Some men’s income is not enough to achieve their ideal state of life. When looking for a partner, they hope that the woman can help them achieve their ideal life state. This is why men ask women about their income.

I have a friend who is married now, but before she got married, it was basically men who spent her money. After getting married, the situation can improve, but I didn’t expect that the down payment for the house we bought together would be Not only did she contribute half of it, but she would also have to pay more for the mortgage than the man did in the future.

Actually, I thought at the time that the man was so carefree, how could he be interested in her? He just wanted to have a good job in her. Her parents worked hard to raise a daughter like her. She had to marry far away, and her parents had to pay a lot of money. She was admitted to the civil service and had a stable income, but the man frequently asked for money.

I asked her what do you like about him. The girl said that she was not good-looking, but to have such a handsome man willing to marry her, she wished she could get married right away.

Well, it seems that we both need each other.

The man is after her money, the woman is after his appearance.

After getting married, the girl was promoted to team leader, and most likely section chief in the future. Men kept asking about her income, that is, how much she could contribute to the family, but every time the girl When someone asked the man, "Didn't your salary get a raise?" the man said that he still had to save money to start a business so that the family's income would be higher. Such high-sounding nonsense. None of our friends believed it, but she was convinced.

My husband and I have been together for a long time. He will also ask me how much I paid this month, and forget it. At least he knows what the total income of our family is this month. Usually he will estimate how long I can spend the money, and if I don't spend enough by then, he will give it to me. But sometimes, I still feel uncomfortable when he asks me how much my salary is. Although I am not the breadwinner of the family, my money is basically spent at home, such as buying food and cooking, buying clothes and milk powder for my children. , it costs money to go out to play with my children, etc. I will not ask him for money until I have no money. Therefore, I feel uncomfortable when he asks me about my income, because I don’t save money secretly.

I think men should be like my brother. He would never ask about my sister-in-law’s income. He always said, I am responsible for raising the family and repaying the loan. How much is her income? It's her own income, she can spend it however she wants. I have no questions.

Atmosphere.

I think couples should know that each other’s income is open and transparent, but they should not control each other’s income. The money is earned by each other’s hard work, so let each other decide how to spend it.

Just purple.