I got paid in advance and have no money to repay the mortgage. I asked my wife for 2000 yuan, but she said whoever bought the house would pay it back. I'm Yang Sheng, and I met my wife on a blind date. Although we didn't know each other before, let alone have deep feelings, our married life is still happy. However, a recent incident upset our little happiness, even to the point of divorce.

And this thing is related to mortgage. It is said that the price is sour only when you have a house. Who gets married and doesn't buy a house now? Although I graduated a few years ago, I haven't saved enough money to pay the down payment. Later, I paid the down payment with the help of my parents. Finally bought a house and married her into the house.

After we got married, we were both working, and all the expenses were spent on me. Her salary was kept by herself. One month's mortgage payment is not much, and my salary is enough. However, my mother-in-law was hospitalized some time ago. As a son-in-law, I have to express it. So I took tens of thousands of dollars and sent it directly.

And these tens of thousands of dollars are my wages paid in advance, which is why this month's mortgage is still a little difficult. My wife spends four or five thousand yuan a month, all by herself. Usually I don't say anything, but this time I really have no choice.

So after dinner, I said to her, "Wife, give me two thousand yuan. My salary this month is not enough to repay my mortgage. " However, my wife said to me coldly, "whoever buys a house will pay back the money." Hearing this, I jokingly said, "Daughter-in-law, don't make fun of me. Isn't this the money for seeing your mother? " .

Who knows, she said, "Before we got married, you said not to let me worry about the house. Now, how long have you been married, and you are beginning to think about my salary. I can't afford this money, so I will find a way. " I'm not the kind of person with a good temper. If it weren't for me and her mother, I wouldn't have paid the mortgage.

Just ask her to give me two thousand dollars temporarily, and she said. What kind of husband and wife is this? So the more I think about it, the more angry I get, and I can't help cursing her. This scolding didn't matter, so she quarreled with me, even to the point of divorce. After the quarrel, she went straight back to her parents' house, and she didn't answer my phone. I really don't know what I did wrong.

02 Mr. Slow Half Beat said

Hello, Yang Sheng, I sympathize with your experience. Nowadays, the pace of people's life is accelerating, and many people have no time to fall in love at all, so more marriages are achieved through blind date. However, because there is no contact before, it is easy to have problems after marriage.

It stands to reason that because you helped your mother-in-law, it is difficult to repay the mortgage, so your wife should be considerate of you, let alone transfer to two thousand. Surprisingly, however, when you asked your wife for money, she said such sad things. This is really not what a wife should say.

Judging from what your wife said, she is a selfish person and never thinks of others. It is said that husband and wife are birds in the same forest. Since they are husband and wife, they should share the difficulties, so that they can be considered husband and wife. However, she only thinks about herself, not the family. I believe it's hard for anyone to go through this.

In fact, you should have gone back to her. Since I bought a house, why do you live there? They all say we shouldn't be apart, but for such a selfish woman, don't be nostalgic. Why should people wronged themselves? Since she doesn't consider herself a member of this family, why do you think she is a family?

Now that she is threatening to divorce you, try to see if she really wants a divorce or is trying to scare you. If it's true, you can get out of your misery. If it is false, if you can stand her, you should teach her a lesson and live a good life.