Real rich people have some characteristics.
Some time ago, a Japanese variety "Hundred Million Marries" was madly watched by netizens on Weibo.
The content of the program is a bit ruined: five women who worship money are going to have a blind date with rich male guests.
The women who worship money are young and beautiful, including models, singers, female anchors, former women's groups, love beans, and student sisters.
On the other hand, the male guests are not all rich, but some of them are really rich and some are fake.
Women who worship money should judge who is really rich according to their words and deeds.
As long as you find out the real rich man and confess to him, he will really try to associate with you after the show.
1 male, tax accountant, 3 1 year-old, whose annual income is confidential, is the highest, so all the young ladies feel suspicious.
No.2 male, gym owner, usually invests in real estate, 36 years old, with an annual income of about 2.7 million RMB, looks like a copy of Tao Zhe.
No.3 male, CEO of IT enterprise, with the highest annual income of 600 million yen (about 36 million RMB), is a bit fancy to wear.
There are also men No.4 and No.5, who also claim to be operators of big companies.
The blind date began. A gold digger asked No.3 IT man, "Where do you usually buy clothes?"
IT man replied without hesitation: "ZARA". Everyone in the place has an unbelievable expression.
After all, in the impression of most people, rich people generally wear high-definition and luxury goods.
And ZARA's ordinary T-shirt is only 100. How can the rich choose such a civilian fast fashion brand?
On the other hand, the fitness man inadvertently revealed his high-end watch and revealed that he was driving an Alfa Romeo car.
In the interactive session of outdoor BBQ, IT man took the initiative to open red wine for everyone.
Unexpectedly, the posture is not skilled at all, and the young ladies present are more suspicious:
"Aren't rich people generally good at tasting and opening wine?"
And the fitness man who chatted happily with the gold diggers around him outlined his entrepreneurial experience in an airy way:
"Because my brother lives in Manhattan, I have to go by private jet once a month.
When I was studying art in California, I happened to know a popular way to lose weight, and then I went back to China to start a business and achieved success in my career. "
In contrast, IT men's entrepreneurial experience is much more simple:
"I hate working for others, and I started my own business after working for half a year.
I am a person who is not suitable for working for others. It is difficult for me to follow their rules, but I like to create rules. "
When asked where he usually spends his money, the IT man's idea is: spend money on experience.
It is not impossible to buy a car and a brand, but the happiness these things bring to you is short-lived and instantly falls into nothingness.
Therefore, he is more willing to spend money on traveling with friends and creating beautiful memories.
How's it going? Did you guess?
A fitness man who wears famous brands and watches and has a background of studying abroad is actually just a 18 actor, not a rich man at all.
The IT man who wears ZARA and is not very skilled in opening red wine is an uncompromising rich man.
IT male's real name is Fukuda Tuozai, he has been in magazines and published books, and his annual income is 600 million yen in 3 1 year.
The money worshippers were shocked and felt that they had lost hundreds of millions.
In fact, real rich people, like IT men, generally have these three characteristics.
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Do not deliberately pursue luxury goods.
I met an elder sister at a party, and I always talked with famous brands.
"Yesterday, I took a fancy to a Dior high-definition dress, which was worn by Angelababy. It was beautiful."
"Oh, my God, why is that woman still carrying off-season LV? It's really vulgar."
"This salmon is too stale. Japanese food is still going to Chikuyotei in Ginza, which is delicious."
I thought this sister must have a good family, and I didn't know until I asked:
She/Kloc-came out from rural areas to work at the age of 0/6, and now she works as an administrative assistant in a foreign-funded enterprise.
Surrounded by colleagues who often travel abroad, she gradually began to burst into vanity.
LV is on his back, and he bought it by installment loan, and he has to pay back the flowers as soon as he gets paid;
Japanese materials have seen a lot from Japanese dramas. Usually, it is not braised chicken rice and Lanzhou Lamian Noodles that are eaten most often;
Dwelling in a rented room of 20 square meters on the edge of the city, friends circle always likes to locate some five-star hotels.
The real rich man will not deliberately pursue luxury goods, and will not deliberately show off.
Jobs, wearing a black pullover, Levi's jeans and new balance sneakers for ten years;
Zuckerberg, the closet is always the same round neck and gray short sleeves;
Chow Yun Fat, wearing 15 yuan's cheap shoes, went shopping by bike and donated 5.6 billion yuan naked;
Wang Leehom, who was exposed at the scene of the program, always wore socks full of holes, and a piece of clothing was patched for more than ten years ...
Jiang Xun, the master of aesthetics, put it well:
"Once you deliberately pursue what big names, once you deliberately go along with what standards, you have lost your taste.
Taste is being yourself, knowing what you really want, and knowing how to live in life. "
Real rich people do not deliberately pursue luxury goods, but live in good taste.
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I like to spend money on experience.
I once asked my friends around me:
"What did you think was the best thing you spent last year?"
Someone said, "I saved my living expenses for two months and went to a concert on May Day."
Someone said, "I went to Hong Kong Disneyland with my boyfriend."
Others said, "I took a vacation for myself and stayed alone in Tokyo for five days."
No one thinks that the most valuable thing to spend money is to buy something, but to buy experience.
There is a word in psychology called "hedonic indication". It means that happiness is always easily adapted by the brain.
The things we dream of, at the moment we get them, begin to be less happy.
And if you spend money on experiences, such as buying concert tickets, taking French classes, attending cooking classes, and going to Monaco for a holiday. . . . . .
Then, you will feel happier for a longer time.
Just as psychologist Gilovic found: "Any exciting product will look mediocre after two weeks of use. But experience will precipitate into a part of ourselves and live in our lives forever. "
Real rich people generally understand this truth: spending money on experiences can bring more satisfaction than spending money on things.
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Spend time on things that are really valuable.
Real rich people may be as clumsy in life as IT men.
Because their time is spent on something really valuable.
For example, Wang Jianlin's itinerary, which once exploded a circle of friends.
I got up at 4 o'clock in the morning, and I was so full of work all day that I didn't even have time to catch my breath.
For example, when Zhang Chaoyang broadcast live at Wuzhen Internet Conference, he revealed his tight schedule and was so busy that he only slept for 4 hours every day.
/kloc-go to bed at 0/:00, get up at 4: 30, and watch the news at 5: 30-6: 30;
Carefully prepare live broadcast content from 7: 00 to 8: 00, live broadcast from 8: 00 to 9: 00, and daily meeting at12: 00-18: 00;
18: 00-19: 00 running ...
For example, Bill Gates gets up at 6 o'clock every morning, he can stay awake for 36 hours as soon as he gets to work, and then fall asleep for 10 hours.
For example, Apple CEO Cook gets up at 3: 45 every morning, and he is the first to go to the office every day and the last to leave.
For example, JeffImmel, CEO of General Electric, has been working 100 hours a week for 24 consecutive years.
In contrast, we fish at work and gossip in the tea room;
Go home from work to brush friends circle, watch short videos, play games, stay up in bed in the morning and watch cool articles.
Why do those bosses like to spend their time at work when they are so rich?
There is a word in psychology called "flow", which means:
When people are immersed in something they are doing now, they are absorbed, devoted and enjoy a state of mind.
When the flow occurs, there will be a high degree of excitement and fulfillment, and it will be difficult to feel the passage of time.
Some people will have a flow experience when playing games;
The real bosses will feel the joy of forgetting me when they study and work.
They like challenging projects to gain great satisfaction and sense of accomplishment;
They don't like looking for short-term pleasure in short videos or small games, but are more eager for fulfilling happiness, such as deep work, reading and fitness.
The richer people are, the more they like to spend their time on really valuable things.
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Write it at the end
This variety show of the island country can't help but meditate after reading it:
Instead of expecting to marry into a rich family, it is better to see and learn the characteristics of the rich first.
This road of life has never been once and for all.
There is no shortcut, it is better to become the real King on your own.