I didn't understand the meaning of this sentence when I was young. Anyway, I often hear a lot of adults mention it. It was not until the last two years that I really understood the truth behind this sentence.

There is a man in the village who has been mixed with the underworld since he was a child. When I was only about ten years old, his house was always divided into several floors inside and outside at the end of each year, and a small bungalow made of blue bricks was packed. Everyone went to his house to join in the fun, some played cards and bet, and many people were watching.

However, no one cares about his family at ordinary times. After the Spring Festival, everyone is bored. Let's find a place to have fun. It happens that grandpa four loves gambling.

Later, after three or four years, grandpa four, who became the boss of the underworld, became famous all over the country and started an iron mine at home with his power. Although it was only a small mine, those years were the outbreak of iron ore, and Grandpa Four made a lot of money with this small iron ore.

Xinwanzi has built a beautiful building with luxurious decoration and unique design. A large garage was specially built under the building, and he bought a very domineering black off-road vehicle himself.

Every time I see grandpa four, he is so high-spirited and full of pride. Yes, young and promising, with a successful career, friends, money, power and contacts in all directions are under his control. Is there anything more enjoyable in life?

Grandpa four changed from a little-known gangster to a rich and powerful man overnight. No matter at ordinary times or on holidays, there are always several people in the bay vying to visit his house. It seems that everyone wants to be friends with him. This is actually the charm of money.

The so-called distant relatives visit Toyama, and no one cares about the busy city in poor cities.

My house and grandpa four's house are in a row, and I can't see anything when I look up every day. What attracts me to stop and watch is always the magnificent cars parked in front of his house, and many men and women who wear gold and silver and behave abnormally.

At that time, everyone in the Bay loved to talk about Grandpa Four's glorious deeds. Everyone was far less successful and prestigious than him, but they were envious. After all, he used to be just an ordinary poor boy in the bay, surrounded by his family and desolate.

This enviable beauty lasted for several years.

But in recent years, every time I go back to my mother's house, I find his house very deserted. Sometimes the door is closed on holidays, and I only see his wife and two daughters at home.

Even after the Spring Festival, there were few people in his family, and the visiting guests and guests suddenly disappeared. People in several bays no longer compete for his gambling cards.

What a nice tree! No one is rushing to find grandpa four to play with!

Grandpa four, who used to have unlimited scenery, seldom goes home now. Once or twice, he looked depressed and sad, his hair was a little gray, his face was wrinkled, and he wore ordinary and cheap clothes and slippers.

He looks like a complete ordinary citizen. I can hardly believe that this is the all-powerful and famous grandpa four.

Everyone is snobbish, there is no denying that each of us has vanity. Some people are crazy or even hysterical, while others are indifferent.

I think that no matter whether people around you are rich or poor, they should be treated fairly and equally.

Everyone's life cannot be smooth sailing. Don't be too arrogant when you are proud, and don't give up when you are frustrated. Because people's fate is unknown, we can never predict what will happen tomorrow.

Perhaps, today you are a rich boy who is uncontested, but tomorrow you may become penniless.

Even if you are just a penniless street sleeper today, tomorrow you may be a red man standing on the stage with infinite glory and wealth.

And ordinary people like you and me don't have to sigh sadly After all, maybe one of the people who will become rich in the future is you?

03

There is a relative's nephew Xiaolin, who looks ordinary and has a very ordinary family. When I was a teenager, I went out to work without much study and never made a name for myself. His parents have been renting a house in Huanggang city and living a hard life.

Kobayashi's relatives and friends always avoid Kobayashi's family for fear that their family will ask them for money. After all, if people are too poor, they won't have any relatives, let alone friends who care about each other.

Who wants to have a hard time with a penniless poor boy? Nothing to gain.

It can be said that what Kobayashi experienced in many difficult days was the ruthlessness and ruthlessness of human nature. Although he is kind and enthusiastic, he is also extremely forbearing to others. If others are in trouble, he always stands up and tries his best to help.

However, no matter how good he is to others and how much he has paid, others will always stay away from him because of a poor word, and it is impossible to treat him as a true friend. Relatives who love the poor and the rich are even more hypocritical and indifferent to him.

He was humiliated and cold-eyed, and was treated unfairly because of poverty.

No one, give his heart.

No one treats him equally.

However, God may always care for good people.

Three years later, Kobayashi ventured to borrow hundreds of thousands from the bank and set up a loan finance company in Shenzhen. From a company with only one person to a company with more than 30 people now, his annual profit has exceeded 654.38+0 million.

Kobayashi, born on 9 1, has now bought a house in Shenzhen, with a total amount of 2 million yuan, and a Mercedes-Benz of more than 900,000 yuan. My girlfriend is also the daughter of a rich family in Shenzhen. He has a bright future.

Those relatives and friends who once ignored Kobayashi and treated him coldly are also constantly calling him in various names to catch up and chat with the family. From time to time, I buy a lot of gifts to take to take care of his parents in his hometown, saying that he is thinking about old feelings.

They seem to forget how they turned a blind eye when Xiao Lin was down and out.

They all hope to get something from Kobayashi who made a fortune, but they don't know that they have never paid for Kobayashi. How can they get it?

Xiao Lin only said a very plain word to those flattering relatives and friends. Once upon a time, you didn't know me when I had nothing. When I was young, I didn't know you either. Go, do not send!

Those people were all red-faced, silent, bowed their heads in embarrassment, took the gift, left in despair, and never came to see Xiao Lin again.

04

I believe that many of us may be Grandpa Four who got rich overnight, or Xiao Lin who has worked hard for many years and finally succeeded. Before becoming famous, we will all experience a lot of cold reception and sarcasm, but there is no need to care too much about the external evaluation and attitude.

Life, a lifetime, is so long, who loses and who wins, who knows?

How do you know that the rich man you pursue today is not the prisoner of tomorrow?

How do you know that the poor people you trample mercilessly today will not be rich businessmen tomorrow?

How can you judge who is crying and who is laughing until the last moment?

Fate is unpredictable, there are always surprises and surprises, which comes first? When will you come? Who sent it?

We will never know the most accurate answer.

When you are still proud, don't be too arrogant. After all, no one can be beautiful forever.

When you are frustrated, don't be too discouraged. After all, tomorrow is immeasurable.