Tell you why mature women are more attractive to men.
men are fragile.
I think I have to admit that men are actually fragile animals, especially in modern society where competition is so fierce. So in my opinion, mature women with independent mentality are really much cuter than those little girls who fantasize that everything depends on men after marriage. Originally, women seem to be born secondary, and tend to be passive and submissive in the relationship between men and women.
and those young girls seem to be born innocent and pitiful. When things happen, they will ask you tearfully, "What should I do? I am so scared. " But have they ever thought that men will encounter difficulties and setbacks, men will be very tired and men will burst into tears? After a hard day's work, the man at the bedside may just want to lie in bed and rest for a while. Since he is so tired, don't force him to tell you I love you in several different ways. Let him rest for a while, and he will have the strength to work hard for you and this family!
It's a pity that little girls often don't know this. They only exist for spring-I want a car, a house, a trip abroad, a 1-carat diamond ring, and I want you to take me to work every day! Alas! Have they ever thought about what they have paid for themselves? They always only know how to make demands, and when you meet these demands, they will never be grateful.
one more thing, which also discourages me as an old man. I really want my other half to be financially independent. You know, everyone has their own goals in life. At this stage, it is a question of love that men can take care of you, not a question of reason. Therefore, in a relationship between men and women, if women want to be respected, the first thing they need to do is economic independence. Yes, I can pay the mortgage and the car, but at least, you must be able to support yourself. Otherwise, what's the difference between you and Mi Chong?
In this world, only mature older women can make you feel that the dual independence of spirit and economy is truly worthy of respect. Yes, when a woman has a certain age, experience and self-confidence spirit, she will tolerate you, understand you and support you at critical moments like a mother. Believe me, if you do this, your man will appreciate you, and when the time comes, he will definitely have an unexpected return.
Many beautiful and proud
Beautiful women are usually extremely proud. The more beautiful they look, the more proud they will be. There is no doubt that when youth meets beautiful women, no one can resist the graceful figure, let alone those men full of male hormones. But although such a woman is beautiful, she often stumbles along. Beautiful girls often have incomparable princess temper, which makes men bow their heads and give in. Over time, no matter how hard-working a man is, he will get tired, and once he can't muster his enthusiasm because of fatigue, it will lead to a deeper minefield, which makes people sigh that "being with a beautiful woman is like being with a tiger."
Of course, princesses never worry about the lack of space around them. Hard-working suitors can queue from the Bund to Xujiahui, can't they? Unfortunately, no amount of effort is more than repeating the above cycle. Good people who are willing to bear the burden of humiliation and sacrifice their lives for justice are rare, but they are often dismissed as substitutes without accent.
variables usually appear after several cycles. Age makes women let go of the princess's aura and begin to understand the meaning of cherishing. I began to understand that a woman's most powerful weapon is not beauty, nor tears, but gentleness. Beauty is only used to attract each other, and gentleness is only used to keep good men. Whether you know how to use the weapon of tenderness is the key to distinguish women from girls. Turning pride into reserve and embracing the men around you with more patience and gentleness are far more powerful than the youth and beauty of that year.
an "old woman" can have the same romance and pursuit as a man, but for the opposite sex, it is obviously more relaxed and happy to spend time with a woman who is mature in all aspects. Men don't have to think about pleasing everywhere, and "old women" naturally know how to distinguish between truth and hypocrisy or purposeful material pursuit. Having a good proper limit for men is almost a skilled skill of an "old woman". She knows not to embarrass men when she loses her temper, and she also knows how to take the initiative to play the role of harbor when the other person is in a bad mood. She even sends warmth through text messages when men are sweating and struggling. This kind of warmth may be ignored by girls, but it is undoubtedly more destructive to the opposite sex.
interestingly, almost every man has gone through this process: chasing the girl he likes, but when he really makes a choice, it is often not the end of the initial fanaticism. Love and marriage are not the same thing Girls are beautiful, but they don't get along as well as "old women". The end of sensibility is rationality. Maybe this is why men like "mature women".