We often see this kind of news in the hot list and headlines: a woman/man trapped in the online dating kill plate trap was cheated xx million.

Many people will think that because of online dating is cheated money is a very outrageous thing, obviously you even the other person have not seen, know not a few days, how can you willingly give each other transfer?

Today, I will analyze why the online dating piggy bank trap is always trapped, and what it uses the knowledge of the psychology of love and emotional routines.

It is believed that many people do not know much about this fraud mode, let's take a look at what is the pig-killing disk trap.

Simply put, Piggy Trap is a kind of crazy money through the network, "psychedelic" love scam, the network and psychedelic love is its main means, money is its ultimate goal.

The "pig" in the pig-killing disk usually refers to less emotional experience, shallow social experience, money, inner loneliness, loneliness, lack of love of the crowd, "pig-killing" refers to the fraudulent party first to find out the target group of The first thing you need to do is to find out what the target group is like, and then let them fall in love with you and trust you, so that you can finally realize the operation of collecting money.

And, most of the piggy bank scamming parties are a team, with specialists in charge of each module, pervasive invasion of the target group's private life, in order to achieve the purpose of enrichment.

Now that we know what a "piggy bank" is, I'll analyze how it uses psychology to scam people from the three steps that a piggy bank typically takes:

1.? "Looking for a pig"

The scamming parties often target those who have a lot of money, little experience in relationships, desire for love, and are lonely at heart.

They usually target people through social networks, big data, or friends circle, and figure out the character traits and personal conditions of the target group, such as lack of love, loneliness, introversion, low self-esteem, being ostracized in the real world, putting The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of the characteristics of the target group.

This step is mainly handled by the fraudster's 'data team', who usually have huge databases and sources of information, and whose control over personal information is beyond our imagination.

2.? "

This step is mainly to cultivate feelings and build trust, and is handled by the fraudulent party's "talk group", which is well versed in all kinds of emotional routines, and has figured out the emotional psychology of men and women.

They will create a quality persona that the target person likes to be close to, such as a graduate of a prestigious university, having studied abroad, a senior architect, a well-paid programmer, a literary young man, a rich second generation of money, and so on. They will create an impression that they are "rich, handsome, excellent and progressive, and also know how to love and care for people" to gain the trust of the target.

It can be said that these scammers are "masters of emotion", who understand the emotional needs of their targets and know how to make their targets fall in love with them, and take the initiative to walk into the trap of love that they weave.

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When the target's trust has been gained, the next step for the scammer is to use the feelings to cheat the money, which is when the "money laundering team" officially comes on stage, and they will make the target pay through a variety of reasonable and heartwarming sounding routines.

For example, he will say that his company's capital turnover difficulties, urgent need for money, so that you let you into the shares, together with him and his operation of the company; or his family has a change of heart, the need for money, so temporarily will be busy, can not stay with you, implying that you lend money to him through the difficult times; or he was forced by his parents to go to the blind date, do not go to the card will be stopped, to seek help from you to encourage you to give him money, and so on.

These reasons will stir up your heartache, reluctance and your own desire to help him, and you won't be able to resist transferring money to him for the sake of wanting to help him, to continue to be with him, or to prove your love for him.

It's in this kind of logical and reasonable set-up that you are cheated by him again and again until you realize that you have to stop transferring money, and by this time, the scammer may have already escaped.

The above three steps are the common ways to kill a piggy bank,in this kind of scam, the most horrible point is the "love of soul". It will utilize the human emotional psychology, such as habitual dependence, insecurity, love brain, loneliness, desire to be loved and so on qualities,for the target group to shape a perfect partner, so that they produce their own encounter with the true love of life feeling,and then lead to the They will pay, step by step, to cheat the money into their hands.

Therefore, the focus of preventing the trap of online love killing plate lies in keeping a clear mind, not trusting online persona, recognizing the guiding behaviors, not transferring the money out easily, and choosing to call the police when necessary is also a wise choice.

In short, online dating is risky, chatting needs to be careful, always vigilant, always hold their money bags.

Love is beautiful, I hope that all of us do not fall in love in love.