, but we still have a lot of quality women around, they have higher education, outstanding appearance, extraordinary ability. Like a female friend of mine, university medicine, graduated from the army, after the army studied law, like the stars in the night sky as good as the flash, but the delay is not companion, that state even the passers-by are anxious for her, but the girl is living a colorful life, the holidays will pick a warm and beautiful place to soak in the hot springs, with their own meals with color and aroma, nutritious and tasty, every holiday in life have not been skipped, the 30 years old! She's 30 years old and still gets called "Miss". Every day when she passes by, she will be complimented from the bottom of her heart with a sentence of "ten thousand kinds of flavor". This look is how many girls want and dare not.
After graduating from college, I was focused on the work, the feelings of the problem behind, on the contrary, together with the school out of the girlfriends quickly married and had children, before and after less than a year and a half time, fast enough to let me have not saved enough money. A few days ago and her call, was told that it has been at home full-time, asked me when I plan to get married, I thought for a while and said there is no concept. She immediately and vehemently lectured me "women must get married and have children, otherwise life is not complete", I smiled and changed the subject. Completion is an ending, but not a fixed formula, my girlfriend said she has completed the task of life, but what is the task of life? But what is it? Raising children? There's certainly nothing wrong with that answer, but it's only an alternative, there's never a right answer.
A father for his daughter's blind date for eight years have failed, and finally the standard will be lowered to the bottom line, but the father did not think, their own love in the heart of the baby girl, and ultimately married to a not only their own do not like and is not worthy of **** to enjoy the life of a person, so that the marriage has what meaning? What is the point of that kind of marriage? Is it that only a marriage license can be considered a complete life?
I know a lot of girls, accompanied them to dinner and chat, witnessed them go through a variety of things, listened to the complaints, but also listened to the contentment, and understand the helplessness. Standing in this not free world, the front end of the fork in the road are lost, but look at the moment, you are in the pursuit of dreams on the road? Or are you returning to the harbor of your family? Or simply stride forward without asking the past future, please do not regret, each road is just a life journey, since it is just a trip, why not happy, beautiful, along the way ate abalone or porridge is a good experience.
In the face of this impetuous and hypocritical world, encounter worthy of love, hold hands, do a companion Lianliangzhi, from now on the good wife, mother, husband and children are not alone; to find the fate of the people to lift up their heads, to do a unrestrained sunflower, the rest of the life of the flavor of the world, the world is unique. You see a different sea of flowers in front of you, there are different sun, you can run hard, you can also stroll leisurely, how you choose to face the final chapter of their own, please do not look to the right and left to look at the passer-by's ignorant face.