I have a friend A, who works in Beishangguang and settled down after working for one or two years. Not long ago, one of his classmates suddenly found him. He is not a close friend, only an old classmate. This old classmate said that he wanted to find a job in his city, hoping to get his help and want to use it with him for the time being. My friend is not the kind of unreasonable person, so he agreed.

The old classmates settled down in his home smoothly. Once, they were chatting in a class, and the old classmate suddenly said, "I've been here for a while, and you haven't invited me to dinner." Are you embarrassed? "

A got angry in an instant, let him live in his house for free and let him invite him to dinner?

Sure enough, unreasonable people are thicker than walls? Shameless?

"I heard that you are studying fine arts, and you can retouch photography, right? Our family just wants to take a group of photos, so you can take them for us. "

Is there such a brazen person?

Many people may think that people live in this world to help each other. If you help me today, he will stand up for you when I am in trouble. But it really depends on how familiar you are. If you are close friends, this small kindness is not worth mentioning. But it's just that some people, whose names you may have only seen once or twice, can't remember clearly, come to you with these miscellaneous requirements.

Then I heard that you are in real estate. Can you give me a suite?

"My mother has been forcing me to date recently. Can you pretend that my girlfriend helped me lie to my mother? "

If you are busy, you can refuse. I suggest you refuse on the spot. This friend is not very familiar, but he is no stranger. The most terrible thing about this kind of busy is that there will probably be a second time and a third time after the first time. Once you tell a lie, you have to tell it countless times to get it right. This is really a thankless thing. So don't hesitate to say no on the spot? Even good friends are busy, should they help or not?

How to refuse unreasonable demands from others;

There are objective force majeure factors that hinder prevarication. For example, I'm busy these days and I haven't been back to xx recently. And so on.

Directly show that the other party's request is unreasonable and you can't accept it.

Just ignore each other and pretend not to see the news is busy.

Offer trading terms to the other party. For example, what can you give me in return for doing this for you, or what can you do for me?

The picture comes from the internet.